Hi I've recently posted ad's on Craigs-list and Backpage looking for girls in my area to hook up with for footplay. Most of the responses that I've received have been scam models trying to direct me to third party sites, wanting a credit card.
However that changed today. I had a beautiful 25 yr old blonde reply today with amazing feet. She was cool with my fetish, the price was fair, but the problem came down to meeting, she wanted me to come to her place and I wanted her to come to mine.
This brings me to my question. How would people in this group handle a face to face meeting without the fears of law enforcement, being robbed or other worst case scenarios. Not looking to have sex, but wondering how far you can take things until it would be considered prostitution?
I would be excited to live out my life long fetish, but I don't want to be foolish and let my lust cloud my judgement.
Any tips or previous experiences would be appreciated. Thanks..
Posted by Polar (Member # 47954) on :
Me, I wouldn't do that. One it could be construed as some form of prostitution. I think here in FL it is. I also take my glock 43 with me for all craigslist transactions lol. Why are you going the CL route?
Posted by stlgamer1 (Member # 50518) on :
It would depend on a state by state law. I know that in the Midwest here, prostitution is legally defined as the profession of paying for sexual acts. Soliciting is offering to pay for the acts and that is illegal as well. I guess if you ever got caught, the issue would be whether you or the woman thought of the acts as sexual. If you explained that you were worshiping her feet and then when you were done, took care of yourself, privately, in the bathroom, then it could be argued that the foot worship had nothing sexual. If you are given a footjob, then it could be considered sexual. I would be careful.
Posted by inluvwithfootsmell (Member # 2213) on :
What about if you offered a donation? I know it may be a gray area What about jacking yourself off? I am saying in my ad that I'm not looking for sex and I wouldn't even try a foot-job.
As I said before a majority of the replies have been bullshit, supposed women that have been hounding me with generic responses, fake pictures, located in Canada wanting me to provide credit card information to verify me.
Then today out of no where this pretty blonde girl with amazing feet tells me she's did some foot modeling in the past and I could meet with her at her house in Detroit and it would be $40 dollars for 2 hours. I figured hosting at my place would be safer, she said she had transportation issues. My last email I said if she could get to me I'd be interested. I haven't heard back from her.
Polar: I'm looking for a no strings hook up in Michigan. I thought Craigs-list & Backpage were really the only places, at least that are free. I tried to contact a girl at touch feet, but she's not returning my email, I think she's to far away. I thought about escorts, but I think I could run in to solicitation issues there as well
Stigamer1: Today started to sound to good to be true. I'd really like to explore my fetish more, but the last thing I want to do is think with my dick, get arrested or robbed and possibly get put on the sex offender list. Trying to think before I act.
Posted by BTL2.0 (Member # 49128) on :
I've never done anything like this, but simple solution would be to say meet up a coffee place/pub grab a drink or two then go from there? That way its a neutral spot, can talk specifics that isn't on paper(email). Then she can see you're not a threat and you can see she is legit. Just a suggestion.
Posted by LovelyLadies (Member # 5079) on :
Daaaaayum! $40 for 2 hours?! Considering most ads price their services at $150 for 30 minutes, I'd say she either don't know the going rate or something is up.
Personally, anytime you are supposed to hook up with anyone for ANYTHING, dating sites, transactions, this, I'd offer to meet at a public location. Go near a coffee joint or something, make some small talk, maybe arrange continued sessions, and then offer that she go with you to another location that isn't necessarily your house, but doesn't make her uncomfortable either.
GOOD LUCK! Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
CL isn't going to yield many results. You're better off trying Fetlife.
Posted by feetiesandtoes (Member # 32674) on :
You're doing it right. Meet them at a local place and chat over a coffee. If they don't have a car they're usually trouble in my experience. There is some risk but as you get more involved your ability to screen out the fakes, phonies, druggies, liars and thieves will become razor sharp!
I never say anything about jacking myself off but most of them will figure it out by the time their feet are in your face (I'm not a foot job guy).
I've had many successful rendezvous from all the websites you can imagine including FB and IG, along with the usual CG, Backpage, OKCupid, etc..
Hang in there. Do the work. Be patient. Be mindful. Google their phone numbers ALWAYS. And ALWAYS put their number into Facebook. That will give you an insight into their personal life, cleanliness and company they keep. You can decide if you even want to get involved from there...
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
While I certainly don't have anything against a single guy trying the pay-for-play model, using CL and BP are probably not the wisest outlets for you.
You seem to be worried about the legal ramifications. While I applaud your apprehension, I think it is misplaced. You should be worried about scams that can leave you robbed, hurt or dead. Were I in your shoes and looking for P4P, I would look for less risky options.
Now, before all these guys try to refute my thoughts by claiming they've been down the CL and BP path several times with no issues.... you were lucky. You can do your due diligence and try to mitigate the risk, but you can only mitigate to a certain degree. CL and BP is exactly like playing Russian roulette. That gun WILL EVENTUALLY fire.
Best of luck with whatever you choose.
Posted by Doc Ock (Member # 46755) on :
This is similar to my old post. If your choice and your risk. Sometimes you have to pay to play....depending on how you move out here. I would stay away from CL. You can meet a gang of foot models on Instagram. As for paying for sessions. A worship session is legal unless your dick touches her feet. In New York. A foot worship session and cumming on her feet is lega. Anything other than that is a risk. TBH flying girls or getting VIP sections in the club is another form of prostitution. Haha!
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