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Fellas, in your experiences has it been easier to have sex with a woman or to get a footjob?
I would say the footjob is harder to get than sex. I typically ask for a footjob in place of a hand job, when a woman is against having sex. If she wants sex though there is no foot job unless she climaxes before I do.
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Its way way easier for me to get sex or head than an all-out footjob, but its mainly because I like to really take my time and get into it, and she has to take a shower afterwards.
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with my current girlfriend, she prefers giving me footjobs than handjobs. If she doesnt feel like having sex, she will always say "i wanna use my feet!". she has fun doing it too so i enjoy myself. If i want an all out fj or sex, she will do either. If i want feet play during sex, i can have it if i want.
I would say my girlfriend is a keeper. I've never had a girl so open about it.
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quote:Originally posted by beamont: with my current girlfriend, she prefers giving me footjobs than handjobs. If she doesnt feel like having sex, she will always say "i wanna use my feet!". she has fun doing it too so i enjoy myself. If i want an all out fj or sex, she will do either. If i want feet play during sex, i can have it if i want.
I would say my girlfriend is a keeper. I've never had a girl so open about it.
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I'm sure there's a logical explanation for this. Honestly for me, it's just easier to ask a woman to 'spread her toes' than it is to spread her legs. Trust me gents, only a few hundred women may think footjobs are sick & grotesque. Then again--the needs of the many, out weigh the needs of the few. I'm not involved in a relationship right now, and maybe that's the reason! Sex requires A LOT more intimacy. I can't speak for all the fellas--but gettin' laid, on a regular basis, takes a little extra effort for us shy guys.
quote:Originally posted by shomeyoT0ES: but gettin' laid, on a regular basis, takes a little extra effort for us shy guys.
Or even worse, when you're so shy that you freak out when you know a girl is flirting with you. Happened last night by someone quite attractive. So where is this myth that us guys are horny sleaze bags?
It also pisses me off because I simply should just flirt back, as celibacy IS quite boring.
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quote:Originally posted by shomeyoT0ES: I can't speak for all the fellas--but gettin' laid, on a regular basis, takes a little extra effort for us shy guys.
i try to get over my shyness, and some days it works and others it doesn't. i had this GORGEOUS girl come into my dept. one day, and i asked her if i could help her w/ anything and actually kinda flirted with her. shocked the hell out of me my biggest problem is that i see a hot girl, and think "she'll never go for a guy like me" and that's my biggest downfall. i've been told i'm a good looking guy before, but still....i don't know.
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quote:Originally posted by RJ82: i've been told i'm a good looking guy before, but still....i don't know.
Me too, enough to know I'm not exactly ugly, but I'm glad I'm not arrogant to actually let that give me more confidence as I know personality is what people go for and I'm always paranoid about my personality flaws!
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quote:Originally posted by RJ82: i've been told i'm a good looking guy before, but still....i don't know.
Me too, enough to know I'm not exactly ugly, but I'm glad I'm not arrogant to actually let that give me more confidence as I know personality is what people go for and I'm always paranoid about my personality flaws!
yeah i'm not the type to strut around like i'm God's gift to women, ya know? i see some guys that do that, think that just because they have muscles and all this that they're hot shit. i've been told numerous times it's all about personality, and that i have a great personality so i have that going for me at least and i'm not ugly by any stretch of the imagination, but still i just don't think these women would find me attractive and yet i don't know why sometimes i just wonder about myself Posts: 1290 | Registered: Feb 2007
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i was gonna say something, but i'm not going to. look back on my previous post if you wanna know why. Posts: 2128 | Registered: Jun 2006
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i try to get over my shyness, and some days it works and others it doesn't. i had this GORGEOUS girl come into my dept. one day, and i asked her if i could help her w/ anything and actually kinda flirted with her. shocked the hell out of me ![[Eek!]](eek.gif)
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