-------------------- "Nina, this is my house, you work for me, and I want to suck your toes." -Big Trouble (2002) Posts: 1855 | Registered: Nov 2007
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I've had one girlfriend and I never actually 'told her' that I have a foot fetish. I rather made her feel at ease and slowly opened her up to new sexual activities (i.e. footjobs), and made sure to massage her feet from time to time.
Neither of us ever even mentioned the word 'foot fetish', I was able to make the activities just seem like a normal part of a sexual relationship.
The key is just to seem cool about it all, don't give off weird or nervous vibes.
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i mentioned that I have this "thing" i like to do during sex. I also let this build up for awhile because I told her I was shy about it and that I thought it might be weird to her. One night at a bar, I asked her if she was ready to hear about the "thing". she said yes. and so I told her I like to suck toes during sex. She said and I quote" is that all, I thought it was going to be something involving poo or pee". Needless to say, I was sucking on her toes that very night.
I guess I was lucky that she was open to it. This was about a year ago. Now I can pretty much have foot fun anytime I want.
Basically, I made sure I peaked her interest in wanting to know what I liked but was too shy to ask for and when I finally told her she was open to it because it was something I liked and was gratful I was not asking her to pee on me.
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I told my wife when she was drugged up and going in for surgery and i asked if she remembered what i told her and she said know so i had to tell her all over again lol.
quote:Originally posted by Cain: I told my wife when she was drugged up and going in for surgery and i asked if she remembered what i told her and she said know so i had to tell her all over again lol.
lol
How long into the relationship was this? Cause you are forward. I cant imagine it was long after you met! ha!
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quote:Originally posted by shomeyoT0ES: I never really "told" my girlfriends (past or present) that I have a fetish! I simply made it known in the bedroom....
quote:Originally posted by shomeyoT0ES: I never really "told" my girlfriends (past or present) that I have a fetish! I simply made it known in the bedroom....
me too, but after it was out there we would talk about it
-------------------- 'Toes all painted, feet all out, it's the aphrodisiac for tommorow without a doubt' - Keith Murray Posts: 154 | Registered: Oct 2007
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in my experience - demonstrate in the heat of passion - and if that doesnt get you a slap, bring it up later.
being too up front about it to early makes it an "issue" - after all most girls (unless you are real lucky) wont have a shopping list of what they love sexually early in a relationship - so why should you?
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i've told my girlfriends in the past and never had a problem. I think the key is making sure the girl is really into you before being so upfront about it.
With my current girlfriend(our relationship is barely a month old), i haven't mentioned "foot fetish" at all (i did tell her i thought her feet were sexy, but I've never said the word fetish around her, much less telling her i have one) but i try to make it known with my actions.
I have sucked her toes/licked and nibbled her soles a bit during the heat of the moment and gotten great reactions.
I can tell she's gotten the hint, because she never hesitates to put her feet in my lap, or to rub them where we all love to be rubbed.
I think it mainly depends on the girl's personality. If she's open you probably won't have much trouble. Knowing each other fairly well and a sense of trust will really help out.
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From experience now I know not to tell. Telling usually gets a negative response, so I build up slowly. Get to know the girl maybe go out with the girl one thing leads to the other get to the massage if I'm lucky to get that far then continue from there. Getting my fantasy minus having to use the words foot fetish.
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