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^ maybe thats why she gave him her blessing so easily, lol. youre helping her out. Even though you think its awkward, does it turn you on more now that you know youre basically in the clear?
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You asked for advice in this thread. I will offer mine and I want you to know that I am writing these things because I want to lend support to you. So here goes.
I think you have gotten yourself into a pattern of deviant behavior that is dangerous to your mind and your relationships with women.
You clearly have guilt regarding this whole situation and it appears clear from what you have said in some of these paragraphs, that you have had guilt about this from the start. This is normal. Too many people subscribe to all of this "shades of grey" shit when it comes to right and wrong. Stealing her shoes is victimizing her. Victimizing her is wrong. Therein lies the guilt you feel.
In my experience guilt comes from dishonesty. You feel dishonest and the proof of this is that you have always stolen her shoes and not asked for them. Taking without asking is dishonest and unless you are a psychopath you are going to feel guilt about this.
I suggest that you get out of the house a lot more and start pursuing a healthy relationship with some other or some new people. Spending time in your locked room jacking off to and licking your aunts shoes is not healthy social behavior. It may be fun, but it is not healthy. Almost every girl would have a hard time with this whole thing. If you end up finding someone you want to marry and you marry her and also have a secret stash of stolen women's shoes hidden somewhere you are not going to be happy... you will just have more and more guilt. It would be healthy to start pursuing a normal relationship with a woman that you are interested in and may start to fall in love with. When you do find that special someone the best thing you can do for yourself is to develop a healthy relationship that includes your foot/shoe fetish.
Guilt makes people do all sorts of ridiculous and rotten things. My advice you you then is to eliminate guilt in your life. Eliminating guilt always starts with honesty.
I hope you find this post useful.
Are you dating anyone now?
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I think you can indulge your fetish a bit, and still pursue a "normal" reationship. When you let the fetish rule your life or even your best judgement, then you have a problem. However, if you could find that special someone that would include your shoe/foot indulgence in your relationship......ah, then my friend, you are knocking at heavens door.
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thanks for everyones input, catsman I have normal relationships with females, but I've never really told any girls about my fetish. I've sucked on a girls toes but high school girls are pretty immature, and since I'm still in high school im stuck with em. However the last couple of weeks have been great I'm closer than ever with my aunt and she has even bought me a foot fetish magazine. But I have a new problem... She seems to be too open with my fetish. The other day she had one of her friends over/neighbor for tea, and I don't know how it came up but at the end I just knew this lady was offering me a bunch of her old shoes. This is were it gets bad, this woman is overweight and not attractive to me. I don't want to offend my aunt or her friend by saying no, yet I really don't want this womans shoes in my room. What do you guys think I should do in this situation?
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thanks for everyones input, catsman I have normal relationships with females, but I've never really told any girls about my fetish. I've sucked on a girls toes but high school girls are pretty immature, and since I'm still in high school im stuck with em. However the last couple of weeks have been great I'm closer than ever with my aunt and she has even bought me a foot fetish magazine. But I have a new problem... She seems to be too open with my fetish. The other day she had one of her friends over/neighbor for tea, and I don't know how it came up but at the end I just knew this lady was offering me a bunch of her old shoes. This is were it gets bad, this woman is overweight and not attractive to me. I don't want to offend my aunt or her friend by saying no, yet I really don't want this womans shoes in my room. What do you guys think I should do in this situation?
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not unique very very very very weird, wierd stuff is not supposed to happen to me. Im just a average joe shmoe, why did my aunt have to open her mouth WHY!!!! we had a good thing going
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