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I find that there is an ambiguity in the way many of us view feet. See, we all love feet and involve them in sex. One might even go as far as calling them sex objects on par with a woman's busom. Yet we try to get away with things regarding feet that one wouldn't be able to get away with when it comes to parts of the female body deemed sexual by mainstream standards. For instance many of us find rubbing a pair of feet as sexual or even more so than rubbing a pair of breast. Yet none of us would dare ask an aqaintance to rub her breast, but would ask that same person to rub her feet knowing that we see it as sexual but she doesn't. Isn't that a bit dishonest? I do it too so i'm in no way holier than thou but just bringing up a thought. If she were to freak out about the request to rub her breast she'd be justified....but if she freaked out about the foot massage offer we'd say "it's just a foot massage, relax" knowing that it's more than just that. What do you guys think? GQguy
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Hey bro I agree with you 100% ... But thats how we get away with it ... its not something chicks think about as sexual and well most of us do ... Are you asking if we feel guilty for doing it? I know I dont... Plus both sides get to enjoy something ... so I feel its a win win for both.
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I'm just posing a thought. I think at times it gets some us in trouble. Many of us would give a girl that had a boyfriend a foot massage if her feet were pretty enough and pass it off as just a foot massage. But if we were that boyfriend we'd probably flip about and go pulp fiction style on the guy...right? Just a thought. Not really trying to make a point. Just discussion about how we as a group think and interact with the rest of the world.
Here's another question. any of us would like to see foot fetishism made more mainstream. If that became the case though, would the sexualization of feet be good for us or bad. Think of the "innocent" foot massage you gave to that platonic friend of yours. All of a sudden she'd be creeped out by your innocent request. But on the other hand one would gain acceptance for hi peers when talking about his "thing" for feet.
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quote:Originally posted by GQguy: ...none of us would dare ask an aqaintance to rub her breast, but would ask that same person to rub her feet knowing that we see it as sexual but she doesn't. Isn't that a bit dishonest?
Certainly can be interepreted as such.
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I've found that even when women are aware that I'm into their feet, they have trouble wrapping their brains around the idea. I've been snagged numerous times ogling or candidly recording women's footplay and even though they've figured out what I'm up to, none have removed their feet from my gaze(or my cam's lense). I suppose they figure if I'm into feet, that's my problem. I even think some of them(exhibitionists perhaps) enjoy getting to turn on a guy with something as seemngly innocent as their feet!
As far as mainstream acceptance, I have to selfishly say no, I'd rater it stay underground. Since my fetish is primarily voyeuristic in nature, I'd hate it if women felt compelled to hide their feet in public. One of my favorite things about being into feet is being able to just head to the park and take in a foot show or several(weather permitting of course!). I'm afraid that mainstream acceptance would greatly curtail if not completely stop the public foot exposure I so thoroughly enjoy!
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I agree that those of us who enjoy women's feet are able to get away with stuff that, to us, is sexually charged. Personally, I've given my share of foot massages to women who had no idea that I find the female foot very erotic but have never felt guilty about it. I do view it, as someone posted earlier, as a win-win situation, as both the woman getting the foot massage and I get something out of it.
As far as foot fetishism going "mainstream", I can't say I'm a big fan of that idea. For every woman who might be accepting of it, I think there would be several that would freak out about it and spoil any public viewing pleasures. I'd rather handle women's exposure to foot fetishism hands on and on a one-to-one basis.
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GQGuy, this is one of the more insightful threads I've seen posted on a foot board.
Very elusive food for thought here, and I feel more proud to know that foot fetishists can be more than just a small slice of the collective "wanker pie".
The ability to seem innocuous, while really being self-serving the entire time is a true gift when opened properly. It's moral relevance, of course, will vary by individual, and that is a good discussion point you bring up as well.
Anyway, my thoughts on the dishonesty factor for misleading/"innocent" foot rubs would probably not be a surprise to many -- "it is just fine". Life is full of shameful or tragic things which we all approve of in order to get by (or survive).
Don't believe me? Just ask your next food server where the meat in your hamburger came from. And if you're a vegan, go talk (in plant language) to the parent who spread his seed for that mushroom melt you devoured last night. From there, the rationalized exceptions/justifications just wither into dribble.
Anyway, my point is that these self serving factors (that some might construe as dishonest) are just fine as long as nobody is hurt. Life is also a trade-off. Many times, what they don't know won't hurt them either... so there is no need to let a woman know that this gentle foot rub which you've offered her is actually way more rewarding for the giver than the receiver, LOL! Some things are better left unsaid, in fact, many are.
Get yours while the gettin is opportune, and believe me the opportunities are there in many forms
The potential (and probable) innocuousness of feet is our greatest gift that should be exploited for our self serving purposes (I, in fact, use this mindset in a variety of ways already in my approaches with women).
Never let out the secret of our foot fetish gift because mainstream will be really pissed at us for knowing that we were actually able to pull the wool over their eyes in return for all those years of their unfair judgment on us, LOL!
I say screw their collective biases and lets perv thru the cracks w/o them ever knowing, Tee Hee! The perception of foot rubs being a service to the recipient (rather than the fetishist) is one of many great ways to do this. An eye for an eye BABEEEE ...and a hand for a foot
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We are much luckier than breast men. We get to see the object of our desire displayed in abundance on a regular basis. A breast man has to get a woman home and get her top off to see those naked breast. We can just go to a park or a grocery store or a swimming pool or the beach and see plenty.If our fetish became more widely known and as you say "mainstream", women would probably wear closed shoes all the time. Probably even some kind of foot covering at the beach. Some of our over zelous legislators who want to legislate morality would probably pass laws requiring them to keep thier feet covered. We don't want that. I like it just the way it is.
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I agree with just about everything posted in this thread so far. I am especially glad to have a fetish that is not considered normal. It really helps me to give the impression of being "different" with the ladies. And so far it has worked wonders for me. I've literally been able to talk the shoes off every girl I've ever dated.
I don't think, however, that if the foot fetish could ever become so mainstream that it would change the way most people view feet. If you think about it, the foot fetish has become more and more prominent in the media over the past few years, both in positive and negative lights. But it will be a long time before we see women hiding their feet because of "creepy foot guy" hysteria. As someone else said it's very hard for most people to wrap their brain around feet being sexual, and that's something that is not going to change any time soon.
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Feet are not immediately regarded as sexual by most people so it is much easier to get away with a foot massage than a breast rub.
As for myself, feet are a wonderful dessert. I want to try everything on the menu, breasts, vagina, and more. Though I generally prefer to feel my erection slipping back & forth between a pair of tightly pressed arches, there are still times when there is no substitute for plundering a tight ass.
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come to think of it, there are legs men out there as well as people who love hands believe it out not, blimey! Does that mean women are gonna cover their whole body just so guys cant get stimulated by lookin at them (space suits :S)?!
I honestly dont think they will cover their feet even if it did go mainstream, women love shoes and they love to paint their toe nails and all that, i think that desire dwafs any fear of some guy lookin at them and gettin turned on, women in sandals and flats are like cleavage to us, you almost see it all but not quite. Somehow i think its because of the cover up that so many people become into something that they dont get to see often, such as breasts so even if they DID end up covering them completley, that would probably just create even more foot guys.
As for the original question, heck yes we are getting away with something that we shouldnt really, but like most people have said, the masses ignorance is our advantage, its not our fault that they see feet as just feet, it just means more for us.
This thread has made me thing abit more about the whole mainstream think, im starting to think that it might not be the best thing in the world, maybe women wont cover themselves up, but they WILL be more aware, so we will find it very hard to casually glance down without them spotting us looking there and then.
But mind you, i have all the feet i want on the internet so it isnt too much of a downer, i prefer fully being stimulated in the comfort of my own home anyways rather than getting boners in public and having to calm down before im spotted with a "gun" in my trouses
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If feet aren't sexual, then why do many of us guys feel sexually attracted to them? Not meaning to open a religious debate/can of worms, but perhaps God intended the female foot to be an object adored by men. Is offering to massage a lady's feet dishonest? I think it depends on the situation. If she's a female friend who "knows," then no. But if she's a reletive stranger, then yes it might be. Like pedactor said, don't do something stupid and turn yourself into a weirdo, in her eyes.
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