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I've been troubled by this question and the possible dilemma it offers.
Can a guy, obsessed with feet and footjobs, enter into marriage knowing that he will never derive any enjoyment from his wife's feet? Reason - she has ugly feet, and with those feet there is no desire for feet.
What are the repercussions of starving a foot lover of feet?
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If you're obsessed with feet, personally I think it's impossible to go without it. Luckily for me, I have other things to fill that "void" so I'm not constantly thinking about feet.
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quote:Originally posted by ozboy: Can a guy, obsessed with feet and footjobs, enter into marriage knowing that he will never derive any enjoyment from his wife's feet? Reason - she has ugly feet, and with those feet there is no desire for feet.
What are the repercussions of starving a foot lover of feet?
oh my, yes we have a real problem here. take it from a guy who can speak on behalf of all the obsessed foot guys around here. there is no way you'll be able to last long w/o the feet you enjoy most... the nectar of life so to speak.
if you do go without them, this will end up causing problems later cuz you will be wanting to lick and sniff the feet of every hot footed lady that passes in front of you with open toed shoes.
now imagine how pissed the wife would be when realizes all this. she will divorce you and take half your money. that will mean less money to spend on women's feet for later too.
save yourself the heartache and find you those feet you will enjoy, cuz lemme tellya from a footguy's perspective: we need those feet, and we need'em bad. depriving us of such is like trying to neuter your pet with just your imagination.
don't fool yourself into something that most likely is not gonna work. you need those feet and you will need them even more when your wife's feet cannot satisfy dem pervy needs. i bet my cum on it!
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I think a person with a foot fetish can survive.. it would be very very hard but with all the internet foot stuff out there and WU links, it makes it easier to make it through the hard times
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I'm with footgirl on this.. obsession... you can't do without the object of desire without therapy.. or the object!
as one who isn't 'obsessed'... i think i do fine and will continue to do fine! (yes.. there is a bit of help with the web)
control is the key... and not letting the need run you but you running the need.
even with a wife who is willing to play along, she may not always want to play along at your pace, your appetite, your time, your moment... so knowing how to give and take.. and holding off is going to help keep a marriage happy.. if not, she leaves you and at minimum, half your money!
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When I met my wife I didn't like her feet. I like long and slender and hers are kind of short and stubby. Once married I started to be attracted to her feet not because of how they look but what they mean. I can't be submissive to any human being alone - I have to make her representative of some noble ideal like love or destiny or loyalty to my vow. But how else could I ever focus my love on one body? Nobody's that beautiful. It has to be linked to an idea. It has to be linked to a person - the eye-to-eye, toe-to-toe part of the relationship. If you get that right, this might work its way out later but it might take years. Would you be like the guy that has to stop drinking because he's in love with a recovering alcoholic? If so, I hope she'd be forgiving of your lapses, because there will be some. I tried to act nonchalant, working a little toe sucking and footjobbing into the old trip around the world, not letting on that for me it was the best part. Eventually, we grew apart and divorced after 5 years. We never talked about foot fetish so it wasn't like we disagreed. It was just that me wanting more and feeling reluctant to say so vs. her really not thinking much about it but having other issues I was missing became one more on a list of reasons we were on different planets.
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quote:Originally posted by ozboy: I've been troubled by this question and the possible dilemma it offers.
Can a guy, obsessed with feet and footjobs, enter into marriage knowing that he will never derive any enjoyment from his wife's feet? Reason - she has ugly feet, and with those feet there is no desire for feet.
What are the repercussions of starving a foot lover of feet?
Can a sex lover survive without sex? Whatever the pleasure, im pretty sure being in a partnership without it wouldnt be so good.
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I think it depends on the feet. If they're deformed, then no way! But is it a problem that can be taken care of simply with a good pedicure? If that's the case, that would be fine with me.
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I would say mos def not. like T said you will be lusting after every woman who passes with sexy shoes or even flip flops. The wife will divorce and then comes hell.
quote:Originally posted by N2feet23: I think a person with a foot fetish can survive.. it would be very very hard but with all the internet foot stuff out there and WU links, it makes it easier to make it through the hard times
I see where you're coming from, but one can only enjoy so much of video clips, & two-dimensional photos. The flip-side to that of course is, the wife finds out you're spending ALL your "quality time" downloading foot pics! How's that gonna make her feel?
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I think even though there are forums and tons of videos availabe, the desire to actually taste and touch feet will overwhelm you and you will end up getting feet from someone else. That is probably why you read about the creepy foot guy in newspapers or on tv. Got tired of dreaming or watching and needed the real thing.
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