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So, we all love women's feet, right? So, our idea of an ideal girlfriend is one who shows her feet a lot, right? But when you're dating, you might not know how much of a barefooter she is, right? So, how do you attempt to deduce as to how much she likes to go barefoot? And what if you ascertain that, alas, she is NOT much of a barefooter? But that she is ideal in other ways? Do you give things a chance? Or do you try to encourage it? Subtly? Or admit your fetish, and hope she obliges?
You see, I am dating a girl, and REALLY like her. And I see getting on with each other as the most important thing. However, some girls love going barefoot, whereas some rarely do; and she could be in either camp, for all I know, right now. You see, it's been the longest, most drawn-out Winter ever, here in the UK, so she's, understandably, been wearing socks and boots, every time we've met. We went back to hers once, for a short time, in which she kept them on; which isn't encouraging, but when it's very cold outside, and you're not staying long, many girls probably WOULD keep their shoes on.
Anyone else had this 'dilemma' (I would imagine so....)?
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Are you talking about a public barefooter or barefoot around the house?
When you went back to her place for a short time did she have plans to go somewhere else after you left? Maybe she wasn't comfortable enough around you to take them off, or maybe it was the last thing on her mind.
I'd wait until it warms up and see what kind of revealing shoes she starts wearing. Anything like flip flops or sandals where you can get a sole glimpse can give you a clue. If her soles are dirty, then that's of course a sign that she's been going barefoot. Then, most women I've been around that I didn't even date always take off the flip flops, sandals, or anything else that easily slides on and off, off at their place.
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Thanks for the reply. I meant around the house. Obviously, a PUBLIC barefooter would be nice; but such girls are so rare, that I'd probably be single for ages, if I held out for one. When we were at hers, we were only stopping by for an hour or so, so she knew she would be going out quite soon. Plus, as I said, the UK has been VERY cold, lately, so bare feet around the house would be rare, at present.
Have you ever had the same dilemma? Ever had second thoughts, upon realising a girl wasn't really into going barefoot very much at all?
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Offer a massage, if you get to see her feet pay compliments and say very nice. "I can appreciate a lady who takes care of her feet". This will open up some doors and some questions she might have about a possible foot fetish. But worry about that for another time.
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I've never had this dilemma. I could deal if she wasn't much of a barefooter if she at least went barefoot to bed and during sex.
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I don't date. But when it comes to my lady friends I'm always upfront about my needs and usually get privileged. Either I'm really lucky, a smooth talker (doubt that) or I'm just good at spotting the open minded. Probably it's mostly luck. My friends also give me good rep and present opportunities.
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I say give her a chance. See what she wears come summer time and if she goes barefoot more around the house then.
Even if she does not appear to be into baring her feet, but you really like her slowly encourage her. If she really likes you and you get serious at some you'll feel the time is right to tell her about your likes, at which point hopefully shed start to accommodate you to make you happy.
Granted I'm not out dating in today's world (married 32 years) but firmly believe that if you get to know her first and work hard to make her happy she'll in turn want to make you happy. Even if she has a major hang up about her feet given time you can prevail.
Though i tried to drop some hints earlier in our marriage (like buying anklets and sandals for her) I didn't divulge my fetish for many years. But when I did she completely indulged me, even agreeing to feet things I never thought she would. I definitely would not wait that long were I to do it all again but you do have let the relationship build a little before you get involved in that discussion simply because it can be a sensitive thing for some girls.
But maybe you'll be pleasantly surprised this spring and summer. And as several mentioned, foot rubs are a great persuader!
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I am with footjoyboy. The more she keeps her feet in closed shoes, the better for me. I need them sweating and stinking at all occasions. A woman that avoids showing her feet and kicking off her shoes means 1)her feet are sweating more 2)she might be shy about the way they smell. And i love them reeking! There is time for bare feet while we have sex!
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I'm married, and my wife enjoys my foot fetish, is totally willing to cater to it. Back when I was dating, I used to wait until the relationship got to a certain level of intimacy and then told them about how much I love pretty feet.
I put it that way so as not to sound too threatening or intense...
And by "intimacy," I don't necessarily mean when you get to the point of having sex. Just in conversation.
At some point you mention it, and she will immediately respond in terms of her own feet—will either say, Oh, you love feet? I had an old boyfriend who loved feet. Or, Oh, I hate my feet. Or, You do? I always heard about guys who love feet...
And when she shows you her feet, which she will, trust me, probably right then and there... you rave about how beautiful they are.
Then, if she likes you, she'll find ways to please you with them. Going barefoot, putting her feet on the dashboard of the car...
I found that the vast majority of women i admitted it to were intrigued and liked the idea. It's pretty harmless, not a big deal...
My thing is visual and scent. Red toenails are incredibly sexy to me.
I always took it slow about the scent part... that could freak some women out, but the visual element I never found a girl that didn't enjoy that...
Early in my dating relationship with my wife, once we began having a sexual relationship, she put her feet up on my shoulders while in the missionary, and I turned my head and put my face on one of her soles. She told me later she thought, Hmmm.
Next time I saw her she had a nice pedicure. Today, she puts her feet in my face when I'm inside her... gives me handjobs while I smell her feet... sucks me off while I sniff the feet of a pair of her pantyhose she wore with a pair of older heels...
She's got no problem with it. Sorry for the long reply, but my bottom line is, tell her you love pretty feet and see what happens. If she likes you, she'll become a barefooter if she isn't one already.
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My wife went barefoot alot right off the bat when we were dating. So i could check them out. Then when I eventually told her about my fetish she was all for it, so it was a win all the way around.
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"Today, she puts her feet in my face when I'm inside her... gives me handjobs while I smell her feet... sucks me off while I sniff the feet of a pair of her pantyhose she wore with a pair of older heels"...
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