I usually live over at GTS City (been there for 8 years now, it's a Giantess Fetish site) and I have moved around to different forums throughout the years, and so I decided I'd make a stop here and maybe hang around if the community wants meh!
Soooo *inhales* I was going through some old posts and getting to know people before they got to know me and just thought it might be cool to give my perspective on two things I thought was interesting.
1. "Women do up their feet but then think it's disgusting when you touch them"
Weird and confusing, I know. But, as a woman who has been with a foot fetishist for the last 8 years, here was my response when bf said this to me: Deep down, most women don't know why we do a lot of things. Remember when you were growing up and somehow you just knew feet were the bees knees? And then that developed into a fetish and you were like "I'VE FOUND MY TRUE SEXUAL CALLING!!" Well, when we're (girls) are young, we also learn things too. We watch mummy going out and she's dressing up in them heels. We see aunty do it and our older sisters do it. Sometimes even granny does it. Even in cartoons the pretty princess is wearing heels. So the first thing we do is associate heels with "looking good" or "sexy". We don't question why, but through conditioning, we learn this is one of many things (along side make-up, etc) what make women look "good". For the most part, heels hurt and we know hammer toes look ugly but we're willing to risk it to look "good". The same way getting a clay lip plate hurts when you get your incisors knocked out, but hey, different cultures, different types of conditioning, different "normals". Bottom line is, we don't mean to do it but we do. Some women won't take it as far as the whole pedicure and some will, but most don't do it with the thought process of "boy I can't wait for all those men out there to see these sexy tootsies and hopefully one day suck on them..." We just think the pedicure goes with the manicure and we're trying to complete the package. Or we're making sure the feet look good in that pedestal of a heel, or what's the point? Frustrating but true.
2. "Public photos are for...ect"
One thing I've learnt while trawling many, many, many fetish sites, is that I will never have a general online public profile ever again. I've locked down my facebook and once I've saved all the pictures from it, I intend to delete it. I've seen uncles (allegedly) posting their nieces on Cum Tribute sites and that alone made me realise that all those mothers on my friends list with public profiles? Yeah, there's a definite chance their kids or one some pedo rings site too...the same way some girls feet, tits, hands or whatever are on another fetish board....all because they posted publicly. I mean wow. It's just such an eye opener that I now can no longer fathom why I'd ever post images of my private life all over the internet. But fetish pics for fetish purposes? Sure...
Anyway, just thought I'd share those two things with ya'll. Hopefully no one is offended. Ya'll shouldn't be...
Sapphire
Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
I'm not offended in the least, and number 1 is what I've usually figured as to why women wear heels and get pedicures. Welcome aboard!
Posted by Sapphire Aldiss (Member # 50307) on :
Glad to hear that! And howdy! Oh and if anyone can direct me to a thread explaining how to change my avatar, that would be super awesome great-like...
Posted by Icarus (Member # 46711) on :
Welcome! Always nice to get the female perspective on the fetish.
Posted by feetiesandtoes (Member # 32674) on :
Great stuff!
Posted by NEWYORKGUY (Member # 47889) on :
WELCOME! I love to read your comments and perspective about the foot fetish world. It is always interesting to get the woman's point of view. I truly hope that you share more with us!
Posted by Sapphire Aldiss (Member # 50307) on :
Thanks for the welcome everyone!
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
First of all, I'm glad to hear from a women who understands and accepts us. And you make some very valid points. You know, I've actually heard women compliment other women on their feet! So clearly, many of them do feel that feet are attractive female body parts. Of course, most of them may not get the fact that some of us guys are sexually attracted to them. And something else I find very interesting: There are many men who are attracted to women's feet. Some lesbians are attracted to other girls' feet. Some gay men are attracted to other guy's feet. But women who are attracted to men's feet are very few and far between! Do you have any thoughts about that? By the way, you have pretty feet!
Posted by Sapphire Aldiss (Member # 50307) on :
Thank you! If I was to guess? Honestly, I think it's a testosterone thing. Fetishes are more common among men and even gay men will generally have more testosterone than a lesbian, and a lesbian may have more testosterone than a straight woman. And as it goes, women in comparison have less fetishes in general than men. So my theory is to work your way down the testosterone level line and straight chicks probably sit at the bottom of it. Again, just a theory!
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
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and just thought it might be cool to give my perspective on two things I thought was interesting.![[Jerkoff]](graemlins/jerkoff.gif)
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