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i had never been dominant until i met my boyfriend, and was hesitant to try it as i am naturally not a dominant person, but i found that i loved it. and a dominant woman works much better than a submissive one with footplay (i find, but thats just my opinion)
switching it up is good fun too tho, as well as just... being yourself lol
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quote:Originally posted by rhbdz17: I like to be the submissive, but I have realized that I'm really controlling the situation and thus dominant. I want the woman to do certain things in a dominant role, but I tend to direct them.
lol im submissive too but at the same we do have control lmao! weird.
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ah I think quite a few of us have different ideas on what dominance and submission actually means and involves
A few things to earlier people's posts
Sinnister: you say you could never be weak in front of her, I dont know how you see it exactly, but when I submit to a girl's feet, I really run the show, she is endulging in a fantasy I have created, I'm really the boss, she is pleasing me, at least thats the way I see it, I dont see it as a weak act at all, it's a choice
Also Lou Gojira: you say that her being dominant is more of a male characteristic and kills the mood? I dont know exactly what you mean by dominant, but to me nothing is more female than a girl tying me up and forcing me to lick her feet and pussy, you cant get more feminine than that
In summary my type of submission is not real "submission" its just sex play, so some would see me as dominant others as submissive, depends on the definition, who knows eh
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quote:Originally posted by Athena K: i had never been dominant until i met my boyfriend, and was hesitant to try it as i am naturally not a dominant person, but i found that i loved it. and a dominant woman works much better than a submissive one with footplay (i find, but thats just my opinion)
switching it up is good fun too tho, as well as just... being yourself lol
quote:Originally posted by Athena K: i had never been dominant until i met my boyfriend, and was hesitant to try it as i am naturally not a dominant person, but i found that i loved it. and a dominant woman works much better than a submissive one with footplay (i find, but thats just my opinion)
switching it up is good fun too tho, as well as just... being yourself lol
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hahahaha i thought id made it fairly clear Posts: 563 | Registered: Feb 2009
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From a woman's point of view I like both - but my preferance is for dominant, telling and demanding rather than asking - but not humiliation as such - I also like to be submissive - again as with mose people on the board depends on the mood and the situation - go with the flow and see where it takes me.
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