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hi ive been in a beutiful relationship for the past 3 months, the problem is early in the relationship she told me she didnt like people touching her feet, so that was hard on me, and shes always wearing flip flops so it was pretty difficult for me to hide my desires, it took me 2 months to tell her i liked her feet(she is the first and only person to know this) and she didt say a word, so i dont know what she thinks. so for the past month she's been aware of my fetish, she lets me play with her toes now and then, but most of the time she doesnt let me touch her feet, and shes been like.. teasing me, maybe im over-reacting, but she knows i want those feet and now she's always barefooted, whenever she can she kicks her shoes off and goes barefooted, putting her feet on my lap, or wiggling her toes againt my leg, or putting her bare feet on the table in front of the tv when im watching it, before she knew i liked her feet, she never was bare footed, not once. and never did any of those things. its really very hard for me to hold myslef to my desires.. im confused, dont know what to do, i dont know if she really dislikes people touching her feet, but likes attention on them, if she's just teasing me or what.. and i dont want to be pushy about it, dont want to get her uncomfortable what do you guys think/suggest
anyway thanks for stopping by my thread sorry for the grammar, im mexican and never really payed attention to my eglish classes cheers!
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just tell her that ur really into feet and u would like to try it out. be smooth and romantic about it, i've convinced plenty of girls who were taboo to the whole idea. start with a massage and light kisses and just be straight up
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There's only one way to find out. Try these...
- Next time she props her feet on your lap, start massaging her feet. Go slow, don't immediately start slobbering her feet. Start with a foot rub and watch her reaction.
- Go to Bath & Body, the Body Shop, etc and buy a foot care basket (pumice stone, foot scrub, foot lotion) and offer to give her a foot massage when she comes home from work tired. I can't see her turning down a massage after a long day of work.
- Take her shoe shopping for sexy sandals. All women love shoes.
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Take your time, don't go overboard, but continue trying to access her feet. My guess is that she'll change over time and become much more comfortable with you enjoying her feet.
I never thought I'd be able to touch my wife's feet in any way- for most of our marriage I didn't- because she's so ticklish. But she's taken "mind over matter" and now let's me do anything I want with her feet (touching, rubbing, licking, sucking her toes, FJ's, cumming on them) without never a complaint about it tickling.
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Hola! si , se lo que es eso.. asi son las chicas muchas veces dicen que no.. pero en realidad si quieren jaja Yo diria que fueras poco a poco , como te recomendaron alla arriba empieza tal vez por darle un masajito y ve si puedes llegar mas lejos, buena suerte!
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I agree with feetluvr. You just have to take your time and start off slow with foot massages. Let her get comfortable with you touching her feet on a regular basis. From there, you can work your way up to other things.
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thanks everyone, i guess ill give it a try.. get her comfortablee and hopee that she understands mee thanks y gracias tmb al paisanok me contesto jaja
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Been dating her 3 months and no feet yet? Dude if you're gf doesn't let you have her feet what are you doing with her? You might break up with her tomorrow and no memories of having her feet to jack off to? Don't understand it.
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She is definitely teasing you-maybe she does want to see you beg!
But you have to give it a shot. If she reacts bad you can shrug it off and say you were kidding or just trying something new. Don't new lovers explore each other bodies?
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when i first got with my girlfriend she was pretty much the same in the shy sense!
not so much the teasing however she may have been doing it without realising.
my adivce is to persist. it took me andmy gf some time to get used to the foot activity. weve been on and off with but now she's totally comfortable with it.
give it time and if she doesnt acceot it AND continues to to tease you then you have a right to be upsett as you both have an obligation to please each other!
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I agree with the others. Take the time to massage them and caress them. Sometimes a few drinks will help her relax too. I mean don't get her shitfaced just get her to relax.
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Seriously, I never thought much of my feet til B. So... go slow and if she has questions, be honest and not all macho. lol When we as women are into our man, we WANT to learn and please.
Be calm.
Now, even though I like the suggestion of giving her a pedicure yourself, offer to send her to get one too. I, personally, have gone to the same woman for so long, and I am completely in love with her. I sit back in the massage chair, close my eyes and even fanticize about her when she does my feet. AND I WOULD HAVE never admitted that a few months back... so... find what gets her going... and run with it!
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Some really good advice above. I missed it if it was mentioned: pressure. Any perceived pressure and this will kill any hope you have of persuading her to indulge your foot desires.
Take your time; don't try for results any time soon, think in terms of months. Remember, "Rome wasn't built in a day" (whatever the hell that means).
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