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Of course beauty is in the eye of the beholder but has anyone broken up with someone due to the ugliness of your partners feet? I did recently and I feel really bad/shallow, though there were other areas that bothered me too. Either way, how many other people are out there?
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Good for you oneagain, absolutely nothing shallow there. I agree Rider. My last relationship before this last one was over 4 years and the last bit was horrible, but man, she had fantastic feet. Loved the soles and she could point her toes amazingly. Definitely not a reason to stay in a relationship though.
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Hmmm...my theory is the BEST time to look for a mate is during the summer, cause usually women wear sandals during that time. Worst time, obviously, winter.
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I've got a different idea for what constitutes as attractive feet than most people. I don't like jewellery, nail polish or women who wear high heals (does baaad things to feet). I like naturally good feet. And thankfully all my previous girlfriends have done.
But it's never been a deal breaker. I could be with someone with "bad feet" (by my own definition) but I couldn't be with someone with a bad personality, ideals and attitudes. Now those are hard to find.
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quote:Originally posted by kingler: I've got a different idea for what constitutes as attractive feet than most people. I don't like jewellery, nail polish or women who wear high heals (does baaad things to feet). I like naturally good feet. And thankfully all my previous girlfriends have done.
But it's never been a deal breaker. I could be with someone with "bad feet" (by my own definition) but I couldn't be with someone with a bad personality, ideals and attitudes. Now those are hard to find.
I am much the same way kingler. I like more natural and want the woman's foot to be comfortable and not in pain or discomfort in the shoes they wear.
I have to admit for some women I have been attracted to physically whos feet might not have been super model quality...I have grown to appreciate there feet as they are.
Good example...another Thai woman I dated...she was a very warm person...good soul to her...a little meaty...but very sincere.
She had big 'sloppy' feet. She wore flip flops all the time and while her feet weren't caloused, she didn't take care of them and they just sprawled all over the place.
Because her personality I became more attracted to her feet and felt they were these wonderfully unkept feet whos soles were giving big sloppy kisses to the earth...they were probably the best feet I ever worshiped...too bad she had to return to Thailand and I wasn't able to follow her :|
On a similar thought pattern...there have been women that I didn't personally like...but once I saw they had very beautiful feet...that resentment went right away!!
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I have mentioned this in a thread some time ago:
I was dating a gal who was a print model. She was absolutely stunning, both as a whole and all the little parts; hell, even her pores were perfect. To go with this, she was genuinely charming on a personal level. She even enjoyed my sense of humor and, believe me, that's rare.
We had several intimate encounters but I could never get a good glimpse of her feet. Finally, one night I arrived at her place to pick her up for a date. She was running late so I rang her doorbell while she was in the shower. She answered the door in her robe and barefoot.
I have used this comparison before as it was my thought at the very moment: her feet looked like bags of smashed crabs.
We saw one another for a few more weeks and I just let it slowly, quietly end. Somehow, despite all her other assets, I just couldn't let that go - it was a deal-breaker.
Regrets? Not really. My intuition, rightly, told me that I wouldn't be satisfied.
Well, now I have to go put on some low-down, sad-ass blues. Thanks for making me think of that. Posts: 5067 | Registered: Apr 2005
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Ugh, back in high school I dated a girl with flat feet and webbed toes. Definitely not attractive. I broke up with her using the excuse that I couldn't stand her little brother and sister, which I couldn't stand them anyway.
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no? why would i date someone if i didnt like thier feet?
thats like going to see a movie with actors you cant stand?
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i cant imagine feet being that big a consideration for any relationship. if i am attracted to that person, i can overlook most 'flaws'. my ex-wife had some absolutely unattractive feet but that had no part in the demise of our marriage. my current wife has some of the most amazing feet i have ever seen and that hasnt made our relationship work any better.
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i say its understandable. and at the same time not. you see, if your partner is not stimulating to you there is something wrong. and while we all can fall in love regardless of the outer beauty if the inner beauty is apparent, if you can be sexually aroused by your partner than its just not gonna work out. im not saying shes ugly, but if the most cherished part of your sexual desire is not going to be stimulated i dont see it working anyways. you would have ended up messing around on her with some sexy feet and than the shit hits the fan blah blah, think of it as saving both of you time and heartache
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