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I dont think that I have ever admitted to having a foot fetish. I have kissed women on the head, on the ears, legs, backs, hands, and espessialy nyloned soles and toes.If they asked if I had a foot fetish I usually say (nothing sexual) Its just that your feet are so cute and femenine. However i've never asked for or had a foot job. Its not my thing But my Wife knows and at times enjoyes the foot worship.
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Open my ass to be honest(well, maybe in my neck of the woods) but it doesn't help to have a foot fetish and be socially inept:(
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im not open about it either but before me n my ex split up i got her 2 rub my cock with her feet.
i am quite embarressed about it i guess. but with me its weird sometimes im in a mood where if someone puts their feet anywhere near me i'll cringe but the next minute i want to kiss them
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No need to bring it up with your mates. Why risk being ridiculed when it's none of their business? Every girl I've been with I've sucked their toes from day one, fuck this hiding it crap. That only leaves you frustrated and going back to porn. To the dude with the Fiancee who only 'sometimes' indulges him, how do you really feel about it?
And I would never tell a girl 'I have a foot fetish'. That's lame and creepy. Just suck their toes when you're getting hot and heavy with them and ask her to rub your cock with her feet or just guide her feet down there, if she's got 2 brain cells or more she'll put 2 and 2 together pretty quickly!
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Am I embarased? I'm a timid person but its who I am so no, I'm not embarased per se. I'm def. private though, and I realize that most people think it's weird or creepy as a gut reaction. So no I don't tell people, in fact my fiancee is the only person I've ever flat out told. Except for minor things like saying a girl's gotta have cute feet when discussing shit with guy friends or telling an ex her feet looked really pretty after she got a pedicure, Ive never brought it up. I trust my girl not to tell anyone, but we have a lot of mutual friends and a lot of hers are guys anyway, so it prolly would never come up.
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Solid advice/insight Rae, no need for your friends to know, and most girls like it and like making their guy hot especially when it's part of their body (no toys needed).
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great question. here is my answer.. I do prefer my lady endulge me more than she does. however.. over time, she's done more endulging than in the past.
early in the relationship.. it was very frustrating and at times very aggrevating. I used to get upset and have to hide it from her. i was torn.. i felt i shouldn't want her feet so much to consider leaving her because she wasn't as involved into it as I was.
She's the most amazing woman I met. so, i leaned heavily on the fact that i don't feel i have a fetish.. but a very acute interest. that warmed her up.. she said she rather live with an acute interest than a fetish.
as of today.. if i request it.. she won't say no.. unless she's having a horrible day. I can nibble.. touch.. massage nearly as often as I please. however.. on days she feels she sweats too much (warm days when she works).. she is resistive.. i can insist and she'll go for it.. but her body language suggests she'd rather i not... so i don't.
she's verbalized the desire to let me have more of her feet when we're married. she just started painting her toes the color I love.. she's more attentive to the care she gives her feet so they feel as soft as I like.. and are as smooth as I like.
so.. now.. i'm not frustrated... and i dont' get upset that i've not had enough feet. i'm still a bit 'wary' that when married she won't continue to open up. but i have to cross that bridge when i get there.
what helps me the most.. i've got other 'related interst/fetish'.. so i can mix it up and feel satisifed without her feeling like i'm only focused on one thing. that is why i keep calling it an acute interest. i love her bare feet rubbing on me.. i thoroughly enjoy her hosed feet.. i am floored by her in heels... and i love massaging her feet. (plus love her in a short skirt too).
so.. with that mix.. i don't feel like i'm always on the short end of the stick. and she doesnt' feel preasured. to me.. that was the key to getting her to open up.
with this long winded answer.. i hope it enlightens. i will say this.. if i had a fetish.. i would be much harder pressed and much more annoyed with her. if i had to do it over again.. i'd be more 'aggressive' to get her feet in the manner you suggested Rae. I was too 'nice' about it... and didn't just "get" her feet while making out.
so.. from my experience.. if anyone has a girlfriend who isn't totally against feet.. just go for it.. make it as natural as anything esle you do.. saves you much headach and talk. and nowadays.. i just go for her feet. unless she pulls back (she has a way that means she's not game)... or asks me not to.... then.. i get her feet.
the wish of her just initiating... i think is where i've got to draw the line of understanding. she won't really initiate footplay.. but.. she will at times request a foot massage... and that is her way of getting relief from heels.. or letting me know i've 'neglected' her feet.
the future looks good.. so this long post will come to an end.
RPM
p.s. but.. trust me... it's much easier when the gal is already open to you touching her feet. my fiance comes from a cultural background where feet and any sweaty part of you is to be hiden from your man at all cost! believe me.. i've dated gals from similar background. it's drilled in. i got lucky, mines is adjusting slowly. but if i ever have to do it again (hopefully never)... it's best to have one who is already open to it!
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it feels very liberating to open up to your partner but i am still embaressed to tell my friends! even though i know they would accept it as thats what friends are for. its nothing to be ashamed of but i guess broadcasting it would be asking fro shit from a few narrow minded people!..
i also think there is something quite exciting about keeping it secret!
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I DO NOT have a foot fetish but I must say I really wish that that having a foot fetish was like buying a box of trash bags you know like no one looks at you funny. I know you guys are looking at the screen like how do you know BUT as a Foot Model I get ridiculed as well a couple people that matter in my life thinks that I am breaking the 11th commandment. I would like to say I don't care but I do...a little. I guess being myself overpowers my concern because I don't hide a thing. I don't always tell what goes on behind closed doors but I wouldn't do that no matter what it was.
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good to hear a woman's perspective on it. i know one of my friends who has modelled for me.. got teased once because her friends found some of her pics on her digital cam (destined to be emailed to me). she said it was hurtful the things said to her.. and she tried hard to write it off as if she was comparing nail designs next to each other.
shame really. but.. it's not just the guys who struggle with it sometimes... and what of the S/O who live with a guy into feet.. i'm sure they have some heat to take if it slips out of their mouths in conversation.
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I don't openly tell people about my fetish but i am not embarassed about it either. One day i believe certain aspects of it will be accepted more. My wife knows of my fetish she accepts it even though she finds it weird. And about 3-4 of my friends know and share the same fetish. My closest friend is just as foot happy as i am.
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i dont understand why people think its gross. Its part of a woman. Since guys like women, why wouldnt you like a hot pair of feet on her?
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Your fortunate russ, that in your generation the girls accept a footlover. It seems to be coming out in the open more now-a-days. Like in movies, commercials even. I'm not embarrased of my insatiable love for feet. Subtle Maybe. i.e. Standing in line at the cafeteria waiting for my order to be taken, a very attractive lady with sandles and red painted pedicured toes was next to me. When asked what I wanted I told him French Toes and looked to see what her reaction would be. She smiled and blushed.
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There's a couple of people I've told about it, and they dont think it's a big deal. Everyone's got their 'buzz' factor, mine just happens to be feet.
Having said that, it's not the sort of thing that you talk about in casual conversation. It's private stuff.
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