Summer is around the corner, everywhere you go, you see nice girls with sandals, flat, wedges, high heels, open toe sandals. I went out last week and I saw noticed two girls wearing sandals with the nicest feet. I wanted to compliment their feet but I wasn't sure of the reaction I would have...
Once a waitress in a night club who was serving us all night, I told her your feet must be tired from running upall night and she responded: Don't worry about me, I will be alright..
I thought she would get the hint, that I would lovely massage her feet.. During the nightshe was heel popping her feet out of her shoes..
Any stories ? advices ?
Posted by feetiesandtoes (Member # 32674) on :
I always stay away from waitresses and bar maids. They are usually focused on work, tired, and hustling for money all while knowing they're being watched by a manager or eye in the sky (casino). They've pretty much heard everything from guys and most have no time for shenanigans. That's been my experience.
Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
Just do a regular approach. Unless they're hookers or you're better off just trying to engage them in friendly conversation. If you get in and she gives hints that it's going places sexually, then open up about your fetish. Otherwise you'll just come off as another creep. Now complimenting their feet early isn't bad, but don't make it's the pickup or even opening line.
Posted by Jerimiah (Member # 48783) on :
Haha. Don't. They're a waste of time and energy for what you'll get in retur(coming from a known barfly)
Posted by footfetish_mania (Member # 51190) on :
quote:Originally posted by Jerimiah: Haha. Don't. They're a waste of time and energy for what you'll get in retur(coming from a known barfly)
haha!
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
You approach her no differently than you would any girl. You should be trying to pick up the girl, not her feet.
As far as bartenders, they work for tips so they are essentially getting paid to be nice to you. View them as hired guns, and try to pick them up like you would a stripper. It can be done, but requires a fair amount of game on your part. I've found that if you have a hot girl as your wingman, it helps tremendously.
I've personally found that waitresses at strip clubs are often overlooked by most guys and are a lot easier to pick up than strippers.
Posted by stlgamer1 (Member # 50518) on :
You guys need a girl with you. One time at a strip club, my wife leaned in near me and remarked at how she thought a stripper we saw on the stage had a perfect pair of tits. (My wife likes tits.) So, then she asks me what I liked on her and I said that I thought she had almost as perfect feet as her (my wife). So, then when the stripper finished her dance and was walking around looking for lapdances, The hustler club did this thing where they would play 30 second cuts of songs and stick them all together and then for a dollar, the strippers would work the room and do little lapdance teases for those 30 seconds. So, while I tip the stripper to give my wife a lapdance, my wife tells her that she loves her tits and the stripper rubs her tits in my wife's face. Then, the stripper asks my wife "what does he like?" and my wife tells her that I thought she had perfect feet. So, when the song ends, she sits next to us, takes her heels off and props one foot in my lap and the other on my chest and says "your wife says you think I have perfect feet..."
In STL, if you had a girl, as a wingman, she could butter up the girl by saying things like "I like your sandals" or "I like your toe polish". I have seen women stop my wife in wal-mart, and mention how they love her nail polish, with my wife wiggling her foot out of her flipflop and the other woman coming within a foot or two of her toes.
Posted by footfunk305 (Member # 50227) on :
Talk normal. Compliment her on something else besides her feet first.
I don't mess with a waitress or bartender unless I frequent a place often. I recently rubbed a bartenders feet from a bar that I go to often down the street from my house. It was dead and she was pulling a double. She slipped off her Toms and she had an aqua color painted toes. Right when she was enjoying it. I sucked the sweat off her toes. She was like ewww that can't taste good lol. I was like I how your feet smell and taste. She was like gross. But continued to let me do it.
When a customer came in she got up served him and came back and said do the other one lol. I will be definitely doing this more often.
Key is to tip well and engage in regular convo. Build up to the feet part. Your looks play a role too.
But personally I just go to the strip club if I want feet. It's just quicker while I talk to civilian women.
Great thing too is I discovered is that I can get waitresses and bartenders at the strip club. They see me massage strippers feet and want in too. I've been doing this lately and only been giving them $10 lol
Posted by footfunk305 (Member # 50227) on :
Once a waitress in a night club who was serving us all night, I told her your feet must be tired from running upall night and she responded: Don't worry about me, I will be alright..
Any stories ? advices ?
One more thing. You're wasting you're time with night club waitresses and bartenders. They are way too busy. Which leads them to have a funky ass response like you received. A lot of them think they are hot shit because they are in a club.
Posted by jediofthefeet (Member # 1463) on :
quote:Originally posted by footfunk305: Talk normal. Compliment her on something else besides her feet first.
I don't mess with a waitress or bartender unless I frequent a place often. I recently rubbed a bartenders feet from a bar that I go to often down the street from my house. It was dead and she was pulling a double. She slipped off her Toms and she had an aqua color painted toes. Right when she was enjoying it. I sucked the sweat off her toes. She was like ewww that can't taste good lol. I was like I how your feet smell and taste. She was like gross. But continued to let me do it.
When a customer came in she got up served him and came back and said do the other one lol. I will be definitely doing this more often.
Key is to tip well and engage in regular convo. Build up to the feet part. Your looks play a role too.
But personally I just go to the strip club if I want feet. It's just quicker while I talk to civilian women.
Great thing too is I discovered is that I can get waitresses and bartenders at the strip club. They see me massage strippers feet and want in too. I've been doing this lately and only been giving them $10 lol
Great story and good advice!
There was good advice about picking up the girl, not her feet. No girl initially wants to be sexually objectified, even by guys who look like Johnny Bravo. That comes later, after you built some attraction, rapport, comfort, and took things to that next level.
I was at a strip club which hosted a fetish party. One short, stocky guy sat on a sofa and went through woman after woman giving foot rubs. He got a stripper, a super hot little shot girl/waitress, and other women at the party. The shot girl was the most impressive of his conquests because she was always on the go.
It was a combination of social momentum and women wanting to be part of the fun. He never left the sofa! He didn't have to leave it to get the women he wanted.
Even women at fetish events at times don't understand how some of us can like dirty feet or stinky feet. Don't go into a medical lecture, or you will bore them or creep them out by your in depth knowledge of the topic.
I found it's best to make it relateable to something familiar to them. I ask them if they were ever turned on when their boyfriend came home after a hard day's work or a workout, and was slightly sweaty. When they tell me they did, then I tell them that was how it worked for me too. Them being on their feet all day working hard, running errands, at school made their feet stinky, and I liked it. You can do the same with dirty feet. Does a woman like her man to come home from a ball game with a clean jersey/uniform or one that showed he played hard regardless of if he won or lost? BOOM!!!
Women have heard it all, so when you go there with a "your feet must be tired or your feet must hurt" line, they know the deal. So their autopilot response is to tell you they are good, they'd don't hurt, they are used to it, etc. THOSE ARE ALL LIES!
If you are a regular, and they get to know you, see if you can catch them during a lunch break or smoke break. Smoke breaks are good because they have to go outside. You can have a better conversation with them, and depending on the time and place, maybe take them to a bench, their car, or your car, and give them a foot massage. Do right by her, get her number, and make it a regular thing. She may tell her friends about you.
The $10 tip is a good idea for servers at strip clubs. Their goal is to make money for the club and tips. Buy yourself a drink, and offer a $10 foot rub as a tip. The house wins and so does she.
Now, the ones behind the bar are the ones you will have to chat up for a while, then transition to some foot talk. This is best done on slower nights when they can actually hear you and not be on roller skates.
Yes, most of us fear rejection, but with no risk, there is no reward. You may want to listen to the Impact Theory episode on YouTube with the founder of Paul Mitchell Systems and Patron.
Regarding the women you see out and about on the street wearing open shoes. Just talk with them. Don't think of them as 8s, 9s, or 10s. They are not women, but little girls who want to have fun and have good experiences. After some small talk, give them the feet compliment. If you remark on their shoes, they may think you are gay. Keep it man to woman, not friend to friend or you will land in the friend zone.
Be fun, be playful, pull [I love you], push [I can't stand you], be larger than life, be sexual when you feel the vibe is there!
Posted by BareSoles84 (Member # 45910) on :
Advice?
Keep in mind that waitresses, bartenders, strippers, etc, are being paid to be accomodating and friendly with you, and the friendlier they are, they more you'll be inclined to give them more money.
Not saying that picking one up is impossible, but the goal is to try and shut her off of that programming and let her guard down, and ostensibly demonstrate to her that you're not there for what she presumes you're there for: to hit on her.
Posted by footfunk305 (Member # 50227) on :
quote:Originally posted by Michael Pitt: i worked in a bar for years
most of those girls are so full of themselves, they think any guy that tips them wants them and yeah they are being nice to you because they want more tips
they've heard it all and you can bet they have a man in their life, but that can be said about any girl that looks at least average, though many of them like any guy that supplies them with drugs so that could be your pickup line LOL
they always complained about their feet hurting, that tends to happen when you are standing on your feet nonstop for 8 hours or so
most of them have beat up looking feet from the job unless they get pedicures
Hmmm. My experience is most of them been full of themselves in night clubs. You know the bottle poppin type joints. These broads act like they are millionaires and they can't even pay rent even with having a roommate.
My luck has always been at dive bars being a regular. I typically never do it at a bar that I know I'm not coming back to.
Posted by footfunk305 (Member # 50227) on :
Hey Jedi. I don't want to sell a guy a dream tho. Looks do play a role. A guy that may not be attractive would have better chance at strip club vs a regular bar. Strip club is about money...period. When it's dead during the day is my favorite time. They are hard up for money. It is way slower to get feet at a regular bar. Since they heard it all, you have to move slow. That only works for me if I'm going to a bar regularly.
That guy was at a foot event so it was a somewhat normal situation and American women a socially conditioned to act accordingly to the appropriate situation. American women are sheep. If they see another woman enjoying something they want it too.
Posted by Robotron2084 (Member # 33263) on :
quote:Originally posted by footfetish_mania: Summer is around the corner, everywhere you go, you see nice girls with sandals, flat, wedges, high heels, open toe sandals. I went out last week and I saw noticed two girls wearing sandals with the nicest feet. I wanted to compliment their feet but I wasn't sure of the reaction I would have...
Once a waitress in a night club who was serving us all night, I told her your feet must be tired from running upall night and she responded: Don't worry about me, I will be alright..
I thought she would get the hint, that I would lovely massage her feet.. During the nightshe was heel popping her feet out of her shoes..
Any stories ? advices ?
Don't.
Posted by footfunk305 (Member # 50227) on :
Hey Jedi. I don't want to sell a guy a dream tho. Looks do play a role. A guy that may not be attractive would have better chance at strip club vs a regular bar. Strip club is about money...period. When it's dead during the day is my favorite time. They are hard up for money. It is way slower to get feet at a regular bar. Since they heard it all, you have to move slow. That only works for me if I'm going to a bar regularly.
That guy was at a foot event so it was a somewhat normal situation and American women a socially conditioned to act accordingly to the appropriate situation. American women are sheep. If they see another woman enjoying something they want it too.
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