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hi all, my wife has such sexy feet and gives me foot jobs when i ask, whats my problem you may ask? well she must know i have a foot fetish but doesnt let it be known to me, however i would like to kiss, lick and smell her feet and generally worship them...can anyone help me???? How do i tell her i want to explore my fetish more without looking like im a freak????
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There's a post on here somewhere about revealing your fetish....Im sure you'll find alot of ideas there.
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You rstory seems to be quite similar to mine. I was together wityh my girlfriend for 2yrs before i told her about my foot fetish. You are one step ahead though already... the fact that she is giving you footjobs already, should make it all a bit easier. This is how i told my girlfriend: She gave me a footjob once, just out of the blue. I straight afterwards told her how much i enjoyed it and that i think i have a foot fetish. Since then she wanted to explore it just as much as i did.
I think honesty is the best way, so just get all thopse guts together and just come out with it. She will react in a great way i bet and you will be wondering why you haven't mentioned it a lot earlier. Hope all goes well.
quote:Originally posted by feetness: I was together with my girlfriend for 2 yrs before i told her about my foot fetish. You are one step ahead though already... the fact that she is giving you footjobs already, should make it all a bit easier. This is how i told my girlfriend: She gave me a footjob once, just out of the blue. I straight afterwards told her how much i enjoyed it and that i think i have a foot fetish. Since then she wanted to explore it just as much as i did.
Good golly miss molly! Indeed if she's giving you footjobs already you're 99% of the way there I'd think. Just reinforce that you LOVED it and continue to share with her how much you like her feet and what you want to do with them. I don't think you'll have any problems.
I didn't tell my wife for 23 years, but she accepted it whole-footedly and has continued to indulge me more every day. It's probably somewhat easier for us married guys, we know (hopefully) that our gal loves us and wants to make us happy. She knows I'll do anything for her, and she's demonstrating that she feels the same way about me. Go for it!
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Dude, that's your wife. She already lets you have a good amount of fun with her feet. If she doesn't think you're a "freak" for enjoying footjobs, she likely won't consider you one if you come out and state the obvious.
Being open is a very big part of a relationship, especially marriage. For better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness or in health, with fetish or without...or something like that.
My wife & I have been married for 4 years and we're still learning things about each other. Just keep talking, women (generally) love to talk about relationships.
quote:Originally posted by footlicker223: How do i tell her i want to explore my fetish more without looking like im a freak????
What's wrong with looking like a freak? I've always thought that the bedroom is the very best place to be freaky!
Seriously though, I agree with the sentiments that everyone else has expressed thus far. Having already enjoyed footjobs from your wife, the ice has been broken long ago and the hard part of the process is well behind you. You're now in prime position to take your fetish to the next level by simply keeping the lines of communication open between your wife and yourself regarding your sex life. Sounds like yours is surely on the right track!
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guys i finally took your advice and told her. We were in bed this morning getting frisky when i started rubbing her foot on me.... she asked me what i wanted her to do so i just came out with it and asked her if she minded that her feet turn me on ...she said no... so i asked if she would ever let me kiss her feet and she held up a foot and said if you like... so i pampered her foot with my mouth for a bit nothing too heavy though before we had the best sex in ages... Im going to take it slowly at first but thanks for the advice people its made me so happy...
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quote:Originally posted by footlicker223: Im going to take it slowly at first but thanks for the advice people its made me so happy...
Now that's the kind of stuff that just warms the heart (and other places for that matter). I'm thrilled to hear that being forthright has opened up a door to opportunity for you, footlicker223. Here's to all the rest to come!
quote:Originally posted by footlicker223: guys i finally took your advice and told her.
Good for you man- we're proud of you! I'm sure it feels like a ton o' bricks has just been removed from your shoulders. I felt the same way after finally telling my wife. Makes it feel like the planets are all aligned and everything's right with the world. Warning: lots of foot-fun ahead!!
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I couldn't imagine being married to someone (or even having a steady girlfriend...not that I would know anything about having a girlfriend ) and not having them know about my foot fetish. It just seems weird that you would be together with a lady for so long and they would not be aware of your special affection for their tootsies.
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quote:Originally posted by tootsylover: I couldn't imagine being married to someone and not having them know about my foot fetish.
Likewise. I really can't begin to fathom what that must be like, but I've certainly had my fair share of male acquaintances from the fetish scene who've indeed led lives of secrecy in keeping their fetishes hidden from their wives throughout the entirety of their marriages. The one thing that those guys all seemed to have in common was the accumulated stifling sexual frustration which ultimately caused them to stray and end up cheating at the fetish clubs or foot party events where I met them. I can imagine little that would be as oppressive as a life like that, unless of course the guy has a fetish for all things covert & clandestine, in which case he'd actually get off on keeping it a secret. hehe
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Hi guys just an update from my last post, life is great now my wife now asks which toe polish i like and duly obliges..last night in bed after i went down on her she asked if i would like to kiss her feet..man i was so horned up i nearly cum there and then..imagine a few weeks ago i thought she would freek now shes offering me her feet...this night was great and she finished me off with a foot job . heaven. next question how do i get her to let me take pics of her feet to show you guys?????
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quote:Originally posted by footlicker223: next question how do i get her to let me take pics of her feet to show you guys?????
One of the other guys out here will be better suited to lend some advice on this one because in all my years of foot fetish experiences, the notion of taking pictures of the gals' feet and then sharing them online hasn't interested me in the least. Even though I love perusing pictorial porn, my fetish is for feet rather than photographs, so cameras are always the last thing on my mind when I'm doin' what I do with the gals that I do it with. I guess I'm somewhat selfish in that regard but I like to keep those things private and the gals have always overwhelmingly appreciated that. I wish you lots of luck though if it's something that you want to do because we'd certainly all reap the rewards of it out here. Congrats on the awesome improvements in your situation with your wife, by the way. I love hearing stories like that!
quote:Originally posted by Calico Jack: What's wrong with looking like a freak? I've always thought that the bedroom is the very best place to be freaky!
1) Ask to take them so you can put one in your wallet (and/or take them to work or on a business trip (if appropriate))
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2) Ask if you can take photos of her feet and put them on the internet. Tell you think she has really sexy feet and you want to show them off. All women have some level of vanity - and most LOVE to be looked at. (And you don't have to show her face if that makes her happy).
She obviously wants to make you happy - so she'll likely be up for many things.
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