quote:Originally posted by FtLckr26: the desire to actually taste and touch feet will overwhelm you and you will end up getting feet from someone else.
yes indeed, we can pretty much all agree that those creepy foot guys in the news all have this one thing in common: they were all overwhelmed by the need for feet.
quote:Originally posted by FtLckr26: That is probably why you read about the creepy foot guy in newspapers or on tv.
it's a lesson in behavioral science for any foot guy to take note of if he does not want to end up like them. keep those feet urges satisfied to a point to where you do not become this overwhelmed.
quote:Originally posted by FtLckr26: Got tired of dreaming or watching and needed the real thing.
what they really needed was some therapy. this sorta ties back to the whole obsession thing discussed earlier and the need to avoid letting it get that bad. i would like to reiterate that putting oneself in a position to where he is gonna be craving feet all the time and not getting any satisfaction is gonna be an eventual recipe for disaster.
get some feet boyz before the cravings turn into an obsession!
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IMHO- no. You'll end up admiring and/or ejoying the feet of other women like I did.
Scared that my wife would totally not accept my fetish, I didn't tell her about mine until we'd been married for about 23 years. In addition, as others had mentioned, I really wasn't aroused by her feet, largely because of two bunions on the inside of each foot.
Consequently I'd seek out other women's feet anywhere I could, but especially public swimming pools (indoor pools in the winter). I had a job that allowed me the freedom to set my own schedule and travel within an area. I knew all the best places to view feet.
I eventually moved to Florida, where Of course I saw feet all the time). Once the internet came along I found foot sites that I visited on a regular basis.
After finding Wu's a few years ago, I was encouraged to tell my wife about my fetish. I did, and becasue she truly loves me, she completely accepted it and has worked hard at making me happy with her feet: taking excellent care of them, polishing her toe nails regularly, wearing foot jewelry 2/7, going barefoot at home, and wearing sandals and flip-flops whenever she can.
To put it simply, I fell in love with her feet and all aspects of them arouse me. She did have the worst bunion removed fro one foot, but I can even overlook the other one, largely because she shares them with me so openly.
Don't know if that helps or not, but that's my personal experience.
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I once dated an attractive woman, a dancer with very ugly feet. Although we dated, I knew our relationship would not be a permanent thing. Her feet were gross.
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I think, foot fetish isnt obssesion at all... it becomes obssesion when you can't have sexual pleasure if u don't do feet stuff or whatever... In my case, i do enjoy sex even if there are feet involved or not... the difference is that when feet are present on sex they become an spice to the whole thing, i mean... make things hotter. The point is that i consider myself a foot fetish man, what doesnt mean i cannot have a normal sexual relation where feet are not into. I agree with footgirl0226 at all!
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Relationships and dating are so complicated on their own right, its a shame that us foot guys have to add additional complexity and demand pretty or unique feet which satisfy our pallette....
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No, but try to survive without long toes - which is only about 4% of the female pop., plus finding one that will suck her toes while you are kissing her during sex. Needle in hastack and training time.
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Well being obsessed with feet (but not to the point of therapy), I do not think i would go into a marriage or put myself in a position where i would not get the enjoyment of feet and i would not marry an woman with ugly feet because it just wouldn't be possible.
quote:Originally posted by footgirl0226: I think the real issue is the "obsession" with anything. It's not healthy to be consumed and obsessed with anything...
I absolutely agree! You took the words right out of my text box !
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Maybe obsession is a bit of a strong word. I'd say its an 'issue' that must be addressed and considered.
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weekend_warrior-- true... my motto is, if I wasn't checking it out on-line then I would be out trying to get it.. can't have both so pick one is what I say... all the ones I know didn't have a problem with me checking stuff out on-line cause they knew if I wasn't allowed to do that or they got mad about it, I would go searching for it outside of the house.
such a tough subject... feet are just too great to not have in a persons life.
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Needless to say, this topic is pretty HEAVY! I told another member (in a Private Message) I'm actually worried about finding a soulmate, b/c I've been TOO BUSY lookin' for a "sole-mate"
Should I be worried?
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