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I think they are. 50 years ago, if a guy asked his girlfriend to let him massage/play with her feet, this probably would have freaked her out! Unless maybe they were now married, or had been going together for a long time, or perhaps she was a very broad-minded understanding women. But these days, I think that most women are more acceptable of our little "kinks." I'd like to hear from some of your older guys about this!
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They were the same feet then as they are nowadays. I suppose if you start sniffing and licking them while trying to give your date a basic friendly foot massage she'd be a little weirded out either then or now. Most women would say "They are just FEET"... I think a lot of you guys that keep asking these questions take yourselves too seriously and think of yourselves as deviants hiding from life for some reason. As long as you appear to have that mind set, the women will react appropriately to you either way. Take it from a true professional, it's not that hard.
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I wouldn't know. But I do know that the way women respond to men that they like hasn't changed since the beginning of time.
It's all about the guy with the fetish....never about the fetish itself.
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I'm sure that more women are more aware of it today than 50 yrs ago. So maybe more now view it as a more normal thing. It's all in the confidence. Men who go after asses and tits all the time have it. We all know that they'll get turned down at some point, and others more than others. If more guys would have that confidence and not hide in the corner with their fetish, and behave right with it, then maybe more women would accept it as a normal thing that more guys have.
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quote:Originally posted by XXX toes: I guess they are realizing we dont look like Costanza's any more.
You have to have game to get a woman to show you something they are embarrassed about.
I think as well that other celebrities who have a foot fetish besides Tarantino have made it that little bit more acceptable, like Bradley Cooper, Idris Elba and Conan O'Brien. They are just regular guys like us and that can only be a good thing and maybe if more foot fetish references are made in films and tv, then it will become easier for us hopefully. I suppose the widening circle of celeb foot fanciers will catch on!
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quote:Originally posted by XXX toes: dont look like Costanza's any more.
Ironically enough, there are some real Costanza's out there publicly representing us in a big or small way depending on who's viewpoint of how big they are.
Nonetheless, these Costanza's still embarrass the rest of us with their insecurities and fumbling nervous ticks around foot models. It's a disgrace that can only be fixed by them learning much social calibration.
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girls feed off of our energy. if we act nervous, shameful, and embarrassed about our fetish, then they'll think that's how they should feel too. just get a girl to trust you....get a girl to trust that you're not gonna go around telling your friends about all the kinky things she does for you....and she'll do anythinggggg to keep you happy.
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I think people in general are more open about sexuality than they used to be. This is in part due to a lot of moral relaxation over the last half of the 1900s and the internet opening up discussion. There are still a lot of people who aren't comfortable with sex and see it as taboo, therefore fetishes or any kind of perceived deviance is that much more discomforting to them. You'll always have people who are secure and who aren't with sexuality. Generally though I think things are more open now than even in the early 2000s.
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I think this can be broken down into levels as well within the fetish. If dirty and smelly feet are your thing, then I'd think that more women would be turned off to that as opposed to clean and freshly pedicured feet.
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This has been discussed many times over the years I've been a member here. I think the Internet and media have really raised awareness of fetishes and sexuality but the "buying into it" is still largely influenced by the individual's background, personality, friends, etc. I often think of what young people are exposed to today versus what I was exposed to when I was young. Between social media, media and the Internet I think they're exposed to a lot more at a younger age. He'll, I didn't know what a French kiss was until I was in jr high- most kids that age today have probably seen full blown porn and sexted with their female classmates. How the act/react to that though is still largely influenced by their backgrounds and personality. A girl from a conservative background will likely still find fetishes disgusting whereas a girl from a liberal background would likely be more curious and interested. No doubt though that young people are more liberal. Look at the fact that so many are not only living together but buying houses together before getting married. Based on all the stuff I see out there I have to believe that their sex lives could be far more liberal than mine was. Bottom line is I think girls are and will be becoming much more open to our fetish with each passing year. I wish I could roll back the hands of time.....
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i agree that the internet has opened things up so there's more dialog about fetishes these days... and honestly, in the scheme of fetishes out on the internet, foot fetishes are really pretty tame.
for me, my boyfriend first admitted his foot fetish to me after we'd been dating for a week or two... i really didn't think anything of it at the time, was mainly just curious about it. but our relationship has always been one built on honesty and openness, and i really appreciated that he was honest with me about his fetishes even though i knew he felt a little ashamed or afraid he was going to scare me off. i also get really in tune with my partners and what turns them on, makes me turned on, so experiencing foot play with my bf was an amazing experience for me the first time... i could sense just how much it excited him, and that excited me more, so i wanted to play with his feet, and it kinda spiraled from there and now i probably have just as much if not more of a fetish as he does
my point is, i think it depends a lot on the girl and the relationship, but in today's internet world i think foot fetishes really aren't as "shameful" as perhaps they once were, and so are easier for women to understand / accept (and in some cases, join you in ).
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I think its many things.. The internet.. foot magazines, which have existed for.. 20 plus years, and also generations becoming more open minded.
I first encountered leg magazines in the late 80s. They discussed foot play and tickling feet.. as the "new sex fetishes".
My aunt, who is 65, and from the "Flower Child" generation, knows I have a foot fetish, because I' smelled and tickled her feet once when I was like.. 12. She remembered that, and somehow not long ago the conversation came up, and she mentioned how guys she's dated, even in recent years, have kissed her feet, etc, and how she considers it.. "No big deal". I think the discussion was around the time I confessed to that girl Maria I like about my foot fetish,, which I've posted on here.
Social media has made the foot fetish, and fetishes in general, more acceptable. Think of it.. I'm 43. In my grandparents generation, and even until the mid 1960s, even vanilla sex with no fetish was taboo and not allowed. As time went on, it became more an "Anything goes", type of mentality, even in regard to foot bondage, and bondage in general.
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quote:Originally posted by GQguy: I wouldn't know. But I do know that the way women respond to men that they like hasn't changed since the beginning of time.
It's all about the guy with the fetish....never about the fetish itself.
And this pretty much sums it up folks.
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