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No offense but most of "the boys" are your enemies. Don't tell them about the girls you want because 10 times out of 10 they'll try for them anyway just to say they have it an you don't or try to make you sound like a creep to them.
Anytime some schmuck says "bros before hos" he usually means "except when it's me and they're my hos". There's a reason just about all my friends are women.
As for approaching chicks I compliment their feet and talk to them. The ones who are cool with it I keep talking to. The vapid Brittney Spears wanna be cunts who are still living in their warped unattainable goddess fantasy aren't worth your time.
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beieve me, i've learned that the hard way. but thanks to something that happened a couple of days ago, i'm not fucking with shy girls anymore.
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well, if you wanna know, i might as well tell.
a couple of days ago, i met a girl in the dining hall who i thought was really cool. i talked to her for a while and we both agreed to go to lunch with eac other the next day.
the next day i go to the dining hall and wait for her, and she doesn't show up. so i call her dorm about 2-3 times seeing if she was there.
later that night, some guy gets in my face while i'm walking to the library telling me that she told him i was trying to get in her pants. he proceeds to threaten me about it(she's in a frat girl and she apparently told all he frat brothers this bullshit lie) then i send her a facebook message asking why she would lie about me. she says it's because i called her room about why she didn't show up to lunch and claimed i was stalking her. I JUST FUCKING MET HER!!!
if she didn't like me or wanted to go, she should've fuckin' told me, not ditch me and make me call her about it.
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I can see what your saying about her ditching you...but I dont think there was a need for calling her room 2 or 3 times.Maybe once would be good...or if that was what she wanted you to do then you should have just not called her and said fuck her. Chicks are like that man..always playing games...
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well, thinking about it now, i shouldn't not talked to her period. something always happens that ruins my shit. well, at least she doesn't know about "the foot thing"
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always a bright side to everything:)
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Note to self. Date 25 year or older chicks. Or at least persue the ones that exhibit more maturity.
She wasn't worth your time anyways if she didn't have the decency to cancel before hand. Keep truckin man and don't get down on yourself.
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note to self.... older women make more sense than younger ones. i learned in college... almost painfully.. if a gal doesn't show up when you have a 'date' set.. let her call you to explain or just assume she's not interested. no calls from me.. they assume you're a stalker if you do.. the rules have changed.
so... if i'm stood up.. i move on... no conversations about it. but if we've known each other a while.. that is different.
keep your chin up. those... painful lessons will prove so helpful later in life. Trust me.. it may take years before you see the value in them.
women are a tricky bunch.. but in time.. they make more sense.. just don't ever assume you'll have them totally figured out.. on one can!! not even themselves!
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well, i have 4 sisters and i'm the youngest, so i was expecting to know SOMETHING. boy, how wrong was I
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quote:Originally posted by blackHxC88: well, thinking about it now, i shouldn't not talked to her period. something always happens that ruins my shit. well, at least she doesn't know about "the foot thing"
For your own sake that's a great thing because I get the distink impression that she would't have been cool about it at all. I hope you have a lot more luck in the future & manage to get yourself a really good Foot-Queen inthe procces.
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quote:Originally posted by blackHxC88: well, thinking about it now, i shouldn't not talked to her period. something always happens that ruins my shit. well, at least she doesn't know about "the foot thing"
For your own sake that's a great thing because I get the distink impression that she would't have been cool about it at all. I hope you have a lot more luck in the future & manage to get yourself a really good Foot-Queen inthe procces.
i hope so myself, but i'm holding on to little hope at the moment.
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Just jumping in after a long absence from this site...
Sorry to hear about your situation, black.
I see you were born in June '88; I was born in April '83 ... so I guess I'm a little ahead of you, at least chronologically. I was very naive about things back at 18. And I still am. But not quite so much now. I can say I've been in your position. I dunno if my old posts are accessible, but if they are, you will find my personal experiences written down in a few of 'em.
Ol' William Shakespeare said that the world's a stage and all the people merely players. That's true to some extent, but it seems more like a game to me -- a very complicated game, where no one tells you the rules; you have to learn 'em as you go. It sounds like you have the maturity to learn fast. I am sure that you'll be doing better than me at 23! Listen to the guys n gals in here. There are people here that know their stuff. And chin up! I think you're gonna be fine!
P.S. You won't be at your current school/college forever. A change of place means a change of people. And a fresh start. And you can change things within the same place by broadening your interests and meeting new people.
Not meaning to lecture, though. I also tend to over-analyse and have trouble fitting in! Big social places like school/college/uni have always sucked for me! It's a tough ol' world, that's for sure, but as tough as people like us have it, we're at least fortunate enough to be living in rich, liberal societies (imagine if you were born in Africa, for example). I know that might sound lame, but thoughts like that always shake me up and keep the motor of optimism running. So don't listen to me too much ... but DO listen to these people! Past a certain threshold, I think foot fetishists end up being wise beyond their years. What a cool club to belong to.
quote:Originally posted by JayArr: Just jumping in after a long absence from this site...
Sorry to hear about your situation, black.
I see you were born in June '88; I was born in April '83 ... so I guess I'm a little ahead of you, at least chronologically. I was very naive about things back at 18. And I still am. But not quite so much now. I can say I've been in your position. I dunno if my old posts are accessible, but if they are, you will find my personal experiences written down in a few of 'em.
Ol' William Shakespeare said that the world's a stage and all the people merely players. That's true to some extent, but it seems more like a game to me -- a very complicated game, where no one tells you the rules; you have to learn 'em as you go. It sounds like you have the maturity to learn fast. I am sure that you'll be doing better than me at 23! Listen to the guys n gals in here. There are people here that know their stuff. And chin up! I think you're gonna be fine!
P.S. You won't be at your current school/college forever. A change of place means a change of people. And a fresh start. And you can change things within the same place by broadening your interests and meeting new people.
Not meaning to lecture, though. I also tend to over-analyse and have trouble fitting in! Big social places like school/college/uni have always sucked for me! It's a tough ol' world, that's for sure, but as tough as people like us have it, we're at least fortunate enough to be living in rich, liberal societies (imagine if you were born in Africa, for example). I know that might sound lame, but thoughts like that always shake me up and keep the motor of optimism running. So don't listen to me too much ... but DO listen to these people! Past a certain threshold, I think foot fetishists end up being wise beyond their years. What a cool club to belong to.