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I'm beginning to wonder about that, a bit. Virtually everyone in my department now knows I like women's feet. They seem to be accepting of it. But what about the conservative types who aren't accepting? They will look on me as a weirdo. And another thought: What if some women have decided to keep their shoes on while I'm around because they don't want me to stare at their feet? Am I being a bit paranoid? Perhaps I am! Are any of you guys in similar situations?
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nothing wrong with a little paranoia, you're justified in your feelings.
i'd say it's a balance of being open and sometimes not. Just a matter of using your best judgement to hold back from those real conservative types, but more power to ya in getting it out in the open with those who are cool with it.
I hope it leads to a good foot hookup for ya! You'll never know if you're not open about it, so I applaud you in that respect
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Thanks. Some of the girls have been cool about it. They've shown me their new pedicures, and have let me rub their feet. One girl once took her boot and sock off to show me her new pedicure! (She was eventually murdered by her bastard husband--RIP)
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i am completely open about my foot fetish , but the workplace may not be the ideal venue to be upfront about sexual matters.
its a good idea to keep work and play seperate.
unless you have a really close friendship with a co-worker (who you can trust not to gossip) i always think its a bad idea to share such personal infomation with people who are just strangers that you happen to spend eight hours a day with - after all, did they share thier sexual preferences with you ? Posts: 1751 | Registered: Aug 2002
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I don't see the point in being open about it with people you won't be messing around with
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quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike: I don't see the point in being open about it with people you won't be messing around with
I agree with MM. There is something to be said about being discreet at the workplace. Remember that saying, "Don't get your meat where you get your bread"? Something to consider...
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quote:Originally posted by dougiezerts: She was eventually murdered by her bastard husband
holy smokes! hope it had nothing to do with a jealous rage.
i think folks are right when they say in general not a good thing to just share in most workplaces. might be a little different if you worked for hugh hefner or some cool rad place with lots of hip chics (like Sunset Tan), but how often do we ever land those kind of jobs.
anyway, use good judgement and balance it as necessary, especially if there's potential hotties who might take an interest or curiosity in you later
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That all depends on who your "circle of friends" are. If they've known you for years, and pretty much know you're into feet, it shouldn't be a big deal. Otherwise, keep it to yourself. The only folks who don't know about my fetish are my co-workers. That would freak them out!
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quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike: I don't see the point in being open about it with people you won't be messing around with
I agree with MM. There is something to be said about being discreet at the workplace. Remember that saying, "Don't get your meat where you get your bread"? Something to consider...
Yep I agree three. No reason to tell, foot fetish still isn't fully accepted and who knows it might be used against you. No need for your co-workers or your boss to know about it.
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At work or school, I'll keep my fetish to myself. I'll open up about it, and have opened up about it, around close friends I've known for awhile, and around a girl who feels comfortable around me.
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Most of my co-workers are people I've known for many years. The company I work for is very laid-back. Yes it was a jealous rage that caused the girl's husband to kill her. But it had nothing to do with me, thank God! We were just good friends, no lovers. I wasn't carrying on an affair with her.
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It depends on the moment and environment. One has to be selective about opening up. I drop casual hints, that a woman who knows about the FF culture can pick up or understand, but nothing direct, unless I see a good reason to do it.
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its ok to be open in some cases. I am becoming more and more open. I have recently noticed how much women seem to do anything to get their feet noticed
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I'm pretty honest about it. I figure girls who get upset about it aren't worth worrying about. Most girls I meet are very accepting and some think it's cute. One even lets me pick colors for her pedicures. On the other hand guy friends of mine who think I'm a weirdo for liking female feet are no friends of mine.
This isn't high school anymore and I've moved beyond the whole impressing the clique mentality.
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