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So i made a post on here about 3 weeks ago (some of you replied so some of you will remember this story) talking about how i made an anonymous Instagram account for foot fetish related purposes and how I decided to message this girl I had a class with back in high school and tell her she had nice feet.So three weeks ago I messaged the girl and to summarize it I basically told her she had nice feet and it was really distracting to me in class. She basically said thank you for noticing and that she gets pedicures like every 2 weeks so she was happy someone noticed. Since it was an anonymous Instagram she did not know who I was and kept asking who I was. I told her I could not tell her and that I was sorry and that If i ever see her in person again I will reveal myself. But this morning for some reason I decided that I was going to tell her who I was to see how she would react. So today, i message her on Instagram again and ask her if she's still interested to find out who i am. She said yes and that she was eager to find out, she gave me her phone number to text her. So I texted her and told her who it was. To make things short, she once again said thank you for noticing her pedicures and that she cares a lot about detailed pedicures. I told her they were great and that she had some of the best feet I've seen. she then replied "OMG who am i competing with?" I told her nobody it was just that I have seen a lot of feet and think hers are one of the best. She then asked me what other girls i thought had nice feet. I told her a girls name and she said 'I can see that, her toes are rounded i agree with you". she told me that she always notices other peoples pedicures and feet and so do her friends so it was not weird that I was looking at her feet. I told her I never wanted to reveal myself because i was embarrassed and she said its fine she understands and that not many people do understand foot fetishes. This was my first time ever talking to a girl about her feet. Now if only I could at least touch her feet
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That's exciting! Relish the epiphany, I love the paradigm shift when women begin to see their feet as beautiful and sexual. So... are you gonna ask to see them or just gab about them with us? You think she's amenable to meeting?
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quote:Originally posted by archadmirer: That's exciting! Relish the epiphany, I love the paradigm shift when women begin to see their feet as beautiful and sexual. So... are you gonna ask to see them or just gab about them with us? You think she's amenable to meeting?
We are both in college right now in different towns, a little over an hour from each other. But on breaks and sometimes weekends she comes back to our home city, I come back every weekend so it's definitely possible. But i don't know how I could take it a step further. Haha it's soooo tempting to just tell her how soft her feet look and how much I admire them but I know this will ruin things. Can anyone help?
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Obviously you like the girl, not to mention you really want her feet. Grow a pair and find a way to ask her out and make it happen. Eventually you can reveal your secret crush for her. And when the time is right, you can reveal your crush for her feet. Always make HER the object of your affection, even though you want her feet and have a boner for them. She comes first.
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Ask her out for coffee or breakfast so it's not too formal at first. Obviously you like her feet, just make sure you make it clear that she is more than just her feet. Be yourself and have fun dude. We believe in you.
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So i talked to the girl pretty much throughout the day today, a few minutes ago she asked me if there was anything else I wanted to tell her, I told her there was a lot I could tell her but it was difficult talking about it because I have hid my foot fetish for 7-8 years. But I told her that because she was the first girl I've ever talked to about this that I had an inner urge to tell her more and talk about her feet more. She said "its good to open up, you're proving my point exactly, so tell me more!" I then couldn't help but tell her how soft her feet always looked. She started laughing and said she always knew she had nice feet but only likes her toes and hated the rest of her foot. I told her she shouldn't hate her feet and that her toes aren't the only good thing about her feet.
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Well, I'm no expert... but I'd beware falling into the nice-guy trap. She knows you are attracted, mooning over her won't gain you any more affection; she's interested in what you can do for her. Can you show her a good time? Help her develop or experience something new? Being nice and complimentary is expected, but how do you distinguish yourself from the crowd? As my hero said, "girls only want guys who have great skills... nunchuking skills, computer hacking skills..." Posts: 484 | Registered: Dec 2004
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quote:Originally posted by archadmirer: Well, I'm no expert... but I'd beware falling into the nice-guy trap. She knows you are attracted, mooning over her won't gain you any more affection; she's interested in what you can do for her. Can you show her a good time? Help her develop or experience something new? Being nice and complimentary is expected, but how do you distinguish yourself from the crowd? As my hero said, "girls only want guys who have great skills... nunchuking skills, computer hacking skills..."
I concur with this for the most part.
Eventually, meaning now, you're going to have to cut out the shy, embarrassed, nervous, insecure guy routine as a way of getting her to be attracted to you because even though she may think it's "cute" at the moment, it's going to get old fast. You're going to eventually have to take the reigns. She's obviously giving you several signs of interest, but you're just simply not doing anything with them at all and continuing to let her dictate how this potential relationship plays out. If you're waiting for her to flat out tell you that she wants you to worship her feet or anything of the like to make you feel like you have "permission", it's not going to happen. Females generally aren't that direct when they exhibit interest in a potential suitor; they give subtle hints and hope that you as the guy, pick up on them.
Since you're limited to texting with her at the moment, give her a reason to WANT to see/meet up with you in person when she comes back to visit, as you said she often does. Find a way to tell (not ask) her that you want to meet up, but don't reveal too much to the point where she knows exactly what to expect when you guys do meet up. For instance, when she asked you if there was anything else you wanted to tell her, a possible response could have been that there are several things that you would like to share with her, but that you would love to share them with her in person instead when you guys meet up, so as not to give away all your value at the moment right now. As was mentioned by another poster, many girls like someone who is fun and that they can learn from and be shown new experiences that they didn't otherwise know they'd experience on their own.
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Bro be careful man, you have no idea who she is showing these txts to. Your putting far too much trust into a person you do not really know. Think about, she now has the power to mess with your social life. Have some mystery about you man, she probably thinks she has you all figured out. Scale it back a little. You should have asked her to meet you for coffee or a drink next time she is home and left it at that until you saw her.
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Everything above is good advice for the most part. I'd add that don't overdo it on the alcohol when you do meet up b/c you might do something you regret. No reason to get totally blotto and lose control of yourself.
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All of the above is true and excellent advice! Not all and I AM generalizing here, women of that age group will usually have a go to friend who they will share this with. Hey you will never guess who facebookwd me! So and so from high school! And guess what else he has a Foot fetish! Aside from that from what you are saying it is obvious that she is in fact waiting for YOU to set something up. Like Archadmirer and Baresoles said she's lobbed hints at you, balls in your court. Here is where it can get tricky.. You need to be Solid but not pushy. It's a fine line. It's all in how you word it. Something like " so I'm going to be in town on 18th it's been a long time since high school ID love to take you out catch up a continue this conversation over dessert 😉
Firefighter is right NEVER put into writing ANYTHING that you would be ashamed to share w your 90 year old grandmother!
Hyp is also right! No booze! You walk in with a shot and end up with her step sister drunk As fuck!!!
Good luck! You got this!!!! Keep us posted!!!👣👣
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Best of luck to ya. Keep us posted on how things go. Be careful with the alcohol. It could make things better or worse depending on how you both react to it. Keep in mind that alcohol changes how you think and react so she might be more or less willing to share her feet with you. Take it slow and easy and see where things go.
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