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Just wondering how many people here are actually open about their fetish?
If you are married or have a girlfriend, does she know about it? Do your friends know about it? Does anyone know about it? Have you kept it a secret or do you not mind people knowing?
I only ask because I have to admit I am rather embarrassed about my foot fetish and have never told anyone and don't dare let my mates know!
It's only via the anonymity of the internet that I ever discuss it, and that's only since I joined this forum a few weeks ago.
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I'll just say that I'm as open about it as most guys are open about liking breasts and ass. That is to say, I consider my foot fetish so perfectly normal that I don't care who knows. And in my own experience, anybody whose found out about my fetish has also treated it as normal.
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My girlfriend knows(obvisouly)indulges me to the fullest with it too,my friends know..although it was unplanned that they knew(fucking google search bar) but now taht they know its no big deal!
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i've been super secretive about it until about 3 years ago. then.. i've started to open up, but selectively. today.. i'm not as open as last year... but still open. more folks know that i love feet than any other period of my life. i'm adjusting to it.
for the most part.. folks are cool. however.. a few are pains in the butt.. and i just move/shift away from their negative vibe. i keep it super tight secret from family.. though some suspect.. they really don't know.. and i hope to keep it that way!
my fiance knows and sometimes endulges me. some friends endugle me (photo wise and massage wise). for the most part.. I do keep a lid on it though.. only because it could affect my career in the long term.
if it comes up in conversation.. that is cool.. if it doesn't.. i don't sweat it. i don't rub it in anyone's face. i'm no longer embarassed (or as easily).. but at times.. i can get red-faced over it.
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My friend a bible piece of advise.........people always going to talk trash about you no matter what, if it's your sexual orientation or your sexual tastes, or the color of your shirt, or what ever, i think in my opinion that you should be just cool with it, you don't have to say to everybody hey i'm a foot fetish guy, no man, if it's the case in a conversation with a girl or with someone you can say that you like womans feet like all guys say i love womans tits, or woman ass or pussy, it's the same freaking thing, the key it's just to be cool and you expresing about it as a normal thing, i like womans feet, don't say you have a foot fetish, that's like the "scientific term for our orientation" and most of the people will freak about that term, also you don't have to say it out loud to your mates, or family or girls, if the subject comes up, give your point of view.
in case you have a girlfriend man tell her open that you like womans feet, tell her, hey you have nice feet, you know someday you see her in flip flops or other open shoes, don't tell her oh what a pair of peds i want to cum all over them or smell them, jajajaja man takes time to be accepted by your girl or wife, in my case i have to say proud that she likes a lot when i kiss her feet, or smell them or more things that i do, but it has been a process of being honest about it, that's the key brother, that's my advise.
hope it works for you, or at least take it as an experience of a fellow brother of this comunity.
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i haven't really told too many people about my fetish, just a few friends and only because i knew they wouldn't say anything. i don't know if it's so much that i'm embarrassed or i just am not sure how people would react. there's a few women at work i would like to tell, just to see if anything might come of it, but as of yet i haven't.
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only my wife for sixteen years knows, i would not and will not tell anyone else. i like to keep it private, just between my wife and i. I told her about my fetish soon after we stated going out.
To those who have kept it from your wives/girlfriends, do it, tell them, your might be missing too much, feet that is.
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quote:Originally posted by FarmerFred: If you are married or have a girlfriend, does she know about it?
Though we were married for many years before I told her, my wife's been amazing receptive to it. One of the best things I ever did. You should never keep that kind of secret from your wife.
quote:Do your friends know about it?
Though I have friends i spend some time with each week- we're not really close friends that are frequently doing things together. I spend the time with my wife. Consequently we really don't discuss each other's private lives. Were someone to breach the subject however I would not be afraid to share my views and likes because there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.
quote:Does anyone know about it? Have you kept it a secret or do you not mind people knowing?
I have kept it a secret but would not mind people knowing. No one else in my family (or friends as mentioned above) know about it. I'd handle any inquisition about it by a family member like I would with my friends, as detailed above.
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I'm quite about my fetish, I told my wife before we started dating, and she was very open to it. We now engage in foot play almost every night. She did tell her best friend though, her friend didn't seem to mind.
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quote:Originally posted by FarmerFred: Just wondering how many people here are actually open about their fetish?
If you are married or have a girlfriend, does she know about it? Do your friends know about it? Does anyone know about it? Have you kept it a secret or do you not mind people knowing?
I only ask because I have to admit I am rather embarrassed about my foot fetish and have never told anyone and don't dare let my mates know!
It's only via the anonymity of the internet that I ever discuss it, and that's only since I joined this forum a few weeks ago.
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all my girlfriends or girls ive hooked up with have known...honestly i dont see how some of u guys keep it from your girlfriends or wives especially, or why you would keep it from them. as for my friends..they know..i never really hid it from them but didnt make it a big deal either. they definitely know after this time we were at a party, a girl asked me to suck her toes and not privately. Its worth it to not keep it a secret, cuz i've had girl friends ask me for foot massages..show me their feet, etc... maybe its cuz im a younger generation (only 20) that i feel this way, but i think girls from my generation are more open than they used to be.
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russ... you said it right.. your generation is more open to feet than any other!!!
i've got friends in their 20's.. 30's and 40's. what i've learned.... 20's is most open to it.. even in casual settings. 30's it's more individual... and has to be a more intimate trust situation.. 40's.. women are more confident in themselves... and they appreciate the touch more... but also get it far less. if they trust you and have no hangup about it and are single.. you may be able to touch.
gals in their 20's.. i don't have to be that close to them.. as long as they don't think i'm a creep.. i can almost do anything to their feet (never tried more than a massage and pic though)
RPM
p.s back on topic.. i live in a religiously conservative arena... any sort of fetish.. man.. spells major headaches in all walks of life!!!
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I'm open about mine. My mrs knows and is aware and all my mates do too.
With your mates just bring it up over your next drinkin' session or night out wit the boys. Tell them straight up, They'll probably look at you with a weird look and laugh and probably tease you all night about it. But in the mornin' you'll feel much better that it's out in the open as from experience. Later like a few weeks later a mate came out of his foot-closet too but it was funny, he thanked me for bringin' mine up.
With the mrs is a lil' tougher. I let her in slowly. While were fucking in the missionary position I would lick her feet and suck her toes payin' more attention to em'. Then while she's watchin' tv or on the computer. I would just play with em' and touch em' but only lil' by lil' gettin' more touchy touchy. Then I massaged her feet and started to kiss em'. More and more til she got the hint. Now I'm full on unloadin juice on her feet whenever I want....
Just lettin' you know 1 of my experiences. Hope this helps
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