I'm in Vegas for a while and am wondering if there are any girls who are looking to have their feet worshipped, rubbed, etc. after any long days walking on the Strip! I've seen you girls walking at night without your heels - its obvious they could use a rub!
Message me if anyone is interested. Would naturally be down to worship the feet of a group of girls too! You'll have to host though, the gf is here!
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Hi fff2005...allow me to answer this from the point of view of a guy who has indulged in his foot fetish for over 30 years without any dry spells or "problems". (True, over 22 of those years have been spent in marriage to a lovely woman who is just as into foot play as I am, but the years prior to that I was obviously single.)
Note that you are probably NOT going to like my response because it reeks of common sense as well as common experience, because it flies in the face of the bullshit "true stories" that are part and parcel of forums like this, and because it isn't what you want to hear. Nevertheless...
The chance of anyone responding with an actual lady's name and contact info is microscopically slim...AT BEST. Unless, of course, it's a woman who does paid foot worship sessions.
Why? Common sense. Are there girls out there who love having their feet rubbed? Of course there are...in Vegas, in your own hometown and in pretty much any and all towns in any and all states and any/all nations.
BUT...how many women are going to let some stranger they've never met do it? Actually go out of their way to meet some random stranger from the Internet who is visiting their home town for a mere foot rub?
None, that's how many. And you know what? You already know that, because it's the same where you live.
Why?
Because any woman, even one with unattractive feet, can get a guy she actually KNOWS - and who lives RIGHT IN HER AREA - to rub her feet any day of the week, 52 weeks a year. If she has attractive feet then clearly you can double those already-100% odds. She doesn't need to set aside time in her schedule to meet some random dude from out of town to do it. She just doesn't.
Is this a surprise to anyone? No, not at all. Just like any woman in the world can walk out her front door, turn either left or right, and find a guy to fuck them within an hour. They don't need some random dude over the Internet to do that. It's a fact of life, and every guy knows it deep down inside....intense and feverish not-getting-laid fantasies notwithstanding.
The fact is that there are only TWO ways to get a woman to indulge your foot fetish fantasies.
One is a girlfriend or wife who is truly into it herself....because if she is not, eventually she'll get sick of it/you and that relationship will be over with and you'll be right back at Square One.
The other is to pay a professional (or semi-professional) who is at least good at foot fetish play if not genuinely into it (and there are many who genuinely ARE into it). That way you get what you want instead of what I call "the usual" for foot guys - nothing at all, despite their hopes. Again. Just like last time. And the time before that. And the time before that. And...
Really...wondering if some stranger on a forum can set you up with some strange lady who just totally digs having complete strangers from the Internet rub their feet is not unlike wondering if maybe - just maybe - Santa Clause is real. Cause, you know, if he were...well, gee, that would be really cool and all.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not attacking you personally, I'm just questioning the validity of your query. The question can't be taken seriously and, if it is, it can only lead the "the usual" total disappointment that most foot guys experience for the totality of their lives. Unrealistic expectations lead to predictable frustrations in any aspect of life, but especially in regard to sex.
If you are serious about finding what you want, start asking some of the ladies who have foot fetish sites who are based in Las Vegas - some offer foot worship sessions for a fee. (Sorry, I don't personally know any, though, who live there.) But if you are only prepared to get it "for free" with a stranger, then you should also be prepared to get nothing at all. NO woman is so desperate for a foot rub that she'd resort to letting some guy on the Internet set her up with some OTHER guy from the Internet whom she's never met before to do that for her. Not now, not ever. Anywhere. And we all know it. Again, no woman on earth is that desperate - but lots of guys are, all the time.
The curmudgeon hath spoken! :-)
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quote:Originally posted by Steve Mason: Hi fff2005...allow me to answer this from the point of view of a guy who has indulged in his foot fetish for over 30 years without any dry spells or "problems". (True, over 22 of those years have been spent in marriage to a lovely woman who is just as into foot play as I am, but the years prior to that I was obviously single.)
Note that you are probably NOT going to like my response because it reeks of common sense as well as common experience, because it flies in the face of the bullshit "true stories" that are part and parcel of forums like this, and because it isn't what you want to hear. Nevertheless...
The chance of anyone responding with an actual lady's name and contact info is microscopiclally slim...AT BEST. Unless, of course, it's a woman who does paid foot worship sessions.
Why? Common sense. Are there girls out there who love having their feet rubbed? Of course they are...in Vegas, in your own hometown and in pretty much any and all towns in any and all states and any/all nations.
BUT...how many women are going to let some stranger they've never met do it? Actually go out of their way to meet some random stranger over the Internet who is visiting their home town? None, that's how many. And you know what? You already know that, because it's the same where you live.
Why?
Because any woman, even one with unattractive feet, can get a guy she actually KNOWS - who lives RIGHT IN HER AREA - to rub her feet, any day of the week, 52 weeks a year. If she has attractive feet then clearly you can double those already-100% odds. She doesn't need to set aside time in her schedule to meet some dude from out of town to do it. She just doesn't.
Is this a surprise to anyone? No, not at all. Just like any woman in the world can walk out her front door, turn either left or right, and find a guy to fuck them within an hour. They don't need some random dude over the Internet to do that. It's a fact of life, and every guy knows it deep down inside....intense and feverish not-getting-laid fantasies notwithstanding.
The fact is that there are only TWO ways to get a woman to indulge your foot fetish fantasies.
One is a girlfriend or wife who is truly into it herself....because if she is not, eventually she'll get sick of it/you and that relationship will be over with and you'll be right back at Square One.
The other is to pay a professional (or semi-professional) who is at least good at foot fetish play if not genuinely into it (and there are many who genuinely ARE into it). That way you get what you want instead of what I call "the usual" for foot guys - nothing at all, despite their hopes.
Really...asking if some stranger on a forum can set you up with some strange lady who just totally digs having complete strangers rub their feet is not unlike wondering if, just maybe, Santa Clause is real. Cause, you know, if he were...well, that would be really cool and all.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not attacking you personally, I'm just questioning the validity of your query. The question can't be taken seriously and, if it is, it can only lead the "the usual" total disappointment that most foot guys experience for the totality of their lives. Unrealistic expectations lead to predictable frustrations in any aspect of life, but especially in regard to sex.
If you are serious about finding what you want, start asking some of the ladies who have foot fetish sites who are based in Las Vegas - some offer foot worship sessions for a fee. (Sorry, I don't personally know any, though, who live there.) But if you are only prepared to get it for free with a stranger, then you should also be prepared to get nothing at all. NO woman is so desperate for a foot rub that she'd resort to letting some guy on the Internet set her up with some OTHER guy from the Internet whom she's never met before to do that for her. Not now, not ever. Anywhere. And we all know it. No woman on earth is that desperate - but guys are, all the time.
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That's a great response Steve. My advice would be to copy your reply and save it... you're going to need it. Every couple of weeks some nucklehead signs up and makes a similar post for another city.
I'm still amazed these guys actually think they're going to get a reply.
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Indeed excellent advice. That what I've decided to do with my photography. Pay for what you want is easier than convincing a regular girl you're harmless.
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I agree with Steve in principle, though there are exceptions. I met women through fetlife, craigslist, okcupid, facebook, myspace, and even this site. Many want payment (a handful don't... this depends on how many women are in your area), but I always saw the online thing as a SUPPLEMENT to meeting women during daily activities (where you might actually have something in common). I think it's harmless to put ads out (provided you use common sense when arranging to meet), but if you want a guaranteed quality experience within a reasonable time frame you will probably need to risk live rejection (often many times, especially if you are more quality than quantity oriented) and be prepared to offer them something they value in exchange (whether that be money, a date, conversation...) It's easy to think a foot massage would be something any girl would want, but women have a different perspective (seldom obscured by the raging, pent-up lust with which foot-guys are often afflicted). Bottom line: If you want anything from a woman, concentrate on making yourself as desirable as possible, develop an approach that is respectful and engaging, and accept that even with perfect "game" you're still going to suffer some rejection. In the end, I've found it's well worth the investment Posts: 484 | Registered: Dec 2004
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Great response Steve. I agree with everything you said there. I do however think there's a third option, but again it is not to Post a thread on an internet fourm with any idea or realistic expectation that your going to get the response that you're looking for. Instead it would be to simply go out and make it happen by simply being yourself. One need not worry necessarily if the woman is "into" recieving a foot rub. As the poster said, a woman who's been in heels all day and ends up barefooting a bit for a little relief may very well be down with the idea of recieving a foot massage, but as you said, not from a total stranger out of the blue. What you do is approach a lady you deem attractive, attempt to strike up conversation with her, if that is successful, maybe take her out for a drink and if you're lucky enough and smooth enough to be a fast operator you take her home and engage in some sexual activity and/or a more intimate setting where after becoming comfortable enough with you to share your company in her own living space or your hotel, she may be keen to the idea of a foot massage and/or further foot play if you introduce it to her in a smooth and effective manner.
It's basically the exact same thing as pulling off a one night stand for sex, except it's for getting the foot play you crave. If you just go on the internet and say "I'm really horny, anyone know any hot beautiful girls in Vegas who want to get the pussy pounded off of them with no strings attached?" The response is either going to be sarcastic laughter, a list of hookers and/or escorts requiring a fee or no response at all. However I'm sure in Vegas, as with every other city in the world there are horny, adventurous, in some cases slutty or drunk women that are up for that sort of thing if the person who approaches them does it in the right way that peaks their interest and turns them on to some degree. That's how one night stands happen. Nobody who has a lot of one night stands is able to do so without rejection from time to time either. Some have a higher success rate than others due to their approach and other factors such as what they look like or how much money they have or what type of standards or quality of woman they're shooting for but most people can pull it off with someone, at somepoint, no matter how little game they have. It's like that Sienfield quote about how amazing it is that ugly people, both men and women still manage to get laid. If you want to get yourself some foot play, it can be done, wether or not the girl is into it persay is beside the point, especially in a one night stand scenario. The catch is that you have to find a girl that is into you in order to make that happen. The way to do that is not to post a thread on a forum in hopes a girl is going to just fall into your lap willing and eager to give you everything you want. You've gotta go find a girl and get what you're looking for by having something to offer or at very least giving off the vibe and impression that you have something to offer. Like you said, any girl can walk out her door if she's honry and find someone to fuck her within an hour. I guess, the catch is, you gotta be able to make yourself be the "any" guy she picks or wants to pick. If you don't know the woman or plan to financially compensate her, then you sure as hell better be able to peak her interest, intrigue her, flatter her, attract her, amuse her or charm her in some kind of fashion in order to have a shot at being the "any" guy that she chooses to get with.
Odds are that a person desperately posting the sort of request above, in all likelyhood, lacks the game to pull that off successfully. However you gotta start somewhere. My advice would be to go out on the town in Vegas, fully prepared and accepting of the fact you'll likely be rejected with the lowest standards and expectactions you can possibly hold on to and just go for it. You may get rejected but at least you're building some game and starting to find out what doesn't work, as you work your way to what does and eventually, and then probably more and more frequently as you develop some game, you'll be more and more successful...Or you could just keep on posting "want ads" on internet boards and let the crickets be your company as you wait for the Mrs. Right or Mrs. Rightnow who's into exactly what you want and just dying to meet you out of the blue and give you exactly what you want...:lol: As you said, not going to happen.
quote:Originally posted by archadmirer: I agree with Steve in principle, though there are exceptions. I met women through fetlife, craigslist, okcupid, facebook, myspace, and even this site. Many want payment (a handful don't... this depends on how many women are in your area), but I always saw the online thing as a SUPPLEMENT to meeting women during daily activities (where you might actually have something in common). I think it's harmless to put ads out (provided you use common sense when arranging to meet), but if you want a guaranteed quality experience within a reasonable time frame you will probably need to risk live rejection (often many times, especially if you are more quality than quantity oriented) and be prepared to offer them something they value in exchange (whether that be money, a date, conversation...) It's easy to think a foot massage would be something any girl would want, but women have a different perspective (seldom obscured by the raging, pent-up lust with which foot-guys are often afflicted). Bottom line: If you want anything from a woman, concentrate on making yourself as desirable as possible, develop an approach that is respectful and engaging, and accept that even with perfect "game" you're still going to suffer some rejection. In the end, I've found it's well worth the investment
archadmirer - You're correct about using the Internet as a supplement...but that wasn't my point. My point was that using the Internet to ask "someone else" - namely, total strangers - to hook you up with a third party female ( also a total stranger) for foot play is ludicrously naive, childishly passive and a total waste of time.
You mention using the Internet to do one's own work. That I can fully get/respect and although I've never had to so so myself I am 100% sure it works. But there is a fundamental difference between making some sort of effort on one's own to get what one wants (like you do) and posting on some forum with the hopes that some other dude will do the work for you (like the original poster). It's night and day. Your approach is rational and the other is, well...stupid at best. Your approach is mature, the other reeks of arrested adolescence.
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