Why do some girls say nice things about you (Your sweet and cute looking and dress nice etc..) But then the next guy that a girl talks to and knows she tells that guy that he is super hot and damn sexy etc?
Why do girls do that?
I know it's just looks and looks are not everything at all. But when i see girls do that saying that i'm sweet and nice and cute looking but then they say to the other guy that he is super hot and really sexy it's like a slap in the face to me. Or at least i take it as a slap in the face like did i do something wrong? or am i really not hot at all so you they have to sugar coat it by saying i'm just cute and nice?
I have had a few girls say that i'm cute and sweet and nice looking and that i dress nice. But almost every time girls always seem to say better things about the other guy (he's super hot etc..) Maybe i'm reading to much into this. This is just a general life question.
Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
maybe something about your personality causes you to lack sex appeal
when they say you are nice and sweet it probably means you are too nice like one of her girl friends
and maybe they are just being nice about your looks and sugarcoating like you said I can't imagine many girls describing some brad pitt lookalike as just sweet and cute
who knows every girl is different, one can think you are just a sweet guy and the next one might think you are the sexiest guy in the world
Posted by Ticklingsolesmaster (Member # 14850) on :
quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike: maybe something about your personality causes you to lack sex appeal
when they say you are nice and sweet it probably means you are too nice like one of her girl friends
and maybe they are just being nice about your looks and sugarcoating like you said I can't imagine many girls describing some brad pitt lookalike as just sweet and cute
who knows every girl is different, one can think you are just a sweet guy and the next one might think you are the sexiest guy in the world
Either way WHAT EVER the reason why girls do this,i think it's dumb (i'm not saying that us guys are any better because we're not far from it)
But mind games are not a friend of mine. I would much rather have girls be honest with me then play mind games and everything else that they do.
Posted by TwistedMethod (Member # 13216) on :
Sounds like you got meshed into the friends column with the girls you are talking about.
Posted by oscarthemonkey (Member # 1692) on :
Abandon chasing girls and start chasing women
Posted by Bondo (Member # 1403) on :
Some people just don't think before they speak, or don't realize that the effect of what they said was hurtful.
Everyone does it to some degree in one way or another. Funny thing is that when you realize you said something you wish you could take back, it's called "putting your foot in your mouth". OT: I wonder how that phrase came about?
Bondo
Posted by ledaemon (Member # 198) on :
Someone they find that's a "bad boy" who is exciting and want to have steamy nasty sex with = "SUPER HOT"
Someone that is unthreatening, boy next door, just a friend = "cute"
What most of the gals discover is that the guys they snubbed in their younger days should have been the good ones that they should have hooked up with the first time around instead of after... oh say... their second divorce to a super hot bad boy.
Of course Oscar seems to have hit the nail on the head with his reply!
Posted by Wing-Washer (Member # 3013) on :
quote:Originally posted by Ticklingsolesmaster: I would much rather have girls be honest with me then play mind games and everything else that they do.
That'll be the day...
quote:Originally posted by oscarthemonkey: Abandon chasing girls and start chasing women
Very good advice.
Posted by Wrinklesguy (Member # 732) on :
Ditto what Oscar said..girls however are fun to mess around with IE:Grab their shoes and sniff and take pics of their feet or whatever...but if it's love your after, look towards a Woman..
Posted by ozkar (Member # 13264) on :
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