Some are more open about it than others but it is my experience that most foot guys hide it like they just committed a murder. Meanwhile all sorts of sexual deviations are coming out of the closet and boasting about their differences, foot guys keep it hidden from all including their wives sometimes. Only my wife knows about mine officially. How about everyone else?
Posted by BTL2.0 (Member # 49128) on :
Too many. I'd rather nobody knew about it other then my wife. I'm not seen as a freak...that I know of lol. But it has come up over the years as a brunt of jokes and I've taken it well and shrugged it off, but I'm at a point of throwing punches if it comes across as a slight. I mean, in this day and age people wouldn't dare sling shit at the gay guy...but a foot guy is fair game....
Posted by BareSoles84 (Member # 45910) on :
quote:Originally posted by BTL2.0: Too many. I'd rather nobody knew about it other then my wife. I'm not seen as a freak...that I know of lol. But it has come up over the years as a brunt of jokes and I've taken it well and shrugged it off, but I'm at a point of throwing punches if it comes across as a slight. I mean, in this day and age people wouldn't dare sling shit at the gay guy...but a foot guy is fair game....
When people do that, to me that just demonstrates they are frauds and that they genuinely don't believe in and stand for the principles and standards that they say they do. If you're going to claim you're "tolerant" and "accepting" and claim that you're intolerant of anyone who judges someone else, then I don't see why the notion of two people of the same sex having sex is lauded in your view, while a straight man liking female feet is fair game for condemnation.
[ July 25, 2017, 08:56 PM: Message edited by: BareSoles84 ]
Posted by philgill11@gmail.com (Member # 51430) on :
Yeah, while the rest of the world is celebrating their freak and everyone applauding them us normal hetrosexual males who are attracted to pretty feet are like lepers.
Posted by BTL2.0 (Member # 49128) on :
I have absolutely nothing against the gay community by any means, but the second I am to mention I have a passion towards women with pretty feet I'm labeled as a god damn contagious disease and they must immediately cover up their feet but yet waltz out the door draped in PRIDE colours and bouncing off the walls about how "Love Trumps Hate" and shit... well I suddenly lose respect for those groups.
Posted by Polar (Member # 47954) on :
I just recently " came out" about my FF, I think the only person that doesnt know is my 12 year old daughter and my mom lol
Posted by philgill11@gmail.com (Member # 51430) on :
BLT2.0 I know your frustration. It is brutal. We'll be the last group on earth it is okay to criticize.
So Polar, how has it been for you and why did you come out?
Posted by CFTS (Member # 45969) on :
My best friend knows about my foot fetish. He doesn't have one himself but he is totally fine with people who do have a foot fetish.
Posted by Polar (Member # 47954) on :
Ive suppressed it around my family and friends for many years. I have very strong urges when it comes to the FF. My wife took it with open arms and enjoys it, and enjoys what it does for her and us. Just as long as I dont go elsewhere lol. I started buying her shoes, picking out color for her to do her nails and she is the one that actually " came out" by telling others my husband bought these, or he picked out these colors in conversations to friends and family. Now I get foot pics posted on my facebook wall from her, friends , my sister, even finding out my dad and son both have FF. I guess it may be hereditary. I look at it like. If my buddy I went to highschool with can chop off his pecker and become a woman, I see no harm in divulging this.
Posted by luvstockingfeet (Member # 51368) on :
The only person who officially knows is my wife and she has been wonderful about it. I remember when we were first dating one night she kicked off her flats and put her pantyhose feet in my lap. I was rubbing her pups and remember at one point just reaching down and kissing her nylon covered toes because I couldn't resist it anymore. I looked up and she just had a smirk and a raised eyebrow like she had just realized what turned me on. Strangely, we didn't openly talk about it for a few years, she knew what turned me on and she would wear stockings for me but we didn't really openly discuss it.
I work in a hospital with many, many ladies and I often will compliment the them on their cute socks and painted toes (when the opportunity presents itself). I'm pretty sure a lot of women at my work know I have a foot fetish even if it's not public knowledge. It's kinda strange because I think they would openly say it was creepy but there have been many times where I'm talking to a girl one on one and I'll compliment their socks and they'll slip their foot out of them shoe and point their toes to show them to me. While women will say it's creepy, they love attention! I'll never understand the female brain.
Posted by Polar (Member # 47954) on :
the girls at my work know it, its where I have all the shoes I buy] the wife delivered. One of them is a foot girl herself as well.
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
Every girl that I've ever been in a relationship with knows about my fondness for pretty feet. Even most of girls that I've briefly been with know about it, including some that were of the one night stand variety.
I suppose it's possible that some of these girls may have mentioned it to their friends. I know for a fact it's happened on a couple of occasions.
Outside of that, I don't believe anybody else knows. It's not that I'm embarrassed or bashful about it, I just don't see the need to broadcast it to everyone. This information is on a need to know basis.
Truthfully, I've never understood why some guys blurt it to just about everyone they know. What's the purpose of that?
Posted by Bonze947 (Member # 26935) on :
I have never been able to keep my foot fetish a secret throughout my life. I never tell anyone though.
I think people have been aware of my foot fetish at every hospital I've worked at. In fact some nurses have blatantly foot flirted with me. No one has ever given me any grief. In fact no one has really brought it up to me.
But no, I don't tell anybody. I don't want my identity to be about what I like sexually. I would rather my identity be - good father, good husband, good worker, etc.
Some of my classmates in high school became aware. I was very fortunate not to receive any open ostracism about it.
My folks were definitely aware. As far back as age 4, I told my Mom I liked the smell of feet. Dad was always telling me when I was a teenager that I should be a foot doctor.
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
quote:Originally posted by Bonze947: I think people have been aware of my foot fetish at every hospital I've worked at. In fact some nurses have blatantly foot flirted with me. No one has ever given me any grief. In fact no one has really brought it up to me.
Interesting.
Just out of curiosity, how do people you work with know if you've never told them?
Posted by Bonze947 (Member # 26935) on :
They see where my eyes go. It becomes obvious.
Posted by BareSoles84 (Member # 45910) on :
quote:Originally posted by Bonze947: I don't want my identity to be about what I like sexually. I would rather my identity be - good father, good husband, good worker, etc.
Excellent comment.
That's how it should be for anybody, and not just when it comes to sexual preferences. What they are, shouldn't be what defines someone; who they are, should be what defines them. The former essentially reduces one's individuality and merely compartmentalizes them into groups.
Posted by Peter, Peter (Member # 40235) on :
My wife definitely knows and some ex's. Other than that, I don't advertise
Posted by stlgamer1 (Member # 50518) on :
Many years ago, I ran a foot fetish website. (Don't worry, I doubt any of you remember it, as it wasn't very popular because it used a 'new' programming language that wasn't popular at the time and made the site difficult to use.) So, the models of whom I contracted photos from, all knew of my foot fetish. My wife knew and then my wife decided to let her family and everyone at my job know. This wasn't so bad, because most of them just blew it off like it was no big deal, but then two guys in the tech room asked for free memberships, so that was interesting to know. (I still catch one of the guys staring at my wife's feet from time to time.)
I first did a hobby of restaurant reviews and one restaurant I did, the owner came out and told me that he had the front cover of the menu done, with a woman's feet in high heels, because he loves feet. I told him I did too and then he sent a waitress to me who was 5 foot tall, petite and with perfect feet in flipflops. I did my best to provide an honest review and while one side of me wanted to get bribed, so badly, by feet, the other side wanted me to be honest.
Now, back at my job, even about a year ago, my boss was sitting at a table with my wife, me and this hot black receptionist who always had flipflops and perfect feet and red toes. She was discussing how her dog likes to lick her feet and she though it was disgusting. Then she, my boss, turns to me and says "you wouldn't know anything about that would you?" I just died. I got almost as red as the receptionist as I had drooled over her feet in the past. I even had the wife of one of the tech guys ask me for a foot massage, during our office christmas party one year.
Yeah, some people know, like some guy friends, and some members of my wife's family. But they were told one time and I don't think that they even remember now.