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Foot fetish can control your life. Well, maybe not. But, it sure can run your dating life. Has feet ever ruined a relationship?
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sorry to hear you're worried about this, but if it helps it's never ruined one for me... i had one gf who really didnt like it when i paid attention to her feet lol but it didnt end it or anything. i've actually been very lucky and most of my girlfriends have been really receptive to my foot fetish and enjoyed it, so i've gotten footjobs etc from girls i never thought would be into it which is a nice suprise! there are girls who love it out there u just have to be lucky enough to find them! good luck!
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Yeah I would not say that it had ruined a relationship - maybe cause a very minor problem / awkward feeling if say I was in the mood for feet more than anything else, but she wasnt.
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nah.. no issues for me.. maybe because it's more a finely tuned interest instead of a fetish.. therefore.. if a gal isn't into what I like.. then.. i can proceed without. (thankfully.. that didn't come into play for marriage.. well not full effect anyway)
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It's very hard for me to tell most of the time. I get things in waves. A lot of the time I feel I'm fine without women and feet. But there are these sudden bursts where I feel desperate.
I'd like to think I'm fine without getting feet and being single. Which is not just wishful thinking, because I happen to keep myself happy and content a lot of them time.
But then there are moments like tonight when I was at a gig. The females were quite agitating me.
This thankfully doesn't happen often. It doesn't help though, that my past relationships have brought out the mysoginist in me to a certain extent. It's mostly what causes me to not bother chatting women up. Plus being lazy as fuck LOL.
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My wife loved getting her feet massaged whenever she wanted while we were dating. She was a bio-chem major and had a lot of lab classes which involved standing - so at the end of a long day of counting fruit flies or mixing chemicals, she always enjoyed that I would rub her feet for her. When I finally confessed my foot fetish to her after we had been together for about 6 years (wasn't nearly as open about it back then - no Wu's to let me know it was normal) she basically said "no shit! I knew that after about 3 months of twice a week foot rubs." So, it never got in our way, she just figured it was part of what made me me and she enjoyed the attention. I remember after I graduated and went off to grad school, she came to visit for a weekend and told me to stay in the living room of my apartment and she would be right back. Well, it was in February in Michigan (the definition of cold) so she turned the heat up in the apartment to about 80 and ten minutes later she came out wearing shorts, a tank top and strappy beach sandals. Then she set out a blanket on the floor for a "beach picnic". When she came out I let out a low whistle and she held her foot out in front of me and asked if I liked the color on her nails with her new sandals. How could a foot guy not like hot pink nails in strappy sandals in the middle of winter?!
Bottom line - if she truely loves you for who you are, then she'll adapt to (or hopefully adopt) your lifestyle.
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Yes, I won't date a girl with ugly feet. GQguy
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id like more foot attension in a relationship, but im really tickleish but like havin the tops of my feet bein touched, dont seem to get much tho ;-(
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Of course it has, the up front selection process of finding a woman more like Madion and seeing something you like is quite a balance! Hey, it is safe sex, anyway!
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Never got in the way, au contraire, it always adds an extra edge to my sexlife
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to say it's gotten in the way is an understatement. they've pretty much ruined it to be honest.
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quote:Originally posted by Keyfeet: Foot fetish can control your life. Well, maybe not. But, it sure can run your dating life. Has feet ever ruined a relationship?
Never ruined a relationship, but it has got in the way. Could have hit it off with this chick in one of my classes last semester, but i just wasn't attracted to her feet at all. Being as i have a legitimate fetish, that wasn't going to work for me.
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Well it didnt ruin the relationship but I really looked stupid. I actually stayed in this really abusive relationship because this girls feet were so bloody hot. I was only 17 at the time and we were in high school but I used to give her foot massages in class kiss her feet and all that and I dont know I think it blew my mind that she was into it but the downer was this girl was suuuuuch a biiiiatch. Cheated on me, sole a really pricey watch and money from me, my parents were so disappointed in me for the longest because they found out about all the classroom foot fun on a parents evening. Well I guess I got what I deserved for really staying with someone I should have broken up with years ago.
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