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HI, I would like advice on how to seduce my husband with my feet. I found out a few years ago that my husband, then my boyfriend, has a foot fetish. He was writing to girls on Myspace, telling them he was in love with their feet, and that he would drop everything at a moments notice to come massage their feet. At the time, I was unaware of his fetish, and felt hurt that he had gone outside of our relationship to satisfy his desires. I told him then that I thought his fetish was interesting, and that it might be thrilling to me, once I got over these other girls. He responded by saying that he didn't expect me to ever get a thrill from it or to be turned on by it. Since then, and as before this happened, we continue to have what I feel is a boring and very infrequent sex life. I have asked him about his fetish, and tried to do things to spice up our sex life, since then, because I am dissatisfied, but he tells me that this is not what he wants from me. What he says he wants from me sexually is routine and familiarity. However, I know that my feet attract his attention. I have gotten pedicures, and try to show him my bare feet whenever I can, and I noticed him looking at them once or twice. He is abroad this month, and just yesterday I sent him a picture of our cat curled up and licking my feet, and he texting me saying, "that's my job." Although he has never licked my toes, just the idea of this gets me turned on, and when he gets back home in two weeks, I want to seduce him. I'm sorry if this message is too lengthy. Anyone have any advice?
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One popular was is the whole footsie under the table. Invite him out to dinner...a nice restaurant...one with long enough table cloths...and one that you can use your foot to reach his crotch. Start by playing with his ankle and slowly work your way up his leg...play with his knee...move to his inner thigh....then slide your foot into his crotch which should b hard by now. Tell him you like how his hard cock feels under your foot....then tell him you'd love to know what it feels like between your feet..and you want to know the feel of hot cum between ur toes...I guess u can ad lib the rest
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Feetathome: Your husband is lucky to have a wife so able to string together a well written consideration; as your abilities on this front puts many a Man/person to shame.
Now for the advice: Foot guys can't be told what to take an interest in, we arrived here on our own. If anything, hide/conceal your feet but don't make them easily accessible. I don't mean deprive him but make him do the seeking THEN let him have what he wants. After all, at that point he will be under your feet and this is a dynamic to be dually enjoyed.
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"I have asked him about his fetish, and tried to do things to spice up our sex life, since then, because I am dissatisfied, but he tells me that this is not what he wants from me. What he says he wants from me sexually is routine and familiarity." Obviously that is not what you want! Post some pics of your feet here on Wu's and let everyone see them and no doubt you will not only get a thrill from doing it, but compliments and flattery do wonders for your attitude. Being sexy is 90% attitude. Who knows, your husband might venture onto the site and see what he has right in front of him. If that doesn't do it, shoot me a message and I'll be happy to help you out personally!
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Thanks guys, for the responses. They're much appreciated.
reamow, I like what you said, and I think my husband would appreciate that dynamic, because he's definitely the type that can't be told what to be interested in. A slow seduction where he is tempted, and has to do the seeking, is what I'm hoping to do. I was napping on our bed one afternoon before an appointment (just a few days before he left town), and had my socks half pulled off, which I do sometimes in my sleep. My husband pulled my socks off, and tickled my foot for a second before he got me up to go to my appointment. Unfortunately, it didn't go any further than that. I only hope I am able to tempt him enough, that he will take things further soon.
jamaicanfeet: I would love to do that, and I hope we get to that point soon. Once recently I put my bare feet between his legs while sitting across from him at a restaurant, but he barely noticed them. I didn't touch him, however. I hope we get to the point where he would enjoy that, and if so, I will start more slowly, and at his ankles. )
chaz36: You're right, attitude is everything, and I could use some work in that area. It's also a bit exciting that you guys might want to see my feet, which I do think are a little cute. However, until I know that my husband would like it, I'd rather keep my feet just for him.
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Post Preview I'm not sure why so many of you are calling my question bullshit. It's frustrating, although I suppose it doesn't matter that much. I know you're all strangers and I am a stranger to you, and perhaps I will never break through to my husband. Honestly though, I learned more from the few responses I did receive here then I did from the 4+ hours of foot fetish erotic stories and videos I looked at online this week. I'm not even sure why so many of you think I would post a BS story like this. What other reason would I have to ask this question, other than to ask this question? But then, perhaps the same reason why you think I'm full of BS is the same reason why my husband continues to not share this with me either. Perhaps he thinks I'm full of BS, too. All I know us that I'm very frustrated, my marriage is on the rocks, I love my husband, and I love the idea of having an awesome sex life with him, but as it is, he has these desires and feelings and I am shut out of them. Yes, I was completely naive about his foot fetish when we first started dating. I didn't know that such a thing as foot fetish existed. If I had, then I might have picked up on some clues when I first met him, but I didn't, and now we're stuck in this place where my husband has put up all wall between us, and I just want to break through it. I found this forum when I was looking at foot fetish porn for ideas and understanding, and I thought, wow, I'd love the chance to ask some real men, who I assume like feet as much as my husband does, about this, because I assumed you guys would understand him much better than I do right now. Anyway, again, this is another comment that I feel has gone on too long. All my best to you all.
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Well, I will say this. It sounds like you are very open to your husbands fetish, but I guess he might be shy (embarassed) by it in person, even though through texting or online conversations is open to it. Is he a shy guy in social circumstances? If so, it really might take a very abrupt approach from you to get him "out of the closet"
Try surprising him during "routine and familiar sex" by involving feet when he is in the moment. That might unlock the first door for you.
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Thanks, Kara, and yes, you're right, he is extremely shy, although as you mentioned, he has not been so when he's online with women he doesn't know. I appreciate your advice. I so much hope he "comes out of the closet" soon. Posts: 10 | Registered: Apr 2010
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I'll play along.
So your b/f at the time was messaging girls on Myspace about their feet, but yet did not tell you(his g/f) about his love for feet. That should have been a big red flag to begin with.
Now that you are married he shows little to no interest in your feet. You say he has a huge love for feet but yet still shows no interest in them.
First, he is either getting foot play somewhere else, or he just is not into your feet.
Second, if he hid such a major part of his life to you his g/f but yet had no problem telling girls on Myspace then you guys have more problems then just how to turn him on...
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Yes, you're right, bluetoelover. It's actually overwhelming me how right you may be. I don't know what to say, in my head, everything I'd say sounds like a weak argument at best. When the Myspace stuff happened it was a big red flag. But at the time, when I found out, he told me he was sorry, and that he loved me, and that he'd made a mistake. And yes, you're right, we do have more problems than just me turning him on. And yes, he may be getting foot play somewhere else, I don't know. But I also know that he has shown more interest in my feet this last month, and sex in general, than he has in the last few years, and that we've begun to talk about our problems and have both committed this year to begin trying to work through them. This is just one part of our relationship, but it's one that I hope soon, we'll be able to share together more fully, and enjoy, and have a lot of fun with. This is the first time I've ever been on an online forum like this. And I'm surprised how quickly this conversations has become so deeply personal. It's real, though, and you are right about alot, and that's not BS at all. Thanks for your comments.
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