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Something else: Does anybody know why the Student Feet guy was banned from The Mousepad a few days ago? (he at least left The Pad because the mods keep deleting all his posts for some mysterious reason)
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Obviously the answer to your question unfortunately is- yes it can, because it has (at least temporarily), based on the circumstances that you related to us.
In my opinion, her reaction was simply and clearly her maternal protection instincts kicking in. Her reaction was indeed very strong, which leads me to believe that 1)there's trust issues between you and her or 2)she and/or one of the girls have experienced some type of abuse.
I agree with Ladaemon, there's probably very, very few guys that don't have at least one "questionable site" (from a woman's perspective) on their computer. Consequently you have to examine the reactions:
The first concern, which may also point to a trust issue, is why is she checking browser history and cookies. It very well could be that she's checking up on the girls internet use, if they use that computer. If she's checking up on you, that's a trust issue and something you'll need to deal with.
As most people know you can clear cookies and browser history- which to a basic computer user will not allow them to see where you've been. But as most people SHOULD know- that does not totally erase the browser cache- the information is still on you computer AND there are also programs out there that parents and wives are installing covertly to track children's/husband's computer use. So, if there is trackig software on your computer or your computer is ever taken to a computer repair shop- your browsing history may be discovered. Computer shops turn in MANY child pornographers. (I'm not saying that you're one or course)
I use a totally free program called IE Privacy Keeper (IE for Internet Explorer). It's a highly customizable program that can do government level security cleaning or folders and files. I don't go to that extreme, the higher the level of cleaning, the longer it takes to do it. But it will clean the cookies, browser caches, recently used files, etc. very quickly- on demand; at browser shut-down; or computer shutdown. Keep in mind however that, if your wife is computer savy and discoveres the prgram- she may ask you about that as well.
Whether you decide to "kick the habit" (and there are ways for modern psychiatry to accomplish that) or "cover your tracks" is your decision.
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thanks for all your imput, gentelman. I must add to my story though. Not only did my gf know about my fetish right after we met, but she indulged in it. Like I said, she is very sexy and very much a nympho. I can't tell you the things she did, or allowed me to do with her feet. xxx, hell no. I'm talking about xxxxx. I just crossed the line, in her mind and now I am single for it and wants the world to think I'm a quote " closet perv".
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Wow, I am at a loss for words to all that happened to you, but all I can say is she did indeed over-react in all she did and contacted. She should have tried talking about it to you rationally since you had been in a relationship for so long and was so open physically to you as well. I do not understand why she reacted so harshly.
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I think it was an overreaction. Just be more discreet with your fetish until you are mosre secure in the relationship and have earned that persons trust and know what they like. Relax and do not worry the fetish will not ruin your life. With my career specifically i have to control my fetish or it would ruin my life so there are ways to integrate it without it being unhealthy.
quote:Originally posted by mrplastics: I must add to my story though. Not only did my gf know about my fetish right after we met, but she indulged in it.
perhaps she did not ruin the relationship over the fetish part then, and instead, was probably upset about the youthful age of the girls on the site.
some women see this in of itself as a problem. i think charlie sheen's ex used to talk about his lolita fantasies around the time of their painful messy public divorce.
with that being said (and knowing she accepts foot fetish), i would definitely say it is not your foot fetish causing any ruin.
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