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it's not about respect, if you ask me, it's more about the big picture.. she can respect it and not want anything to do with it. some times you don't have the luxury of knowing it full details before hand.
my wife had no real idea guys love what we do.. however.. while dating she learned a bit and showed more interest than before.
at times, now that we're married... she goes along as if i'm already satisfied and i've had enough.
in fact we spoke about it last night. to her.. she feels that i shouldn't be content on just her feet alone (not the case either) and that she feels i should want more than just her feet every now and again.
so... she doesn't volunteer her feet to me more than usual.. but she doesn't say no like when we were dating either!
so.. it's a big improvement.. however.. it's not ideal. but in the big picture model.. i'm happy and glad i married her. there is a lot more to a woman than access to her pretty peds! or pretty peds for that matter.
that said.. feet are icing on a cake for me. i can enjoy cake with no icing, but would prefer icing!
quote:Originally posted by RPM: it's not about respect, if you ask me, it's more about the big picture.. she can respect it and not want anything to do with it. some times you don't have the luxury of knowing it full details before hand.
my wife had no real idea guys love what we do.. however.. while dating she learned a bit and showed more interest than before.
at times, now that we're married... she goes along as if i'm already satisfied and i've had enough.
in fact we spoke about it last night. to her.. she feels that i shouldn't be content on just her feet alone (not the case either) and that she feels i should want more than just her feet every now and again.
so... she doesn't volunteer her feet to me more than usual.. but she doesn't say no like when we were dating either!
so.. it's a big improvement.. however.. it's not ideal. but in the big picture model.. i'm happy and glad i married her. there is a lot more to a woman than access to her pretty peds! or pretty peds for that matter.
that said.. feet are icing on a cake for me. i can enjoy cake with no icing, but would prefer icing!
RPM
I feel you dude. The foot fetish is a bit selfish and unintimate. Sexually we're the only ones enjoying ourselves whether it be foot jobs foot worship or whatever. Nothing beats the intimacy of sex and a woman that takes care of you and is in a commited relationship deserves intimacy. Guys,make sure you give that to your woman. I usually never took a footjob until I made my girl orgasm first either by oral or sex or both. Then if I was still feeling up for it i'd get a foot job. That way she always got the best of me and I got the best of both worlds. She was valiated in that her man couldn't get enough of her and she and the rest of her body didn't feel left out. Something that can easily happen for us foot guys. I feel you RPM..feet are definitly the icing after sex..or was I icing her feet after sex. lol.I made a dirty funny ;o) GQguy
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looking at this whole thread, i'm starting to think i should cut off any contact with any lady friends with nice feet.
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This selfish talk has to end. Does anyone realize that more than half of the body's 206 bones are located in the feet? And nerve endings in the feet travel up the spinal cord to areas of the brain and other parts of the body? I have run into a lot of women that have a 3rd g spot in their feet. Keep on keepin' ON!
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If her feet are not to my liking then we are still freinds, but if her feet are like WOW, then I need to be more than freinds
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If there's a sexual attraction yes. Ugly feet have completely turned me off of otherwise compatible women in some cases. Still friends with them, but the sexual attraction wasn't there
That's the nature of a true fetish.
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It’s changed a friendship of mine drastically.
I love my feet and heels and when men pay attention to them. It was pretty much something I kept to myself and whomever I was dating and never thought much about it. Then two years back I found out a close male friend had a foot fetish. I’ve got to admit it’s been nice having someone to talk about my tastes with but at the same time the temptation of messing around with one another has at times been pretty overwhelming. Now it’s pretty hard for us to have any form of ‘normal’ conversation.. it always goes back to sex & feet. On one hand it’s really flattering to know how much my feet turn him on but at the same time I almost wish I didn’t know about it at all. Once you cross that line you can’t ever go back.
Ps. 1st post in almost a year.
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It changes relationships only when your partner does not fully understand all that our fetish entails. All it takes is some respect and perhaps a bit of explanation/goading.
There was a situation I was in awhile back where the only way I could convince a girl that feet were "fun" was by sucking her toes and nearly bringing her to orgasm. We aren't dating anymore, but needless to say I turned her to our side.
Your welcome.
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We have crossed the line a few times and now things can be a bit sticky. He's really fond of my feet and now I know how good he is with them...
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I'll be honest. My fetish as alienated a lot of people who were once quite close to me, particularly when I was younger, like when I'd have a girlfriend at school and they'd instantly go off me once I began to slowly let on that I had a thing for feet.
Also, when I see sexy feet I can't help but stare, and I might just be being paranoid but I think my female friends notice this and, like I said, alienate them from me.
Right now I'm in a good relationship with someone who is unaware of my foot fetish, but this is fine with me because their feet is not my favourate part of their body. Though it's cool to have her feet in my lap now and then, if I get extremely horny I don't feel the urge to start licking her feet and stuff.
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quote:Originally posted by Faris: I'll be honest. My fetish as alienated a lot of people who were once quite close to me, particularly when I was younger, like when I'd have a girlfriend at school and they'd instantly go off me once I began to slowly let on that I had a thing for feet.
Also, when I see sexy feet I can't help but stare, and I might just be being paranoid but I think my female friends notice this and, like I said, alienate them from me.
Right now I'm in a good relationship with someone who is unaware of my foot fetish, but this is fine with me because their feet is not my favourate part of their body. Though it's cool to have her feet in my lap now and then, if I get extremely horny I don't feel the urge to start licking her feet and stuff.
yeah i lost a friend over her feet.
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