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i voted moderately only to make her happy. only because there was no option for slightly submissive. i rarely ever go sub. i don't do the sub/dom thing.. i rather share equally or be in control. (sharing being my prefered approach)
but on a few rare occassions, to make my lady happy.. i've submitted a little. but only a little and for a short period of time.. real short. doesn't do much for me romantically to be a sub.
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hell, as long as its in the bedroom, i'd take either role. my wife and i have played both roles and my enjoyment of her feet was present both ways.
quote: sorry but this is not my style. i dont care who you are, i refuse to let someone control me.
when i see something like this, it makes me thing you have either trust issues or insecurities. first of all, in a real sub/dom situation, the sub truly has the most power. s/he sets the limits.. what is a go, whats off limits, etc. second, its a role, its not about respect or lack there of. its not a statement of your life or personality.
quote:Originally posted by nusuth: first of all, in a real sub/dom situation, the sub truly has the most power. s/he sets the limits.. what is a go, whats off limits, etc. second, its a role, its not about respect or lack there of. its not a statement of your life or personality.
Good points, in addition to the fact that, although not always, it's usually a role/situation participated in only during sex.
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I can role play with a hot honey to get her heading in the right direction. Role play is cool from time to time in any relationship... again, from time to time --nothing permanent.
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Honestly, I definitely prefer to be in control, but every once in a while, I don't mind going sub for a little bit. In any sort of relations I've had, I've taken the lead and had control in any foot play. During sessions, I'm always in control.
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i prefer to be dominant. maybe and i do mean MAYBE swtich the roles once in a while but i think its sexy when a girl presents herself to me in a vulnerable "do what you will to my body/ feet come and get it baby" kind of way
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quote:Originally posted by pedactor: i think its sexy when a girl presents herself to me in a vulnerable "do what you will to my body/ feet come and get it baby" kind of way
Not that I don't enjoy that too, I do, but I'd also like it if from time to time my wife would take control and call the shots. Don't have any problem with that at all.
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I think it would depend on her and what she wanted. I'm not really submissive by nature - or dominant either - but I can find my way into whatever a situation might call for, depending on the people involved, the circumstances and how horny I am.
I can be as submissive or as dominate as it takes to set a situation on fire and get it roling....
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I used to like the idea of being both dominant or submissive with regards to my fetish, depending on how I felt with a woman on a particular day. However, I've since adopted being dominant, pretty much, all the time. Personally, I think women respond to this in a more positive way and it turns them on more than a guy being submissive.
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