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Hello everyone My partner of 8 years just told me he has a thing for my feet and finds them sexy. He has waited so long to tell me because he was afraid I would leave him(not the case). Anyway I'm new to this how can I accept his fetish? We have since fooled around and using my feet but I want him to feel completely comfortable with me and my feet. Also now when we go out I get jealous thinking is he starring at everyone's feet is this normal? Also kinda have this feeling he only wants my feet( which I no isn't true). I'm so confused but trying to make my man happy. Any advice? Stories, or facts I would love to hear Thanks
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Everyone's journey is different and people work it out in different ways...or they don't. It's really not any different than anyother aspect of an intimate relationship, the key is communication. Ask, talk, share and be open to try new things. Be honest. GOOD LUCK!
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First I must say, thank you for being open to your partner about their foot fetish. Communication is the key, like Icarus said "Ask, talk and share".
Every foot person is different in what they like. The toes, the soles, sucking, smelling, foot jobs and the list goes on.
I myself am married, I do look at other womens feet. It's completely normal but at the end of the day it's my ladies feet that are in my face making my cock hard and busting my load . (Don't mean to sound to crude but I am being honest). So don't be too jealous. I'm pretty sure plenty of guys are also checking out your feet Posts: 3497 | Registered: Aug 2010
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Let me start by saying that being open minded with your partner’s fetish is a lovely thing. A fetish can bring joy to both and make a couple’s sex life more interesting through the variety of sex games.
Some men hesitate to talk about their thing for feet to their partner, as yours did, but the truth is that when there is a relationship based on understanding, having fun and love, a foot fetish is rarely a problem. On the contrary, it can be very fun.
Since you are ok with him being into your feet and even researching about his fetish further online, it seems to me that you have already accepted his fetish. Yet, a fetish for feet is not the same for everyone. There are many many variations of it. Some like footjobs (masturbating with their partner’s feet), some prefer toe sucking. Some like sniffing smelly feet (like me), some prefer the soles over the tops or the other way around and the list goes on and on. In order to find out more about his personal foot preferances, you should ask him. Ask with a nice way and make him feel comfortable (since he was kinda shy about it some time before). He will let you know the details of his turn ons about feet if he feels that you understand him, want to please him and don’t judge him on his foot thing. Also, don’t forget that you are (most likely) the first partner he is having foot fun with so he may be still exploring his own fetish. But communication of the body and discussion are the keys to what you are asking.
He doesn’t only want your feet. You have been together for many years without and foot play so that’s not the case. Women tend to think like that because a guy who is attracted to feet sounds unusual at first. Just think, if he was crazy over your breasts, would he be interested solely in them? No. Yet, if he starts spending more time on your feet and you are not as satisfied in other way as you used to be, remind him with a nice way that you also have needs. Get him to balance the pleasure so you are both happy. That’s what loving couples do. But that’s just hypothetical. Foot guys are also into every inch of their’s partner’s body and beauty, not just feet.
Don’t be jealous. I totally understand that you think he is checking other feet in flip flops etc. It is normal to feel this way but: So do other men with butts on tight jeans and shorts and big breasts. So do you with handsome men when they are around you. If he is faithful to you, this will be no problem. Nothing wrong with admiring something when you are loyal in your relationship. Nothing changes because feet are everywhere. You will overcome this feeling in no time unless he is stupid and checks out feet when you are around. But by what you are saying, I am sure he is better than that.
I have the feeling that you are a bit overwhelmed with this new foot loving information about your partner. Give it some time, explore it with your partner, make him feel comfortable and make yourself comfortable again with him. Everything will return to normal and even better. You now know you have an extra sexy body part for him to love, admire and play.
If you have any other questions feel free to ask. General or specific. No one will judge you. Once again, you are wonderful and open minded, he is lucky to have a partner like you.
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Wow thank you everyone for words it actually means a lot, I'm definitely real and needing help understand it all. I'm more then happy to learn with him as he told me he doesn't know why he feels this way nor has he had a sexual experience with feet. I found out because he was calling a foot fetish hotline to talk about feet( we are in counciling) I'm far more upset about the calls not the fetish. I asked when what he is attracted too he said my sole and toes. He always said his fantasy is for me to dominate him with my feet ( not really sure what that means) but I'm willing to learn. Trust me I'm not a fake or something like that I truly want to understand and help our relationship. Also a massive thanks to the inboxes I'm starting to learn things, things I didn't know exists (foot jobs) it's new and scary I'm not sure if I can do stuff like that I wouldn't even know how.
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Each person is different, but like everyone here is saying, talk to your partner and find out what they (and you) like. Don't be intimidated if you catch him staring at other feet; he picked you, so he's got a special status for your feet. Also, don't be afraid to push back if there's something you don't like...it's all give and take.
He doesn't just want your feet, he's just partial to them. One thing about feet is that it allows you to see the rest of the female body at the same time. Other parts you can only see half.
Just be open and share and you'll be fine.
If you have other questions, please let us know.
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. (Don't mean to sound to crude but I am being honest). So don't be too jealous. I'm pretty sure plenty of guys are also checking out your feet ![[Wink]](wink.gif)
