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Have pasted below artice appeared in Guardian, a serious UK newspaper. Note how the expert advices its not a good idea to just think of feet!!!
I am a 24-year-old man and have had a foot fetish from a young age. I have never received a foot job but I always wish someone of the opposite sex would give me one. I tried to get one when I was 16 but got caught. Is wanting a foot job a sexual disorder? Is it possible to treat? I always think I should experience it, just once in my life.
You will have to find someone who shares your fantasy or is happy to comply, so develop your social skills and meet a wide range of people – eventually you will find someone who will engage in consensual erotic play of this kind.
It's not, in fact, such an unusual request – there is a long history of foot- worshipping in certain cultures. Search for websites and online chat rooms for people who share your erotic interests to glean information, receive support, and even make friends.
But if you want to sustain a long-term relationship, it's important to try to develop other erotic interests and skills, because most partners will expect and demand that.
From now on, when you self- pleasure, work on shifting your fantasies to include having intercourse with a partner. Your future partner will be more likely to accept your foot-play if they are sexually satisfied too.
• Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a US-based psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders
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