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your issue sounds like its nowhere near related to your fetish. its about your sexual relations in your marriage. how much does your wife know about this?
theres so much misplaced feelings in your post that i dont even know where to start. im not knockin you, bud, just attempting to make a counter point to the things u seem to be upset over.
you want to find girls who let you do stuff like that with their feet? you have to build a relationship with them first. and theres ALWAYS gonna be a chance of hesitation.
and as far as taking (my) experiences for granted, ill have you know that i dont. i put a lot of hard work into the way i act or approach the subject and there was a lot of trial and error.
i also think you should begin to consider how watching these videos is affecting you and your relationship. you seem to be under the impression that willing pretty girls with pretty feet and free spirits are a dime a dozen and you are the only one having trouble landing one. you forget that places like youtube are a central location for the collection and showcasing of such incidents (whether real or staged at any level).
and as far as being scared to bring fetishes up, thats just something you have to learn to get over. rejection happens... just like when you were a kid trying to date girls.
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I agree with Sinnister, I am married as well and while we were dating I told me then girlfriend, now wife and she liked the idea and thought it was cute. I know that most women, most married women are not too happy with the idea of their husband going to a strip club and spending money to get to the strippers' feet. I think you should seriously voice your concerns with your wife and tell her about your fetish and what you want.
When I was single, I was shy and thought my foot fetish was an awful thing so even though I went to a college where the female to male ration was 7:1, I still never approached women and asked for their feet, I was too scared of what they would think or how they would act. I never had that foot fullfillment as you put it. I have had plenty of fullfillment from my wife who loves to tease me and lets me have her feet, whenever I want. (Within reason as we do have two kids and they are almost everywhere, all day.)
Also, I would suggest to your wife that you guys do a trade-off the next time you have a bedroom rumble. You should know what she is into by now and then give her what she wants to exchange for letting you have what you want. Sometimes even after sex, my wife will let me lick the sweat off of her toes, just for fun.
There are women out there, friends, strippers and escorts, but if you don't want your wife to catch you and get in trouble or worse, I seriously suggest you talk with her about it.
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