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Don't get me wrong here i absolutely LOOOVE feet, but the fantasy of me sucking toes or licking the foot, whatever seems way better than when you actually do it. My girlfriend is a little bit into my foot thing, allowing me to do whatever i want, but i usually just give them a little kiss cos im embarresed to what she could be thinking. Anyway i had not seen her for two weeks, and when i saw her she painted her nails this absolutely gorgeous bright neon pink. I immediately gave her a foot massage which she loves, and they were looking so hot so she just looked at me and said go for it
I was really hesitant at first for reasons already mentioned but then i thought who cares she loves me and i have not had any feet or fanny for two weeks ( i was really horny!!! )
To put this topic into perspective, i could not wait to have those toes in my mouth, i fantasised about it every day and when i finally stuck them in my mouth i was like whoah disappointed, its just like licking or sucking any normal piece of skin, i don't know what i expect it to be like (not into stinky feet), but the thought of sucking her toes was way hotter than actually doing it if you know what i mean.
I have sucked on her toes loads of times over 4 years and i only really love it when we are shagging ( she likes it too ), everytime its the same thing its a little of an anti-climax. I don't know why i absolutely still love doing it and im thinking about it right now and i cant wait but when the actaul act of sucking her toes happens i feel kinda let down?
Why is this , am i expecting too much, what are your views?
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i totally get this. the thought is so much more exciting than the act is physically. what you need to try and do and experience it more mentally. the physical act is just how you described it.. sucking a bit of skin and there is gonna be no physical pleasure out of that. there have been times where i have felt a bit of disappointment, but overall.. i would never stop
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Although I'm not into really stinky feet either, your story illustrates why I do prefer at least a mild aroma vs no smell at all. It makes all the difference for me in terms of arousal. Now I like the "freakiness" of the act of licking feet in and of itself, but without some aroma, I may as well be licking her fingers.
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I don't think I can say I've ever gotten disappointed sucking on a woman's toes. I like working a woman's toes along my tongue as I slowly suck on them. If I can get a woman to like or to, at least, appreciate the sensation as well, then it's a bonus.
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I would suggest turning the lights off, maybe playing music that puts you into "space," and getting into that space. You will be doing the act, but appealing more to your inner beast. I have often had this issue with fantasy vs. sex, especially as I was developing my sexual drive. I started to worry that maybe I had burned out on insane fantasies and could only get off while playing a dirty "movie" in my mind. Now my mind has filled in a bit and allows itself to expand into...well, reality. Also, like "traditional" oral sex (I love oral on the toes...omfg...), if she is noticeably not as passionate about it as you are, that *may* have an effect. Those are just my thoughts...
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Wow, dude said Fanny. One thing I love about this board is that we are International. Everyone is from everywhere but come together on common ground. But..yea,I'm with "Five for Feet". A little aroma would be nice in your situation. I know you said you aren't into stinky feet, but they can be lightly scented. Not just absolutly foul-smelling. But what's happening in your head that isn't going on in front of you. In your imagination, is she talking? Are her feet more active in your visions? I enjoy dealing with womens feet simply because they are pleasing to all senses. Sight,Sound(if she likes to vocally express pleasure),Touch(smooth foot and instep, soft and wrinkly soles),Smell(like I said, a little aroma is nice but not overbearing),Taste(well, flavors vary between women). But as long as all senses are satisfied, so am I. But think about it. Maybe you are leaving something out. Something that is going on in your imagination but not in reality. But at least she is accepting of your desire for feet.
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couldn't the same be said about any body part? just piece of skin?
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No I can relate COMPLETELY. Toes LOOK amazing but your other senses don't interpret it the same way at all.
Eyes say: "Wow!"
Mouth says: "What's the big deal?"
I had to laugh at myself for getting with someone the other week who had NICE feet but I found myself prefering having a "hug and kiss" so to speak.
Maybe they have to be REEEEEEEEEAAAAAAALLYYYY nice. The first foot job I ever got caused quite a "reaction" from my little man if you get my drift. And I DO remember her having VERY above average feet. PLUS I'd had 'energy' stored up. I hadn't 'released' for a while, so maybe you need these combinations?
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Haha no I rather like it myself! but the fantasy side seems better than the real side... i think thats because my girlfriends feet NEVER smell and rarely dominates (which is part of it for me).
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