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I don't see any correlation either between self esteem and having a foot fetish. And, as others have mentioned, I believe that it can be hard-wired in us (nature) as well as a learned behaviour(nuture). Not being able top recall any younger childhood instances, I believe that it was hard-wired in me.
As far as a replacement for sex I'm on the fence. At times I REALLLY want my wife's feet, want to focus on them and even want to climax on them. At times I don't (and she doesn't either- she's very relational and would quickly put a stop to too many "feet-only" encounters.
The one advantage to being so aroused by feet is that I do use it as a replacement for intercourse is when she doesn't want to have sex. Not long after I disclosed my fetish to her I made it clear that I'm more than happy to satisfy myself with her feet when she's not in the mood (my sex drive is much higher than hers)- something that we've done frequently ever since.
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I agree with RPM! Great thread GQ. Great posts all around but especially from Janet! She is bright, beautiful, articulate and awesome! I could read posts from her all day, but I'd much rather spend the time sucking her toes of course!