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My opinion on this relates to me meeting my present partner. He was open and honest about his love of eet and legs before I even said that I also loved to have my feet massaged and licked so there was no problem. As a woman I prefer people to be honest about what they like and do not like sexually. I am not high maintenance and most woman will enjoy having thier feet massaged and licked on a daily basis. I would never expect a man to pay to worship my feet at all but have no issues with women who do this for a living, sounds like a nice way to make money. Some women want a full time relationship that takes into account what they like and what there partner likes, so give and take works for me!
quote:Originally posted by Maxmillion2: Why? Because lets say I havent had success within the last few years (at least success to an extent that is satisfactory)...
Isnt it obvious, if there was feet for fre Id take that vs paying for it?
use common sense...
if I knew someone like you(you are indeed a female right?)... then I obviously wouldnt pay for it, or would be much less tempted to pay for it... But I dont know someone like you... so thats why Im considering that route..
Please check my pictures I am indeed a female why would I not be?
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quote:Originally posted by Maxmillion2: Why? Because lets say I havent had success within the last few years (at least success to an extent that is satisfactory)...
Isnt it obvious, if there was feet for fre Id take that vs paying for it?
use common sense...
if I knew someone like you(you are indeed a female right?)... then I obviously wouldnt pay for it, or would be much less tempted to pay for it... But I dont know someone like you... so thats why Im considering that route..
Please check my pictures I am indeed a female why would I not be?
I see that... At the time when I wrote the post, I wasnt sure, I didnt pay attention to your username..
quote:Originally posted by Maxmillion2: Why? Because lets say I havent had success within the last few years (at least success to an extent that is satisfactory)...
Isnt it obvious, if there was feet for fre Id take that vs paying for it?
use common sense...
if I knew someone like you(you are indeed a female right?)... then I obviously wouldnt pay for it, or would be much less tempted to pay for it... But I dont know someone like you... so thats why Im considering that route..
Please check my pictures I am indeed a female why would I not be?
I see that... At the time when I wrote the post, I wasnt sure, I didnt pay attention to your username..
very good
You are welcome!
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in comparison to being single/being in a relationship unable to get feet, highly frustrated and paying for pornography; it doesnt come nearly as close as the real thing!
my new girlfriend is amazing and up for anything with her feet so long as im respectful and we keep a good all round active sex life. which i also think is healthy. watching only foot fetish pornography can also get you out of touch from real life!
i agree with charlotte about the give and take relationship bit, but would personally find it unfair if my girlfriend started trying to sell her feet on the internet. mainly because she struggles with jealousy and i have to be careful not to look at other women too much. so on the other hand i can understand that pornography is a great way for those who want guilt free satisfaction!
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Well, the foot/FemDom lifestyle I've gotten myself into has been a lovely learning experience for me, and it has put a kinky, mentally-stimulating spark in my love life. Loverboy gets his footsies for free...well, he just has to pay in rub-money (rub my feet, honey, while we watch Jeopardy). We have a set of rules for what I do online and with other footboys or slaves, and it makes our relationship honest and exciting.
So. If you won't take money for shoes or sessions, I will. Almost every transaction becomes a relationship on some level, because I only do fetish fun with a select few people I trust (even strictly online fun is a relatively short list, for trust reasons). I would rather have repeated interactions than one high-risk (the first time is always the most risky) transaction.
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I might consider paying a girl to let me take photos of her feet, but that's it. Actually, my girlfriend lets me take photos of her feet, so I don't really care to do even that!
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I don't agree with the whole paying for feet thing. Funny, one of my former going out buddies says he's started getting ugly girls to pay to date him and in exchange he raises their self esteem. I thought he was a monster for doing that but.....look at this board. Hell look at the world! Women do it all the time to us guys. I guess if there is a market one would be foolish not to exploit it. Anyway
BAck to guys paying for feet. Why!?! Invest in yourselves. I doubt anyone will follow my advice but here it is. Get a pen and paper and write down why you're not getting the women you want. Then write down how to fix it. Sometimes it'll take cash. Think of it as a stimulus plan to stimulate your sex life. On another sheet of paper write down the qualities you like in a woman. On the other side write down what kind of guys she's attracted to, where she hangs out ect. If you need help ask the women in your life for some insight. Be that guy that she/women wants! Grab some self help books. They work! (from experience) BAsically invest that cash into yourself instead of blowing it on a one time thing.
Some guys say...I don't want to change. Not attractive. These guys don't want to grow up. How can a woman who wants to be a better person date someone that doesn't want to grow. He'll impede her growth and bring her down. Be the best version of you. Be the guy that is able to challenge beautiful women to grow. Can see through their shit(beauty) and help them. Thats huge! (side note....never call a girl perfect...she can always be better and you're there to ensure she does become better. Be a leader...lead her)
Some guys will heed this advice or something like it and hop into the small percentage of guys that hook up with most of the girls. The rest will chill as they are and they might someday marry one of the girls that the previous guy got tired of. Ahhh thus is life... In the mean time they'll patronize brat princesss business so she can buy her hubby a new car. Make any sense. No offense brat ;o) just trying to get some of these guys to wake up.
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i'd pay. not like i'm getting any as it is. if the option came up and i had the money, i'd do it.
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Some people are so silly.People have been paying for some form of sex since the start of time and they will always will.Have I no,but I can understand if some people do.I don`t have a problem with it. I don`t blame a guy if he not in a relationship and wants the real thing buy paying for it.I think it`s smarter then the tons of people ,most of them are in a relationship and are paying for porn.That`s who you need to ask why.
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quote:Originally posted by GQguy: The rest will chill as they are and they might someday marry one of the girls that the previous guy got tired of.
Ugh. I'm trying to break out of that. I'm just TOO damn comfortable. That sucks because my friend has given me a GOLDMINE of info to improve my situation. I'm making tiny incremental steps to improve certain things about myself but it's damn slow!
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quote:Originally posted by GQguy: The rest will chill as they are and they might someday marry one of the girls that the previous guy got tired of.
Ugh. I'm trying to break out of that. I'm just TOO damn comfortable. That sucks because my friend has given me a GOLDMINE of info to improve my situation. I'm making tiny incremental steps to improve certain things about myself but it's damn slow!
Momentum bro! Once you start, you'll keep going.One big thing is how you talk to yourself. I'm getting better but I used to be pretty hard on myself. If I messed up i'd abuse myself mentally. BAD. Now I challenge myself with a pat on the back approach. Instead of working hard not to fail I work hard to succeed b/c thats where I belong. Same goal, just different ways to self talk.
When it comes to women instead of thinking "don't blow this" tell yourself "i'm having fun, I should share the good times! Lucky her!". Your body language and everything will change.
So back to your momemtum. Think "i'm getting better and better everyday!" instead of "i'm improving too slow because i'm lazy(comfortable)". And things will improve for you!
GQguy
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