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Hey people, long time lurker here but first time poster, Ill tell you a little about my past with this fetish, started from seeing a footjob clip when i was like 13 and have been interested since, i am now 18, Back in them my mothers friend would come over with her daughter who was about a year younger than me and we where close, and then we both hit the puberty stage at around the same time.. and and we would take about sex and watch porn together sometimes, it never went beyond that..Then eventually we began 'experimenting' just looking at each others parts touching etc. At the time we where 14/15 and we came across a footjob clip, i had seen this before but she hadn't and found it really interesting and she started to tease me with her foot, touching me with it, on my crotch with my trousers on pushing my boner with it ect and this eventually led her to give me a footjob.. this carried on for about the next 6/7 times she came over and then we just both kinda drifted apart. we still would talk about it and also see each other now and then but never got a chance to do anything and shortly after started seeing people and getting into separate relationships, so when she would come over we would just talk like the past didn't happen. A one off footjob happened about a year ago which came was out of the blue i really cant remember much of it . Now this is where my dilemma comes in, since then we acted like it didn't happen, haven't really mentioned it or spoken about it really, She still would come over but we both kinda forgot about the past, but today she came over.. We where in my room playing x box and then just started talking, about our relationships, and then we started talking about the things we get up to with our partners, by then shes was lying on my bed whilst i sat on the end, her feet near my crotch area.. she was wearing these really sexy black type of fishnet stockings but with a floral pattern, and she could clearly see me glancing at her feet - seriously they looked amazing, she then brang up how we would watch porn where we where little and by then i was sporting a huge tent.. i was just waiting for her to slide her feet upto me, you could feel it in the air something was gonna happen and then her mom called her down to go home, she litterally just went about 30 mins ago.. thing is she has been coming by herself lately when she finished college early but im never home, i have a feeling something will happen but i dont know what to do because i have a serious gf whose feet i have full access to and get regular footjobs from aswell and i guess getting a footjob from the other girl is cheating.. right? but her feet are just.. wow! i was trying to get a candid picture but didnt get a chance to! any help would be great guys!
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The dream would be to have both girls give you a footjob. Or worship one girl's feet while the other has her feet at your crotch. Sweet story and I would think the same it's all about how into your girl you are.
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dont ruin what you have. you have a girlfriend who is willing to satisfy your fetish plus be in a (i assume) happy, fun relationship. if you give in to temptation, not only will you booth be cheating, but if your girlfriend finds out it'd be the end.
fantasising about another girl is one thing, but theres a line. drunk said it right when he said you need to analyse how much your girlfriend means to you
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Hey people, There wont be a way she would find out..I will try my hardest not to give in to temptation.. il maybe go as far as to get a few pics of her feet and keep it as that, And Athena K your post made me think twice and then your signature made me think i might aswell!
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Nah man - no point ruining a constant flow of foot-stuff with your girl for the odd fj here and there. HOWEVER, your girlfriend may be interested in a threesome (most girls are curious about them, but are embarrassed to admit it as it's a "guy thing") bring up the subject and you can have those feet "legally" and it'd be WAY better DON'T GIVE IN THOUGH!
*Also - there ARE ways she'd find out man! Don't be ignorant! What if this girl falls in love with you and decides she HAS to tell your girlfriend? What if someone walks in and is compelled to tell her? What if your girlfriend wanted to surprise you by turning up at the house? What if she can smell the girl's perfume on you? What if you take a vid/pics of it and leave them on your camera accidentally?
There's ALWAYS a chance she'll find out mate. Don't risk it.
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i am typically one who says dont cheat.. but c'mon. you're 18.. and in college. maybe you think this GF is the woman of your dreams.. and hell, maybe she is.. but probably she is just gonna a GF in a long line of GFs. why miss out on any fun? i wish i wasnt a dummy serial monagamist when i was in college and took advantage of all the oppurtunities i pushed away. maybe you shouldnt cheat, but maybe you should open up your relationship some. i mean if you are just finishing college for the yeat, there's a good chance you wont be with your GF again for a couple of months when you both head to your hometowns.. bingo.. perfect opporunity to say, 'hey, we need to see other people's (feet)'
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Thanks for all the replies guys! all your advice has been great, I have come close to getting caught because i recorded the one off one that happened a year ago on my phone.. my gf went through it but luckily didnt see where id hid the video i'm gonna try my hardest to resist.. i do love my gf but then again there are times it feels like i dont have a gf coz sometimes were both so busy, and its at them times opportunities like this turn up!
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quote:Originally posted by jebzy: And Athena K your post made me think twice and then your signature made me think i might aswell!
haha somewhat hypocritical i admit.
plus, im going to rant a little bit here, it seems to be a recurring theme on this thread that because boys are young, cheating is less of an issue.
W.T.F.
the heart of an 18 year old girl breaks just as quick (if not quicker) than a womans. being 18 doesnt give guys licence to act like selfish tools. the men that i am friends with, as well as the man im in a relationship, are all 'teenagers' but the reason i care for them so much is because even though they are young they act with respect for themselves and for women.
older guys who look back on their teen lives and feel like they 'wasted' it because they didnt party hard enough, drive fast enough, have sex often enough... its pathetic. those very facts are probably the reason you didnt choke on your own vomit in some anonymous bathroom, wrap yourself and your mates around a tree, or get some girl pregnant coz you were both to drunk and horny to wear protection.
this isnt a personal attack on any of the people on this forum, please believe me, but to say that being young gives you leave to act like an animal is immature and selfish. experienceing life is one thing, ruining it is completely differnt.
(sorry about the thread hi-jacking, i was just quite upset when i read some of the advice that has been given. this is just my perspective.)
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quote: older guys who look back on their teen lives and feel like they 'wasted' it because they didnt party hard enough, drive fast enough, have sex often enough... its pathetic.
i dont think anyone here ever said they 'wasted' their youth as you suggest we did. all we said was.. seize your opportunites. life is too long for playing it too conservatively. life at 18 is all about experiences. a relationship at 18 is just an experience. the chances it's going to turn out to be THE relationship is next to nil.. and if more 18YO's, 19YO's, 20-somethings, etc (guys AND girls) realized this and didnt think that they are gonna be in love forever maybe we'd have a lower divorce rate.
but talking to younger people just exposes how stupid us older people are. we dont know anything.
quote:Originally posted by nusuth: talking to younger people just exposes how stupid us older people are. we dont know anything.
I think that's the attitude she was referring to...(assuming you mean what I think you mean...anyway - no need to have a massive eppi about it all...we all have our opinions. *sings "Why can't we be friends?"* :)
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i think you misunderstood andy. i am one of the guys who says go for it. dont waste your time at 18 being so monogamous if you see something else you might want. i am not necessarily saying either that he should go and cheat, but dont lock yourself down into a relationship like that when its so obvious you yearn for more experiences.