quote:Originally posted by footman3445: I was wondering my gf accepts the idea of my fetish for feet but she has seen all of the pictures and videos I've taken of other womens feet and she would rather I delete them all and only take pics of her feet? I don't know if I should or not. She also wants me to stop visiting the sites as well. Should I?
I think you should kick that b*tch to the curb.
She'll probably dump you one day and you'll be left with NOTHING and feeling really stupid.
Find a way to hide it. It's pretty simple nowadays with portable HD's and whatnot.
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quote:Originally posted by aerodrew: No way I would delete them. That belonged to you "before" her so they should be there "after her". And statistically speaking there will be a "after her".
Meet her half way and save them external. But as far as not visiting sites? Even you're even considering that you might as well stick a fork in you... You're in for a miserable relationship.
In perspective.. My new GF tells me she doesn't want me to watch Football on Sundays or I can't eat steak because she's a vegetarian or I couldn't visit foot sites... All about the same... Not happening and she would have to go.
So if your wife kept a box with pictures of ex....you would be cool with that? I know for us it's just feet...but that's the way she'll see it.
But as for censoring what sites you visit..that's a whole nother ball game.
Perhaps i'm alone...but when I date a chick I don't want to see any signs of the new guy around. If I do....then I have one foot out the door because I know her heart isn't in it. I think deleting the pics of the ex's is a small price to pay. If it were his whole collection of wu's pics and pay sites ect...again that's different.
GQ
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As everyone has said back your stuff up and stash it, but leave a copy of them on your HD. When she drops by call her to your computer and show her that you are done with the old pics since she's the only woman for you and delete your folders on your HD right in front of her! Voila! Deceptive maybe, but effective. Just don't forget to set that browser history to clear when you shut down after looking at foot porn and all will be fine.
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I would suggest that in any relationship, boundaries and rules are negotiated and not imposed. Clearly she feels threatened by the porn. On the other hand, it's part of your private life and not subject to her involvement. If she wants to impose control on that and you don't want her to, y'all have some negotiating to do. Good luck dude! -hyp
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