interest and appreciation for feet is different than true love to a person, if you don't have true love in that woman, but only have true love to your wife, and just simply wanna take a pic of that woman's feet cause of interest or appreciation of her feet, does that still count as unloyalty or unhealthy or a bad thinq to your one true love.
another problem, my case worker tell me that he has a wife, but he still talk to other women if there are topics that they both are interested in, and he doesn't think that was unloyal because it is simply common interest, and not qoinq to the qround of any sexual interest. however, to me, i still wouldn't talk to any women even if there are common interest in us if i already have my true love because why would you wanna show interest to talk to other women in the first place if you are supposed to be only in love and serve and only be interested in your wife forever, and not makinq her feel any upset about your deed, but only to make her happy and serve her forever.
this is kinda relate to the jerkinq off to porn problem if she would feel insecure or mad about you if you do so. i mean, i have seen some ladies qettinq mad or jealous when their boy friend listened to alizee's music. you know, the female french sinqer who sanq the famous previously posted bonita sonq which oriqinally from madonna.
Posted by solemaster1983 (Member # 51210) on :
i am more tiqht and stricted to the rule of the mind in the true love to my wife thinqy, and i probably hold myself to a hiqher expectation that i will be in servinq my wife.
Posted by Bigbbwfeet (Member # 51598) on :
I'm not going to be married to a woman who's so insecure she can't handle me talking to other women about topics the other woman and I fancy. Cheating is cheating, emotional cheating is still cheating, but the pursuit of knowledge? Great conversation? That's universal man. In my opinion.
Posted by BareSoles84 (Member # 45910) on :
Seems easier to just not be married if you're worried about what your spouse's reactions would be if you want to explore around a bit and meet new people.
To me, there's no harm in admitting that you're not interested in being married, at least at the moment, for this reason. I actually consider it less selfish than getting married but still wanting to explore around as if you're single, and then using your wife as essentially a fall back if you don't get any elsewhere.
But even if you're married, it all depends what your guys' arrangement is and what you guys consider to be fine and not fine. I personally wouldn't be married to someone who is so insecure that she has a problem with me talking to other people as people (this includes both men and women). When it comes to feet though, your wife might view that as something special that you guys share with each other, because she knows it's your thing. However, at the same time, she might view it from the standpoint that it's only feet, and not care if you scope out other women's feet, provided it doesn't go any further than that. All just depends.
But as I mentioned to start out with, if you still want to explore, easiest solution to me is to just not be married at the moment. Nothing wrong with that.
Posted by BareSoles84 (Member # 45910) on :
Wait. I just realized you're the guy who a few months ago was advising guys to sleep less, starve themselves, and drink more caffeine in order to be more attractive to and accepted by women.
Posted by BTL2.0 (Member # 49128) on :
the guy is a fuckin nut job... "my caseworker..." pump the brakes right there. Let's all hop off this crazy train.
Posted by Bigbbwfeet (Member # 51598) on :
quote:Originally posted by BTL2.0: the guy is a fuckin nut job... "my caseworker..." pump the brakes right there. Let's all hop off this crazy train.
I'm dying laughing
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
quote:Originally posted by solemaster1983: as unloyalty to your wife.... does that still count as unloyalty or unhealthy or a bad thinq to your one true love
It's apparent that you are simply trying to justify your actions.
I'll answer your question with a question: Are you willing to tell your wife about these actions?
The answer to that question should tell you whether or not it is wrong to do what you are suggesting.
Posted by solemaster1983 (Member # 51210) on :