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Ok so check it. I've been kickin it with this girl for quite some time now. We've just been friends and all but we get along real well and she seems like she's really horny. What do you think would be the best approach to ask her if she wants to get nailed? I'm sure she wants it, but I dunno how to ask her about it without completely sounding like a person that I'm not. Obviously foot play would come later on, but this comes first. Any idea? Don't worry about the notion that it could ruin our friendship or anything like that. I don't think it would to be honest, it would just make her think of me abit differently. What's the best way to start the convo about it?
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Rent a movie and watch it with her (sad one or romantic one). Make sure you guys are alone and sit close to her. Make a move. I swear actions are louder than words. If she's into you, she shouldn't resist. If she does, well, it's gunna be awkward. GL dude.
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let her know that your horny for her........not with words but with long gazes into her eyes and short looks at her body parts, if she comes to your place wear loose pants, after a while she'll know whats up
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it's kinda odd, but i've had surprising luck in that scenario recently with a friend when she accidently bumps my boner area and it happens to be hard... real hard.
one thing can then lead to another.
maybe position yourself for a higher chance of some part of her body accidently bumping you.
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You never ask a woman for sex. That just doesn't work. You lead and if she wants to follow she will. Go with the movie idea. I'd go with a funny comedy though. That way the mood is lighthearted and fun...exactly the way you want your sex to be....just an extention of the fun you were having earlier. If sex is your goal...you will fail. Fun should be your goal..and if sex makes things more fun...go right ahead. I'm going to assume you haven't gotten physical with her at all. Hold her hand,tickle her push her give her a massage. Have fun! Play with her hair, when she gives you the strong eye contact get close to her face slowly and keep chatting, if she's up for a kiss this violation of her personal space won't bother her and she won't move. Go in and give her a good kiss. Stop the kiss first though. Women love/hate that. I know I do. This make her want to kiss you more. Kiss for a while and enjoy it! If you rush...you suck and she can tell. Proceed with some heavy petting and some clothes removal.......and you're on you own. I always start with oral on her first to reward her for her good behavior so far. There you go. Now after sex with your friend things will never be the same. You gus will probably start dating pretty seriously. Be carefull! GQguy
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If she's just a friend and you want to validate going further based on sex...you'll be sorry. I'd heed GQ Guys words and tread carefully; perhaps you two were only meant to be friends (without "benefits"). I guess you wont know until you give a go.
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You shouldn't just downright ask, don't degrade yourself or her. Go with what the other guy said: rent a movie, alone, sit close etc. Movies always work.
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I agree with GQ. If you act "hungry", you won't get "fed". Keep it all light as you lead her. If she wants it, she will follow. If she doesn't, don't make a big deal about it.
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quote:Originally posted by GQguy: You never ask a woman for sex. That just doesn't work. You lead and if she wants to follow she will. Go with the movie idea. I'd go with a funny comedy though. That way the mood is lighthearted and fun...exactly the way you want your sex to be....just an extention of the fun you were having earlier. If sex is your goal...you will fail. Fun should be your goal..and if sex makes things more fun...go right ahead. I'm going to assume you haven't gotten physical with her at all. Hold her hand,tickle her push her give her a massage. Have fun! Play with her hair, when she gives you the strong eye contact get close to her face slowly and keep chatting, if she's up for a kiss this violation of her personal space won't bother her and she won't move. Go in and give her a good kiss. Stop the kiss first though. Women love/hate that. I know I do. This make her want to kiss you more. Kiss for a while and enjoy it! If you rush...you suck and she can tell. Proceed with some heavy petting and some clothes removal.......and you're on you own. I always start with oral on her first to reward her for her good behavior so far. There you go. Now after sex with your friend things will never be the same. You gus will probably start dating pretty seriously. Be carefull! GQguy
This advice is very helpful in my situation of just getting feet with a close friend of mine...thanks, GQ!
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LovelyLadies and GQ, excellent advice...I think any movie would work except a movie where best friends hook-up - she'll know it is a set up.
Huge Clive Barker fan - scarry works too. I used to use Halloween back in the day. My Aunt worked in a county psych ward, (you wanna see hell - go to County - Cabrini Green is/was a resort compared, anyway) and was told to carry a Derringer for protection, since patients on physchotropic drugs may not ever stop, so you have to stop them - like Michael Meyers. The chics grabbed my hand when I told them that story. Weird gory scarry doesn't work.
If you can find a victim for SAW, that will get her squirming. 1408 is pretty creepy and what woman doesn't dig John Cusak since "Say Anything."
We cannot ask - they have to start and we finish - and I tell them right after the first halted kiss that you control, "Just so you know, this will only go as far as you let it."
We are already demonstrative, assumedly stronger - give up control. And then reward them like GQ said.
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