quote:Originally posted by Tiny Dave: I just come right out and tell them that I have a foot fetish and the just giggle and ask me for a foot rub.
how long into the relationship?
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quote:Originally posted by Tiny Dave: I just come right out and tell them that I have a foot fetish and the just giggle and ask me for a foot rub.
how long into the relationship?
That approach tends to work for me too. I'm not at all shy about liking feet so I usually go ahead and let them know that I have a foot fetish pretty early into a relationship(actually it's usually before it can even be called a 'relationship'). I don't really wanna waste time with a girl that's not gonna be cool with it. So I like to get it out of the way pretty quick ya know?
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i always lucked out, my past girlfriends would ask me if i had any fantasies/fetishes and i would say i had one but wouldnt tell them right away to get them more willing to accept it. they've all been ok with it after i eventually told them. one of them even made sure to tease me occasionally and always have footplay as part of our sex.
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The key is just to seem cool about it all, don't give off weird or nervous vibes.
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Often times I don't even have to say anything.
I was dating a girl and she put her bare feet in my lap and she noticed I had a boner and was just like "Oh okay."
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I haven't tell my gf that I have a foot fetish. As said above, I try her to guess by facts. I massage her feet when there's a chance, sometimes suck her toes and soles during sex, and sometimes, when we are in bed, I place my lap near her feet so she can rub them around there.
I haven't get a full footjob from her already.... but it's a matter of time. The surprising thing is that, when we were at the beginning of our relationship and I hadn't have the chance to show her I like feet, we went to a restaurant for dinner and she removed one of her shoes and put her foot on my crotch. There's where I thought "This is the girl I have been waiting for!"
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i'll just tell a woman. straight up. even a stranger. i dont really care what they think of me, i'm just telling the truth. but generally the response is good. my usual goes like this: "i LOVE that pedicure. very hot. and if i may, this may sound a bit crazy, but as a man with a serious foot fetish, you have just made my day." say that in a matter of fact tone and all i can say is that has always been successful for me.
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I should have expanded a bit. I don't really tell them but simply show them that I have a thing for their feet.
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