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I am single and I have paid for womens feet for a couple of years now. I would never pay 250 bucks or something off of craigslist, those are all from ads, and those women are escorts. I just randomly meet women and offer to pay them to worship their feet usually. Clubs, bars, whatever. I'm not creepy about it, I'm just matter of fact. And usually it's about 50 bucks or so for an hour.
Once it gets deeper, and she feels comfortable with me, I also offer to make them dinner or something like that, and introduce her into roleplay, ie,. she is an avon lady or something silly like that. Maybe have her wear her stinkiest flats all day or some of my prop stockings.
I dunno, I think the older I get, the more "woman worshipper" I become. I just genuinely like being super nice to women and pampering them. Just being around them, breathing the same air as them. I also think that women, if they are in tune with themselves, can easily recognize a fan of their gender. Maybe they indulge me for this, maybe not. But I service 1-2 girls a week of various ages and I spend maybe 300 a month on it. I can call them all friends.
Am I a sex addict? Maybe, but who defines that? I don't have sex with them, so I would not be a sex addict. Maybe I am a passion addict. Usually, best case scenario, if we become friends and what not, they will usually let me go down on them. And I love doing that. I'm just weird though, I only have sex with women that I am going out with. I just really rather do body worship when single and gain connections that way.
Imho, It's all in the game and how you pitch the proposition. Once the ulterior motive is gone, you can do pretty much whatever you want as long as you are nice, discreet and respectful. I do get more satisfaction out of turning out a vanilla girl, a secretary or sales clerk, than a working girl. I think that it would mean more to her than a woman with so much shit going on in her life, going from call to call, rather than a girl that works the 9 to 5, and can use the cash for gas, groceries, whatever. Also imho, a working girl would not properly be able to enjoy the experience and become a more empowered woman because of it...
Any man that lives this lifestyle can attest to the various "crushes" that he has developed with some of these women from time to time. Sans that, I just cannot think of anything more harmless than these little situations that we develop in life where responsible adults barter for services rendered.
It's 2011, people are selfish for the most part. I think a large amount of single women out there are lonely and bored. With food and gas prices rising and such. Honestly, what woman would not turn down hour long adoration sessions from a guy thats not looking to fuck her, but rather, adore her like she was a living God. Curious what my peers, you all think. Good life, bad life, is this not kosher in the grand scheme of things? If your doing the pay to play thing, your own philosophy on the subject would be pretty fab to hear.
It's nice to bounce shit off of this board. Especially since we are all stricken with the same perversions.
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You may be worshipping them, but it sounds like you're living a kings life to me, lol.
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Sounds like you have a good thing going there and doing it exactly the right way (not being creepy about it). No question that it can be a very symbiotic situation as you've noted.
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When I started my clips store, I was meeting random guys, mostly from an ad on Craigslist. It wasn't pay for play but we made videos of what we did and I used them in my store. There was one particular guy who I knew made a ton of money. He lived out of town but would come through about twice a year. On one of those occasions, he slipped me a hundred bucks at the end of the night. I was kind of taken aback by it but as I left his hotel and thought more about it, it was really exhilarating. The exchange of cash for play had previously seemed to me like it would take the intimacy out of the equation but really, it just made my life a little easier and gave me an extra thrill.
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yeah true that Spotlight, I think that's the beauty of just foot worship though, no one has to unbutton a single button, so the apprehension that a women might feel just isn't there. Therefore, I think it's just much easier to smell them than fuck them.
@Fiona, yes, money is just a form of appreciation. I'm saying, I genuinely respect you for your time, I love the fact you wore a particular pair of shoes for me on a certain day, here, let me pay you for your valuable time and make you dinner, basically.
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I pay them, but only to take photos and also I do not get random women. I admire those that do however. I contact a model on Model Mayhem, OMP, etc. ask to shoot some regular photos and non-nude foot fetish. I have only had seven shoots since I started last year (with models). In my cash it is a win-win for both of us.
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I think what you're doing is fine. You seem like you're getting what you want and it's not an issue financially for you.
Personally, I would not pay a girl money for any kind of foot action. While I have been guilty in the past of going to strip clubs every once in awhile and paying women for private dances that led to me massaging their feet, sucking on their toes and licking their feet, I never made it a regular thing and I probably wouldn't do that now. I think it was a phase I was going through because I haven't been to a strip club in years with the sole purpose (no pun intended) of getting private dances with various strippers to get to their feet. I've been fortunate in that I've had female friends that I've developed good relationships with. That, in turn, led them to getting comfortable with me over a period of time. That has led to some really good experiences with them involving their feet, including footjobs. I'd rather that a girl willingly want to spend time with me, rather than her spending time with me because she knows she is going to get some money from her letting me suck on her toes.
I do agree that it is all about how it's presented to a girl. If you treat it as being normal and not act shady about it, then she will, more than likely, also accept it as normal and not be freaked out about it.
I also understand making a girl feel special by adoring/pampering a part of her body that she rarely thinks about, let alone thinks about in a sensual/sexual way. It's really cool to see a girl go through the initial reaction of, "Oh my God! What the hell is he doing!?" to "Wow! I like the way this feels and I like the way I feel when he is doing this to me. I can't believe I'm feeling this way because of what he's doing to my feet!"
From my experience, it can be fairly easy for a girl to get hooked on having her feet worshipped, and even beyond that, without there being any money involved. When that happens, it's a win-win for everyone involved.
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Any tips on how to get meet girls like that and how to talk with them? Just from your personal experiences, what works for you and what you should be thinking?
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i just go out, and meet them. you can usually tell within a minute or two of conversation where it's going, and just work it in. You should be thinking "no big deal" either way.
It's different for everyone. Some people are outgoing, some people are not. Some people have been like this since we were kids, some are just discovering fetishism.
What works for me will probably not work for you. I guess it just depends on how much fetishism consumes you on a day to day basis...
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I'm with Fate111 on this one. A man does NOT have to pay to get attention, affection, and/or sexual favours from a woman. If we learn how to interact with and behave around a woman. I know men, with no money, who can get with just about any woman they want at anytime--without being an abusive jerk--and she'll wind up begging for more.
If you haven't heard of this guy already, Google "David DeAngelo" and check out his material. It helped me change my perspective on females and how they think!
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