So I need some advice. For the past few months, I've been working with a gorgeous female personal trainer at a gym nearby and I've always been curious to see what her feet look like out of shoes.
Here's the thing: She's actually a lesbian, but it seems like she could very well be open to showing me what they look like if I ask.
I haven't seen her in a week or so, so I was planning to just send a text like "Hey! How've you been?" or something to ask. Ideally, I'd love to worship those puppies, but I've actually been having luck with friends by asking if they could model their feet for me.
Is it worth asking her? What would be the most non-creepy way to get some sort of access to those feet? HELP!
Posted by BTL2.0 (Member # 49128) on :
Well, first off, she is your personal trainer, as in you pay her cash to provide a service. Your relationship with her is business. So while you are having luck with friends responding well to your foot requests its a different ball game with them.
If she isn't really training you that good and you planned on getting a different one anyways then by all means give'r but I personally wouldn't recommend it. Or IF you do decide to say fuck it, perhaps mention aquatic training if there is a pool at the gym you go to. Gets her outta sneakers and into flip flops and you don't have to risk your business relationship with her, not to mention, if your request is met with a negative reaction by her then you can rest assure she will spread word about why she dropped you as a client to the other trainers there...
Posted by hyperion (Member # 39397) on :
Yes, this is a business relationship. You'll completely undermine it if you do this. Plus, you'll end any positive relationship you have with the gym. No (female) trainer will want to work with you after this gets around, and you'll be watched by the staff. And of course they have your name, address and other info.
If the situation gets uncomfortable enough that you stop going to this gym, then you have the added "tax" of not using the whole length of your contract.
In summary, I advise you to full stop here. There's millions and millions of girls with pretty feet out there to entice out of shoes.
Posted by feetiesandtoes (Member # 32674) on :
quote:Originally posted by hyperion: Yes, this is a business relationship. You'll completely undermine it if you do this. Plus, you'll end any positive relationship you have with the gym. No (female) trainer will want to work with you after this gets around, and you'll be watched by the staff. And of course they have your name, address and other info.
If the situation gets uncomfortable enough that you stop going to this gym, then you have the added "tax" of not using the whole length of your contract.
In summary, I advise you to full stop here. There's millions and millions of girls with pretty feet out there to entice out of shoes.
Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
Ask her if she knows anything about Yoga, and if so, see if she'll give you a peaceful setting instruction. Well maybe not... If it was me and that happened esp. if we left a training session and she took her shoes and socks off while in aerobics or Yoga pants I wouldn't be able to hold my fetish in to her. I wouldn't be able to lay on my stomach either.
If not, there's no harm in asking an attractive woman out, even is she's full lesbian.
Posted by Icarus (Member # 46711) on :
quote:Originally posted by feetiesandtoes:
quote:Originally posted by hyperion: Yes, this is a business relationship. You'll completely undermine it if you do this. Plus, you'll end any positive relationship you have with the gym. No (female) trainer will want to work with you after this gets around, and you'll be watched by the staff. And of course they have your name, address and other info.
If the situation gets uncomfortable enough that you stop going to this gym, then you have the added "tax" of not using the whole length of your contract.
In summary, I advise you to full stop here. There's millions and millions of girls with pretty feet out there to entice out of shoes.
Totally agree with this advice!
Posted by edelbrock (Member # 17055) on :
quote:Originally posted by 5thgear: If not, there's no harm in asking an attractive woman out, even is she's full lesbian.
Try to explain this to anyone who supports the current SJW narrative and they'd have a fit, especially if her sexuality is known.
I personally wouldn't (ever) ask a girl out before building or attempting to build a personal relationship first. If you aren't the top 90% of attractive guys, your best bet is to search for common ground and use it to your advantage. I've never been a fan of a "cold" approach. You should at least try to see if you're able to entertain her before getting her to agree to spend an unknown amount of personal time with you. If all you do is talk about diet and training then you have no real incentive to want to spend time with you.
Just my two cents.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
Are you on fairly friendly terms with her? As 5thgear suggested, you could bring up the subject of yoga with her, or also pilates, which is done barefooted as well. If she's not into either one of these, sorry, but you might have to drop it.
Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
quote:Originally posted by edelbrock:
quote:Originally posted by 5thgear: If not, there's no harm in asking an attractive woman out, even is she's full lesbian.
Try to explain this to anyone who supports the current SJW narrative and they'd have a fit, especially if her sexuality is known.
I personally wouldn't (ever) ask a girl out before building or attempting to build a personal relationship first. If you aren't the top 90% of attractive guys, your best bet is to search for common ground and use it to your advantage. I've never been a fan of a "cold" approach. You should at least try to see if you're able to entertain her before getting her to agree to spend an unknown amount of personal time with you. If all you do is talk about diet and training then you have no real incentive to want to spend time with you.
Just my two cents.
So SJWs have a problem with hetero men asking out attractive women? I'm glad that I don't interact with those pussies or else they'd learn a hard lesson aside from politics and finger pointing.
Posted by edelbrock (Member # 17055) on :
Yeah 5thgear. It seems to me that any public interaction can be considered harassment, particularly anything with a sexual undertone up to and including both commenting on a girls appearance whether positive or negative, or attempting to solicit a date.
For the record I do not agree with these rules but I do consider it when I approach any women.
Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
quote:Originally posted by edelbrock: Yeah 5thgear. It seems to me that any public interaction can be considered harassment, particularly anything with a sexual undertone up to and including both commenting on a girls appearance whether positive or negative, or attempting to solicit a date.
For the record I do not agree with these rules but I do consider it when I approach any women.
I know exactly where you're coming from. But a lot of female personal trainers are sexy and know it so they expect the attention. There's nothing wrong with asking a woman out as long as you leave her alone if she says no.
Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
Nahhh. This is a bad idea on every level. Personal (she's a lesbian man...c'mon) professional (all kinds of misconduct) and just flat out karma.
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