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I follow a class in university and there's this girl in my class, always in flip flop, dangling her feet and they look very good. The class is a very large group, so there's no way really to talk to her in private and obviously it's not an esy task. There's a forum for the class and I found her name and also her facebook..
What should I do.. write her on facebook anonymous.. or in the forum... I don't want to look creepy as well and I'm not sure, if she noticing me looking at her feet once in awhile...
Help lol! Any stories with a female classmate ?
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I understand you a young college student and when I was young in college I would have had the words to ask a fellow female class mate about her feet. I was out and about today in a store I saw this woman who work their and I complimented her about her feet. She said, oh yeah she thought she had ugly feet. I say they are pretty could I see the bottom she show me her wrinkled soles with a high arch. Now, I want to go back probably make a date to play with her feet.
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Best advice is to approach her, but not about her feet. Just tell her that you've noticed her and ask if she'd like to go out sometime. If she says yes and seems slutty, then go for it.
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A brief and casual face-to-face encounter is fairly indelible. The weather is always fair game for discussion (I can't tell you how many gates this has opened for me) or some other topic that affects the general local populace - or the class you share.
Don't be as innocuous as observing that there is a shiny orb in the sky nor as scintillating as a discussion of the formation of cumulus clouds.
Your introduction should be fairly open-ended but should wind up with some form of "What do you think?".
And then, you listen to her response like a Cold War interrogator. This will tell you much of what you want to know.
Leave feet out of it. That comes later.
I strongly agree with 5thgear just above.
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Take it SLOW, small talk, get to know her. We all know the objective is her feet and the crazy things you want to do with them. But if you want her to run for the hills then go for it, other than that start with small talk, coffee and maybe even flirt by giving her compliments. See where it goes from there.
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quote:Originally posted by footfetish_mania: What should I do..
I've read countless posts asking how a guy should approach a women. This makes me sort of sad in that it tells me that a lot of guys are not realizing their full potential. I have some time, so I wanted to offer some detailed advice that could probably help you, and hopefully others that may be struggling with this same question.
It sounds like you see this girl regularly in class. The hard part has been taken care of in that you have plenty of chances to engage her.
Here is what not to do: - Do not contact her on social media - Do not immediately ask her out - Do not walk right up to her and start talking
Your initial goal should not be to get with her sexually. It should be to gain attraction. There is a huge distinction between the two. Otherwise, you are just one guy in a sea of others in a university community that is trying to come on to her. Her guard goes up and you are done.
Instead, I want you to do the following: The next time you see her I want you to walk right by her fairly slowly. Make eye contact while smiling and say "hello", then KEEP ON WALKING. Be sure to hold eye contact for about 3 seconds, then look away. Make sure you smile. Rinse and repeat the next couple times you see her. Try not to engage in conversation just yet.
Next step: Every girl has an item of clothing or accessory that is unique to her. Could be a funky bracelet, odd hair clip, unique shoes. Whatever. She wears this for a reason. Walk up to her and compliment this item of clothing or accessory, but not her. For instance, "That bracelet is pretty cool. It suits you". You want a very small verbal exchange to occur. Why is this important? That "unique" item will usually have some sort of emotional tie to her. You want her to talk about that item because she will connect you with that emotion.
Finally: I want you to run into her outside of class. How? Find a commonality. Perhaps you are both part of Greek fraternal organizations. Perhaps she studies and hangs out at the same places that you do. Whatever, doesn't matter. When you do see her outside of class, she now knows you and will be much more open to talk to you. While talking to her, try to find something she is passionate about, such as a hobby. Ask questions about it and make her tell you about it. Have her talk about it for as long as you can. Why? Same reason as above. Her speaking about it will invoke passion, which is what you want her to feel while speaking to you. She will connect that emotional to your presence.
From here you ask her out.
This may seem like a long drawn out process, but it's really not. Start on a Monday and your talking to her privately by Friday. I'm sure you can take it from there.
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