My girlfriend of almost 2 years is lovely, but I find her feet to be sub par. This is something she knows even though its never been said flat out. Her toes are oddly shaped, there are times where a nail looks slightly unhealthy. I'm not mesmerized by the soles in the same way that many arouse me. Although, her arches are out of this world.
She compares her feet to others, and knows she doesn't have the most attractive pair of feet. They're very mediocre. If it were any worse I don't think I'd be able to worship them at all. Her arches are the best thing going for her. I never tell her I dislike them but she can tell. I rarely admire them totally. I could sit and admire beautiful feet all day, but I never do so with her. I never really tell her they're pretty unless she mentions something.
She loves the fetish though. She's mastered every aspect. I get feet in my face during sex, blowjobs, hand jobs etc. She's really good at (light) domination. She knows all the right things to say. I probably get feet 70 percent of the time during sexual activity.
I know there's nothing I can do, and I shouldn't really complain since I get feet so often. There are probably many foot fetishists out there who get to engage with feet, but they might not be able to do so to the fullest extent desired. She's just so accepting of it and enjoys it, but sometimes the look just kills me. Sometimes I worry it might end up being a detriment to the relationship, because even though I get feet all the time, I sometimes still feel very unsatisfied. Almost every time she leaves the house I go and masturbate to feet on the internet. I'm not saying I need a total 10 out of 10 pair of feet, but it's very conflicting. I don't mean to sound like an ungrateful asshole, but I just needed to share. I know you can't have it all.
Posted by Peter, Peter (Member # 40235) on :
Damn brother, it sounds like you already have it all. So her feet aren't a perfect 10, but everything else tells me she is damn near a perfect 10. I hear you though, my lady's feet are also on this same boat.
Posted by coryr (Member # 49869) on :
quote:Originally posted by Peter, Peter: Damn brother, it sounds like you already have it all. So her feet aren't a perfect 10, but everything else tells me she is damn near a perfect 10. I hear you though, my lady's feet are also on this same boat.
Thanks man. I really do appreciate that. You're right
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
Is there a size issue? You like big feet but she has small or vice versa?
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
This is a tough one, Dude; I can't speak for you but I have to have the feet up to, or very close to, my standard for a long term relationship. I would have spied them within days of knowing her, and if I didn't care for her feet, we would have stayed in the friend zone.
[ September 19, 2016, 03:06 PM: Message edited by: footjoyboy ]
Posted by coryr (Member # 49869) on :
quote:Originally posted by oneagain: Is there a size issue? You like big feet but she has small or vice versa?
She has a size 5. I'm fine with that though I wouldn't mind if they were just a little bigger. Maybe a couple sizes. I've definitely developed an interest in bigger feet though throughout the years. They're a little wide. She can't wear flats which is kind of a bummer. I like slender. Even wth bigger I like slender. Her toes are very short and stubby though, and sort of go in different directions. The arch is definitely the best thing her feet have going. If they were flat it'd be much more different
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Posted by coryr (Member # 49869) on :
quote:Originally posted by footjoyboy: This is a tough one, Dude; I can't speak for you but I have to have the feet up to, or very close to, my standard for a long term relationship. I would have spied them within days of knowing her, and if I didn't care for her feet, we would have stayed in the friend zone.
I tried to look past that at first. But sometimes it's tough to think this could be it. Especially considering my tastes/preferences are considerably different.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
Can her feet be fixed with a spa pedicure? Or are they beyond that?
Posted by coryr (Member # 49869) on :
quote:Originally posted by dougiezerts: Can her feet be fixed with a spa pedicure? Or are they beyond that?
She does home pedicures and whatnot but the issue is more shape and size. They're fine enough for me to indulge in but just barely. I really shouldn't be complaining. Even though I think many foot fetishists would share my opinion of her feet, I still get feet constantly.
Posted by SOLEjerX (Member # 48925) on :
PICTURES, PLEASE?????? I like to see what we're working with here!!!! Posted by coryr (Member # 49869) on :
quote:Originally posted by SOLEjerX: PICTURES, PLEASE?????? I like to see what we're working with here!!!!
I don't have any pictures. I never felt the need to take any. And seeing as she has a strong intuition that I find them mediocre, it would seem odd if I asked to take some. All I can give you are the previous descriptions. Oddly shaped, stubby toes, wide, etc.
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Posted by Little feet lover (Member # 46410) on :
You would be surprised at what a talented nail technician pull off. I think taking her to the nail shop for a weekly pedicure is a good start. You will see her feet actually become prettier and more desirable. A good technician will enhance the appearance of her feet for sure. You are lucky that your girlfriend accepts, understands and enjoys your fetish together.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
Yeah, treat her to a professional pedicure, as opposed to one she does herself. Obviously, she's open to your fetish, so it seems a shame to me that you'd give her up because her feet aren't up to snuff.
Posted by Fwrinkledsoles (Member # 101) on :
She is just a girlfriend! Posted by luvsfeet (Member # 2600) on :
Sounds like the problem I have with my girlfriend. Her feet are just ok. Sadly she has flat feet and they're thin. I prefer chubby feet and high arches. But when I first got with her I hadn't seen her feet up close and by the time I had told her about my fetish, we were already involved. She's a great gf though, and is totally into pleasing me with her feet etc, but I rarely ask to do anything with her feet anymore and sad to say this but I kinda fantasized about her mom's feet. She seems to take much better care of her feet than my gf, my gf occasionally gets a pedicure, and that's only because she may be coming to see me or something. We live in a long distance relationship which is already hard in itself, and so since we're not together all the time, she rarely takes care of her feet. Her mom though appears to get regular pedicures and she has a small arch, but lots of wrinkly soles. Anyways I'm always noticing other girls feet more so than my own gf.
Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
That's a dilemma. You have a girl that's into you, your fetish, and is loving, but just doesn't have the feet. That's where you have to weigh things out. Then you have to ask if she had feet that did it for you, not much of a face, and wasn't loving to you.
Posted by aka.footjoyboy (Member # 32751) on :
The strange thing is that your description of your girls feet makes me think that I might like them. Wish we had a pic. or two.
Posted by luvsfeet (Member # 2600) on :
Yes, I'd love to see a pic. Short stubby toes and high arches are kinda my thing.
Posted by AceCorr (Member # 37554) on :
This is really tough. Imagine what would happen if they turned uglier as time went on. Eventually, you might just "foot cheat" like Becky on BABS says. It isn't right, but it sounds so tempting and what are you supposed to do if you just have an insatiable desire that can't be quenched?
Posted by coryr (Member # 49869) on :
quote:Originally posted by AceCorr: This is really tough. Imagine what would happen if they turned uglier as time went on. Eventually, you might just "foot cheat" like Becky on BABS says. It isn't right, but it sounds so tempting and what are you supposed to do if you just have an insatiable desire that can't be quenched?
I couldn't do that. My fetish is so strong that it might as well count as sleeping with another woman.
Posted by californicator (Member # 10116) on :
I was in a similar situation as OP, and I think you need to think about things carefully. Being in love with a woman, but not being sexually satisfied by her is a recipe for long term failure.
If her feet are gross, move on, and find someone else with the nice feet. Women are intuitive enough to sense that she doesn't satisfy you fully. You might end up seeking other means to get your desires satisfied.
Posted by tulsafootlover (Member # 2118) on :
Yeah my girlfriend of 5 years turned into a wife of 14 years. Definitely wouldn't have dated or married if I wasn't attracted to her feet. My standards were attractive personality, pretty face, then pretty feet. Took awhile to find her but it worked out. She didn't know about my fetish until after the first two years of dating.
Posted by rh (Member # 37970) on :
I enjoy my wife's feet. Sometimes as much as 3 times in a day (1x is normal). I'd like her to use her feet during blowjobs and stuff like your gf, but the bottom line is that I love indulging in her feet. If you are not excited to indulge in her feet then you need to find a new girl. You might end up with a girl with amazing feet but she doesnt know how to use them as well. If you are OK with that, then that is a decision to consider.
My addiction to my wife's feet ensures that I will always want to be with her.. it is really important that you feel the same way about your gf.
Posted by aerodrew (Member # 2682) on :
Some go a life time looking for that perfect one in every aspect and never find it.. sounds like you have it but maybe you're a little shallow.. be careful or it may slip away.
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