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Hi everyone, Have you ever questioned sometimes or maybe alot of the time what is the point of having this fetish if it is never fulfiled.
I am reading all the time about some guys that have hardly or any foot fetish related action at all not even a girlfriend so who are all the guys who get all the action?
My situation is I am married but still think what is the point of this fetish? I am not attracted to my wifes feet anymore hence the need for more feet. I have become more reliant on the internet for just pictures and the occasional foot video on youtube, is all my foot fetish will hold in store for me now? resorting to watching some guy making a foot video and getting all the fun. I really feel the need to fulfil my foot fetish more and surely cannot see an end to just watching the videos.
My wife has many friends and some have nice feet but that is as far as it goes, I enjoy smelling worn shoes but apart from buying them off the internet probably fake ones I am at a loss to really have any other foot fetish related action.
What is the point of having this fetish?
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quote:Originally posted by muleslicker: What is the point of having this fetish?
i think the point is to try (successfully or not) to fulfill our perverted kinky desires for feet.
the unfortunate thing is that it is more difficult in a world where normal things tend to get better reception. nonetheless, i think there is still hope when we try.
yes, sure we may come off as perverted or freaky, but hey, that's just part of the territory LOL!
best to just take the hand one is dealt in life and make the best of it. nobody said pervos have to be those creepy guys in the corner who get no action. now we can just be those creepy guys in the corner who have fulfilled our dreams, Hee Hee
lemme tellya from personal experience that it is heaven to get a nose full of a beautiful tall woman's perfect stinky toes right in your face. "never lose hope," that is the purpose of our fetish boiz.
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If your wife's feet can't satisfy you anymore, try having a talk with her to see if she would be ok with you smelling and licking other women's feet.
quote:Originally posted by muleslicker: Hi everyone, Have you ever questioned sometimes or maybe alot of the time what is the point of having this fetish if it is never fulfilled.
I am reading all the time about some guys that have hardly or any foot fetish related action at all not even a girlfriend so who are all the guys who get all the action?
What is the point of having this fetish?
i've been wondering the same thing myself :\
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The fetish is part of who we are so we must endeavour to fulfil it eventually. Then there will be a point.
I can't imagine myself ever not wanting to get feet, so if anything there's definitely a point to fulfilling it. Posts: 656 | Registered: Aug 2003
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quote:Originally posted by muleslicker: What is the point of having this fetish?
There isn't a "point" to any fetish. It is just something you are born with. Your desires may wax and wane over the years but they will always be with you.
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quote:Originally posted by sofatater: HOOKER. You may not want to go that route, but it's an option.
If you're going to go this route, you are much better off trying to find a "foot party" in your area, or contacting Internet foot models and asking if they offer private worship sessions. You'd be surprised how many of them do.
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To be honest it sounds like you are more "bored" of your wife than down on your fetish. The advice that some of the guys have offered is pretty good, but I would only act on them if you are certain that if your wife were to find out about it, that you would be okay with the consequences of your actions.
Vanderfeet made an excellent point also, have you tried talking to her about your situation? Maybe she would be willing to allow you to fulfill your fetish if she isn't able to please you, and then maybe you wouldn't have to worry about the consequences that would come from you doing something that she doesn't know about.
When you say you are tired of her feet, do you have no desire whatsoever to enjoy her feet, or do you just wish she would indulge you in some of the things you want to do to her feet?
Long advice short, I would have a nice long talk with your wife, there is no reason to be unhappy, especially since she might have some of the same feelings you do.
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There is no 'point' to any fetish. I didn't choose to have this fetish, it chose me. Frankly I'd rather not have a foot fetish. I'd prefer to b a tits & ass only kinda' guy because then it'd make it easier for me to fit in with other guys. Having a foot fetish is awkward because I am compelled to hide it. I know that plenty of you are open about yours and you do just fine, but I'm not as confident or brave. I'm not an charismatic.
Wu's is fulfillment enough for me anyway.
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quote:Originally posted by sofatater: HOOKER. You may not want to go that route, but it's an option.
I have actually thought carefully about this option but just cannot come to the reality of visiting a hooker. Earlier when I was single yes I did visit.
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quote:Originally posted by kara: To be honest it sounds like you are more "bored" of your wife than down on your fetish. The advice that some of the guys have offered is pretty good, but I would only act on them if you are certain that if your wife were to find out about it, that you would be okay with the consequences of your actions.
Vanderfeet made an excellent point also, have you tried talking to her about your situation? Maybe she would be willing to allow you to fulfill your fetish if she isn't able to please you, and then maybe you wouldn't have to worry about the consequences that would come from you doing something that she doesn't know about.
When you say you are tired of her feet, do you have no desire whatsoever to enjoy her feet, or do you just wish she would indulge you in some of the things you want to do to her feet?
Long advice short, I would have a nice long talk with your wife, there is no reason to be unhappy, especially since she might have some of the same feelings you do.
I think you might be right Kara I am more bored with my wife, I just do not find them as attractive as I once did, they never smell which I like and they no longer have any appeal.
I have asked for her co-workers shoes that are well worn and she agreed to ask them but how does she go about asking for other friends worn shoes without someone guessing the situation Thanks
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honestly, it sounds like your having a mid-life crisis, so i will some of the more elder members answer this one.
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I agree with Kara on this one, you sound bored with your wife; it doesn't appear that this is a true existential dilemma.
Why do we do anything we do? What makes us who we are? What truly drives us beyond satisfying our needs for survival?
What you need is to work on your relationship with your wife. Does she know about your fetish? If she doesn't, nows the time to tell her about it. If anyone should know, its her.
I find with my girlfriend who is very open and cooperative with my foot fetish that most of the desire to keep coming back to her feet is how she is participating with me. Its not enough to just lick the same pair of feet night after night; she will do things like ask me to smell her feet after a long day at work, or point out a movie she saw with a foot fetish scene. Its not so much the mechanical component that keeps me attracted to her feet, its the fact that she involves herself in it that really drives me wild.
She doesn't want me to express this fetish with anyone else, and at this point I don't either, she's all I need. Shes okay with porn and will watch with me sometimes, trying to find out what it is about feet that drives me crazy. Because I know she loves me and that she is trying hard to please me, I am turned on by her beautiful size 8s every night, and I couldn't ask for more. (Except maybe a twin, but the whole three-way discussion is another topic in itself... )
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I'd say the easy way is to have her interact with you with her feet more often in many ways such as barefoot_maniac said. That or talk to her about having someone else let you indulge in your fetish. Just make sure she's actually comfortable with it. Sometimes we say things we don't mean just to make our partner happy.
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