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Hmmm...now that I think about it, I don't think I've ever paddled the pickle while thinking about female coworkers or friends or what have you. I can get turned on looking at them and have some thoughts go through my mind, but when it comes to jerking off I'll either think about the girl in front of me (on the computer, in a movie I'm freeze-framing, in a magazine, etc) or I'll think about totally imaginary dreamgirls that exist only in my head, or in the stories I write, or the drawings I'll sometimes do of them.
I think with me personally, I don't really put a girl I know into a level of fantasy unless I'm actually hooked up with her and dating her...but by then I really wouldn't need to fantasize over her because I could just meet up with her and get on with the actual physical acts. Maybe my line of discernment between fantasy and reality is more entrenched in my mind or something.
Either way it's all good...folks have thoughts all the time and you shouldn't have to feel guilty over thinking about something that turns you on. Co-workers, dreamgirls, friends, internet models, marital family members...who gives a damn? In the end it's just you with yourself in your hand...you're not hurting anybody or breaking any laws...so think whatever the heck you wanna think, and enjoy the fantasy.
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This topic wasnt meant as an inquiry of whether or not you've fantasized about co-workers or real life women---who hasn't done that? My point was that I was in the middle of my 'one hand jive' to some pictures on here, and I HAD TO STOP AND CLOSE MY EYES BECAUSE THE FANTASY IN MY HEAD WAS WAY HOTTER AT THE TIME.
That to me was odd---it doesnt happen to me too often, but when it does, it reminds me of the power of the human mind.
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