quote:Originally posted by MitchC: I'm sorry to hear about how your gf reacted toward this, pedicurer. The "straight up no" bothers me. What that basically says to me is that this is a woman who isnt willing to compromise about something that is important to her boyfriend. I would be very disturbed by this. I would sit down and have a discussion with her, when the two of you are not into sex. I think you need to tell her that the foot fetish is an important aspect to you, and, that as your girlfriend, if she cares for you, you really need her to compromise about certain things. If she cant understand that, then, I hate to say, she might not be the woman for you. If it were me, and a girl absolutely refused to even compromise with me on foot worship, that would tell me that she really didnt care about my needs or desires, and I couldnt stay with someone like that for very long.
Good Luck. I hope you can work something out with her.
Mitch
I completely agree. I would also mention to her that you would be willing to pleasure her, but only if she is willing to let you do things you enjoy. If she still won't compromise, ditch the bitch. Like you said, you just started dating her. I can't imagine that you're that committed to each other...
Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
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quote:Originally posted by Cain: Get her drunk and then she won't even care...
Thats one way to do it, plus she'll be more open to it at the time.
Agreed, this is also a quick and dirty method to getting a women to do anything. However, it's only a temporary solution.
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You'll never be truly satisfied unless you can get her into it. If you can't, find someone else.
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