I have a question for all you guys with wives/steady girlfriends: How did you first introduce her to your foot attraction? Was it early on in the relationship, or later? Did she accept it right away, or did it take her a little while to come around? My girlfriend and I first worked together. She would often take her shoes off at her desk, and in the breakroom. Sometimes, I would playfully rub her feet, when she did this. So when I finally admitted it with her, it was no big deal for her, and she really accepted it.
Posted by Rocky @TheSoleMates (Member # 28971) on :
The first time my girlfriend and I met, she was playing on her phone ignoring the world. I looked over and saw her pale feet with black polish and fell in love. I said “You have nice feet.” Things slowly escalated from there. Luckily for me, she’d dated a guy with a foot fetish previously.
Posted by guitarandfeetman (Member # 53021) on :
I told my wife about my foot fetish when we were dating. She accepted it and even likes to tease me with it by pointing out other women's feet when we are in public. She'll occasionally play around with it. She knows it is very powerful to me and it's also an obsession, she just doesn't completely understand that. Now my ex-wife was a completely different story, I told her about it later in our relationship and she thought it was disgusting and would humiliate me about whenever she could.
Posted by Peter, Peter (Member # 40235) on :
I agree with Hans, we are very similar in that I have never told my wife about my foot fetish but during sex her feet make it to my mouth right away. She even teases me when she gets out of work and her feet smell. She will put them in my face.
Posted by myzar21 (Member # 48456) on :
Most of my exes were receptive to it, but some were better about it than others....
My wife, I told while we were dating. She asked me not to make fun of her feet (I had already seen them). She takes great care of her feet, gets frequent pedicures and wears the nail art I like. I love toerings and foot jewelry, so she rotates her toerings a few times a year.
I try to suck her toes, she permits it, but says it is ticklish. Instead, she prefers massages and likes giving me footjobs. At this point I'm not sure if she enjoys giving it, or she knows how much I like it, so she does them, but somehow during sex, there is going to be at least 3-5 minutes of a footjob. Random fj's is pretty much her method of foreplay. Needless to say, I'm happy with it.
Posted by Jazzysoleman690 (Member # 52542) on :
My wife learned about my love for feet on the third date when on the couch watching a movie. In her socks and I went for it with a foot massage and put her feet in my lap. Just rolled off her socks, got them bare and finally revealed the curviest and softest pair of size 7s I ever saw. Meaty but petite if you know what I mean. Kissed and licked her soles for an hour. She said “You like feet don’t you?”. To this day my heart pounds when I get to play with her soles and toes.
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Posted by Ride The Sky (Member # 45538) on :
I told my current GF after about a month, she said she'd suspected as she'd seen me looking etc. She's been fine with it from the off and we have a lot of fun with it. I just said something like, "I've got something to tell you" and then just told her, but then again she's put me more at ease than any of my exs .....
Posted by azarga (Member # 42170) on :
I dated my wife in high school and she was barefoot a lot at my house or hers. She picked up on it pretty quickly and said you like my feet don't you. She was cool from it right away. This was 1978 and our first foot sex was her giving me hand jobs as I worshipped her feet. We did not discover the whole foot job thing until we were married. My foot fetish has intensified with all the new sandals painted toes and foot jewelry. My wife continues to satisfy me to this day.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by dougiezerts: I have a question for all you guys with wives/steady girlfriends: How did you first introduce her to your foot attraction? Was it early on in the relationship, or later? Did she accept it right away, or did it take her a little while to come around?
I didn’t tel my wife until many years into our marriage- and it was only with the encouragement of the members here at Wus that I finally did. But after I did, she jumped in with both feet, allowing me to enjoy her feet. She allowed me to buy her good quality anklets and toe rings that she wore 24/7 and bought tons of sandals and flip-flops.
Read on for the details if you’re interested... I had tried to give her some hints through the years by giving her an anklet for her birthday and some sandals at one point- but it didn’t register with her. We eventually moved to Florida which made fighting not telling her even more difficult because she was always barefoot and started buying lots of flip-flops and sandals.
As far as the actual discussion when we had it- she had heard of guys with foot fetishes but never dated one. I figured that, if I was going to tell her, I was telling her everything. Even what I thought was my deepest, darkest fantasy- that of cumming on a pair of her flip-flops or sandals and then having her wear them around, maybe even in public. She asked a few more general questions, like when did I realize I had a fetish and what I thought caused it, but was totally accepting of it.
I started off pretty slow, simply touching her feet during sex. I especially liked doing doggy style. I would prop up her bare foot over my leg so I could see it better while having sex. I eventually moved into climaxing on her feet, usually her soles, especially if she wasn’t into having sex.
A few years after that I started sucking and licking her toes. That has come in really handy because about a year or two ago I started having ED problems- sex often came down to her laying on her tummy, me straddling one leg, and her offering up a foot to suck and lick, which I do while I jerk off onto her ass.
Maybe TMI, but just wanted to share some of the details. Most important is the gratitude I have for the older members of Wus who helped motivate me to tell her and then consequently start enjoying her feet.
Posted by azarga (Member # 42170) on :
My wife was my high school girlfriend. We started dating in the 11th grade in the late 70's. I knew somewhat before that I had a foot fetish and I was immediately attracted to her feet as she went barefoot a lot - flip flops weren't really in back then. Early on I told her I loved her feet and she was cool from the get go. In the beginning she use to give me hand jobs as I worshipped her feet. It wasn't until early 20's that I saw a foot job picture in Hustler. To this day I still love her feet and getting footjobs from her!
Posted by footexhibit (Member # 1664) on :
I never hide it, as a matter of fact I let it out the first date or even before the first date to make sure we even have a first date because yes it is that serious. I do not wanna waste time for either side so it's just better to get it out the way and that will determine how far we will go.
Posted by scribe (Member # 48938) on :
When my wife and I started dating, I invited her over to my place with the promise of dinner. When she arrived, she came in and kicked off her shoes. I noticed and stared at her pretty feet. She asked, "Was that rude? Should I not have done that?"
I told her it was perfectly OK, that I thought she had pretty feet.
She confessed she loves attention to her feet, and she used to hold her feet up to the recirculator jets in her parents' pool when she needed some "foot drugs." I told her I'd gladly give her a foot rub at anytime. And I did so later that evening, right before we went to bed! I confessed I like female feet, and hers especially, and she swooned.
It wasn't long after this conversation that I proposed to her -- and she accepted!