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When I meet a new woman and have established that she is open to exploring foot fetish with me I use clips and vids I have collected over the years as primer for the foot fetish newbie’s.
See, I've found that women have these vivid imaginations. You tell them you want a footjob and they see it happening in some dungeon with you dressed in leather and gag ball in your mouth.
Alternatively, they have no idea how to engage in and enjoy footjobs/foot worship etc.
Therefore, I let them watch exactly how I like it via clips/vids. They emulate the vids and go into the footjob/footworship etc. with more confidence and excitement.
Also, seeing normal looking everyday women who look like their friends and family enjoying foot fetish activities in casual comfortable environments such as bedrooms, living rooms and backyards seems to put their minds at ease with respect to any misconceptions about what kind of people do the "foot thing".
Anyhow, I'm just curious how you all handle newbie’s?
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I tend to not go for the porn right off the bat. Most of the girls i've dated, or been with really aren't into porn of any kind...Except like one of them, and she was into girl on girl, not foot fetish type porn.
Most girls i've met enjoy to explore it and figure it out on their own, with my help, and develop their own style without any guidance from video's or clips.
I'm pretty good at being descriptive and being rather clear in my own intentions with her feet, and how soft core it really is compared to most other fetishes, and contrary belief that we all foot guys are all as you say about the ball gag and dungeon scene.
I kind of prefer it that the girls develop their own style, and figure things out on their own, especially footjobs. I don't like it when something or somebody else's style or techniques are copied, or emulated. Seems really fake to me, and it could just be something in my own mind that makes me feel this way. But if she asks to see something for reference or atleast something to go by then i will find some clips for her.
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I agree with DaBootman on this one. I'm more for letting women figure it out as they go. I think it's more fun for them, as well as a challenge (which women do like), to figure out exactly what can make you bust a nut. As DaBootman said, most women really aren't into porn so showing them vidclips of what you like probably isn't the way to go. Plus, going into it with no moves or techniques in mind lets them develop their own style of giving one. If they, however, decide to get intrigued about it and look it up online on their own, fine. However, that's their own business and I'm not really going to ask that they do that.
Maybe it's me, but I think a few women would find it a little insulting if you showed them vidclips of how to give a footjob, regardless if they knew what they were doing or not. It's kind of like showing vidclips to a woman of other women giving blowjobs and saying, "This is what I want you to do." I could be wrong though. I know there's different ways of getting what you want and one method doesn't work for everyone.
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Agreed. Sometimes, if I feel they are really prude, or can't handle porn, I'll let them "figure things out on their own". Still that method doesn't really work for me to well either. I don't date girls for very long, pump'em and dump'em is the mantra boys, I don't care how fine she is.
Note, thats why I stated explicitly that after establishing mutual interest in foot fetish I will introduce the porn. These are generally the more sexually open chicks anyway who have a higher probabilty of liking or being at ease watching porn.
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Maybe it's me, but I think a few women would find it a little insulting if you showed them vidclips of how to give a footjob, regardless if they knew what they were doing or not. It's kind of like showing vidclips to a woman of other women giving blowjobs and saying, "This is what I want you to do." I could be wrong though. I know there's different ways of getting what you want and one method doesn't work for everyone.
Maybe it's me, but I think a few women would find it a little insulting if you showed them vidclips of how to give a footjob, regardless if they knew what they were doing or not. It's kind of like showing vidclips to a woman of other women giving blowjobs and saying, "This is what I want you to do." I could be wrong though. I know there's different ways of getting what you want and one method doesn't work for everyone.
You can say that again. I'm a complete jerk and I still get chicks. I love saying shit that makes their jaw drop. I break their balls left and right.
It works so much better than whispering sweet nothings into their ear.
And showing a girl exactly what you want is fair game. Whether it be porn or trial and error.
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