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I have read this a few times but I don't know if this is true...I'm curious as to what role most of you guys play. And as for you Ladies, Which do you prefer for the guy to be...Sub or Dom (during foot play) and why?...I am not a submissive person but I can play a semi-sub role during foot play...AND ONLY DURING FOOT PLAY...Some how the feet make me weak..But during sex I'm the Dom...Is that strange?
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Speaking for myself, I know I prefer to take the lead when it comes to sex and foot play. I'd never call myself dominant though, and I'm definitely no submissive.
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NO. Th women I hook up with won't even take me being submissive for a second.
Pretty much...submissive in my world is a fantasy. Being weak never makes the pussy wet. And as such doesn't exist in my sex life.
If I suck toes, she is getting fucked hard in the process, simple as that. And she loves me for it.
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quote:Originally posted by DeTrOiT: Are most men who have a foot fetish SUBMISIVE?
yes indeed.
quote:Originally posted by DeTrOiT: And as for you Ladies, Which do you prefer for the guy to be...Sub or Dom
most women prefer an alpha male (which is pretty much a dominant male). and i don't necessarily mean dominant like a guy who beats a woman with a whip or something like that. i mean dominant in a broader sense.
as you can probably deduce from these two opposing forces, it does not look good for most of us who have a submissive foot fetish. my personal belief is that it sux, but it can change.
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I don't mind either way. Really don't like the extreme sub or dom stuff, just completely turns me off!
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Very interesting and not what I expected (based on the perception that many have about foot guys). I'm not saying that I want to get my ass whipped, told to lick toilets, or the sole of a dirty shoe...I just like the foot play a little on the ROUGH SIDE sometimes..The percentage is lower than I expected but I'm not suprised.
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I used to hear that song on the radio - "Sweet surrender - is all I have to give..." and I'd think yeah must be nice. But it's a women's prerogative. Sexual attraction makes me feel like women are goddesses - but experience teaches that they're just as human as we are. So I try to channel it into ideas like submitting to love, submitting to the reality that I'm a warm-blooded animal with sexual needs... Even, strange as it sounds, submitting to equality. Because dealing with my fellow men I always have the idea I can punch him if I have to - but we have to give that up to get close to women. We have to submit to trying to please her. And pleasing her means staying strong and self-respecting. So yeah, I guess all this sounds like I'm submissive, or have an element of it - but I don't have to submit to a woman just because I kiss her feet.
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Submission plays no part in my love of women's feet. As I've mentioned elsewhere, I also have a passion for bondage and I am definitely the top in that situation, as well.
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Nothing submissive at all about my love for feet and in the way I enjoy my girlfriend's feet.
Suck her toes to "warm up" before a FJ,suck her toes while I'm balls deep in her or just plain ol' rub my dick on them. If you can see something submissive in any of the ways I just described then you can have a virtual cookie.
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