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So, my live-in girlfriend, naturally, can get a little bit jealous. Looking at any foot fetish related things on the internet makes her upset. So, we came to the compromise that I could look at anime and drawn feet (like comic book) in my collection, just nothing real (even though she can still feel jealous about that, too).
Other than a limited amount of content, it's not too bad. Was curious what you guys thought if your wives/partners wanted to make this deal?
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That's great if it works for you. Personally, it would be a deal-breaker if my partner tried to dictate what I can and can't read/watch/do! I'm curious, what upsets her about your porn-viewing? Does she think you have a limited quantity of lust, and that you're wasting it online Unless you're whacking it so much to the foot stuff that your bedroom performance suffers, I suggest she work on her insecurity issues and let you view what you like.
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quote:Originally posted by archadmirer: That's great if it works for you. Personally, it would be a deal-breaker if my partner tried to dictate what I can and can't read/watch/do! I'm curious, what upsets her about your porn-viewing? Does she think you have a limited quantity of lust, and that you're wasting it online Unless you're whacking it so much to the foot stuff that your bedroom performance suffers, I suggest she work on her insecurity issues and let you view what you like.
I agree. I've never been with a woman who had a problem with my porn viewing habits. The only problem is that most women I've been with want to see standard sucking and fucking porn when we watch together. I find it kind of boring, and they find fetish porn kind of boring.
I certainly don't dictate what materials they look at, either
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No. It isn't that our bedroom performance suffers. She just feels jealous that I'd be wanking off looking at something other than her feet. I think it's just insecurities. We've been together for a year and a half now, and before that, she never voiced the concern. Only in the past few months has it become a greater issue in our relationship. She doesn't even like it when I mention bring it up or mention it.
But, see, she loves my fetish. She even gets kind of insecure when girls take off their shoes and socks around me. I tell her I've had it all my life, why would it suddenly romp me up now?
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How old is this girl? I would only agree to the deal if she would let me have her feet whenever I want them. You can always look at other feet when she isnt around. Tell her to get over her insecurities. That her feet are the only ones you want. but you are human and its natural to look. Do you get jealous if she looks at other guys?
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Why is she so insecure about you looking at pictures or movies of other womens feet? Since you have a foot fetish I'm going to assume she does not have gross looking feet. You state she loves your fetish. I've had friends whose wives were against them looking at porn of any kind. Without exception they were divorced within a couple years. It sounds to me like you would not be allowed to even go to the beach or swimming pool. I know I would not last long in a relationship like that.
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That wouldnt work for me it would either be looking at the real stuff or not looking at all. Foot drawings would do nothing for me.
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The compromise that me and my g/f came to is that I not go on Wu's or footie porn while she is sitting right beside me, unless were "in the mood". Aside from that she knows I jerk off to other girls feet but most of the time I'm jerking off to footie porn I'm thinking of her feet anyways...just good to use a visual aid to help get things going quicker
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a compromise is you looking at cartoon feet, and she still feels jealous
that's one insecure chick
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I agree that your gf has some insecurity issues.
It's not like you're going out and satisfying your fetish with other women on the side. It would be one thing if looking at women's feet online, or in real life, was adversely affecting things in the bedroom. You say it's not so I see no reason for her being jealous or feeling threatened by you looking at women's feet online or otherwise.
Men and women alike "window shop" when it comes to the opposite sex. That doesn't mean they're going to go out and hook up with the people that they're attracted to. In this case, you're talking about looking at images/movies online and, unless you personally know any of the women in these images/videos personally, the odds of hooking up with any of them to satisfy your fetish are slim to none. There's no imminent threat to your relationship with this girl in the form of another person so I can't see why she would feel jealous.
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why does she know what you are looking at on the net?
is she one of those chicks that has to read all your email?
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As mikey p asked, how would she know what you're looking at on the internet unless you don't clear your history? Even so, she knows about your fetish and almost every guy i know...scratch that, Every single guy i know enjoys porn of some variety, maybe even more than one type. To tell you that you can only look at cartoon feet is a little extreme.
Now, if she's right behind you in bed, or in bed in another room waiting for some action and instead you're playing around on wu's, or other foot sites, i can almost see a reason for her to become a little jealous. All sittin in front of the computer, pud in hand while she's in need of some lovin too. Otherwise its a ridiculous request on her part, and she has no real reason to become jealous. She has no threat really posed by these women on the internet, and quite frankly, as much as i love my girl and our sex life, i still wouldn't get along without checking the contributions here every couple times a week.
Never had a girl tell me i can't look at porn in any form, or get jealous over it, and sometimes a good ol' wank session still beats the hell out of having sex as a stress reliever because you're not worryin about anything else but what's on your mind and the fantasies portrayed on screen that moment. Tell her to grow up
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